i dated this guy for a few months i gave him my everything i love him so much .. we never broke up he moved out of state wen he was about 2 came bck and marry me (he had an afear) he found out that the other grl was prgnat ...he cryed and ask me for forgiveness he broke my heart but i ofer him only my frndship after the baby was born i changed my num and i hvnt heard from him in almos 2years but i miss him so much i have dated but never loved like i still love him .... help please....
2007-12-16 10:52:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Help you see that you've been neglecting yourself for so long that all a guy has to do is show you a few months worth of attention, CHEAT ON YOU, and 2 years later you still hold a flame? IS that what you want me to do? I mean even in the most BEAUTIFUL of lights that we can shine on this, he is impulsive and weak! I mean he cheats on you with someone else AND gets them pragnat, thats TWO mistakes back-2-back and this guy WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU!!!!! So no matter what he is a lost cat not sure of whats good for him or whats bad, and you poor girl find the love a fella like this as good? You feel the way he chose HOW to love you was justifiable? Then WHY do you sit their in indescion still if you still do feel that you love him so much? Go ahead look his name up, go searching for him, but I bet, the fire that burns, doesn't burn heavy enough anymore, your just reaching, because I'm guessing your hurting for other reasons and this was the one time you felt happy, one time you had some hopes, I'm sorry, but you deserver more.....
but such is the nature of the human heart, until you find better, you'll always reach for this guy..... help would be me forcing you to see that you need better for yourself then this.... then pining for a guy that strait BURNED you....
2007-12-18 02:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is going on interior you? you're saying the guy is your ex yet he desires to have a sprint one with you and for which you go with help ?jointly as you're saying you nevertheless love him, you the two grew to become ex's for a reason and do you think of having a sprint one with him is going to deliver you the two decrease back at the same time? All it gets you is a sprint one that comprise your ex,then what do you do.while you at the instant are not sturdy sufficient to be his lady pal , what makes you sturdy sufficient to be a mom of young little ones with him.do no longer enable the thoughts you have for this guy make you throw away complication-free sense. in case you do ,you're in an exceedingly couple of minutes going to remorseful approximately it and choose you had no longer thrown warning to the wind.
2016-11-27 22:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋