Singles & Dating - 16 December 2007

I just found out today that my boyfriend of 3 years is going behind my back with another girl. And he even saved her number under his friends name in his cell phone and now that i know the truth ALL the time "he" called my bf and my bf didnt pick up was becuase it was HER..... he told her that he wants to hook up with her... he did this to me a year and a half ago and nothign happened just dangerously flirting with another girl behind my back..... but this time its worse...a lot worse

i dont know what to do...i usually call my mother about this crap but i dont want her to hate him... should i breka up with him? i dont nkow what to do or who to talk to....would it be completly crazy to call his mom and talk to her? i am so sad...he is my bestfriend and means everything to me....what do i do :(

2007-12-16 10:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl. weve been looking at each other for awhile (a year). we were both shy of each other. we finally broke the ice on myspace. we talked on there for 3 weeks and i told her i like her. she was stunned because we never spoke in person. i understand now i was a fool. she knows everything about me, my past, my life, some of my secrets only she knows because i told her. a month passed and we started talking again on myspace. weve never spoke on the phone, but she has heard my voice from one voicemail i sent her. we are friendly now but i sense she is not herself with me, maybe a bit shy. were taking the friendship thing slowly. i do not bombard her with messages. i give her space. how should i go about this? i really like evrything about her.the good and the bad. please help me?

2007-12-16 10:11:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my girl friend im always thinking about her and i do, nd she told me to prove it, how do i prove that i am?

2007-12-16 10:10:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do you think that she needs improvement... if so why or in what?

2007-12-16 10:05:22 · 4 answers · asked by Me! 2

Theirs thi boy i like in my science class and well i think he likes me back but i am not shor. How can i tell and how can i show him that i like him?

2007-12-16 10:04:18 · 1 answers · asked by Bethany R 2

do you think he needs work in that area.. why/why not?

2007-12-16 10:03:18 · 7 answers · asked by Me! 2

I just barely meet this guy about three weeks ago at first I did not really like him in a boyfriend girlfriend kinda way but now. Wow, I think I am already falling in love with him. I think about him 24-7 and just love everything about him. Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone in such a short period of time (three weeks)?

2007-12-16 10:02:34 · 32 answers · asked by Marie 3

To love and care for another human being we must start by loving and respecting ourself first

2007-12-16 09:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by georgewarren93 5

I met this amazing boy, and the next day he told me he liked me. When I would talk to him, it was like I saw noone in the room but him. I have heard that he is a 'womanizer' but I really think we have something. Then he moved, and the night before he left, we didnt do anything, because I told him that I wasnt ready. (He is four years older than me)

After he moved, three months after texting all day and talking all night. We planned him to visit twice a year, and he told me he loved me. (Not in a ILY! way. Things got all quiet, and then he quietly said "I know I love you.") Yesterday we decided to have a relationship, after wondering if we were dating for months, we took the plunge.


How do I keep it fun and exciting?


Oh, and he moved 1000 miles away.

2007-12-16 09:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

describe your dream girl

2007-12-16 09:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

is she more likely to treat you like a child?

2007-12-16 09:46:59 · 4 answers · asked by artiyom 1

okay im in a pretty frusterating situation...
i have just begun to like two guys, lets call them C and S. i've only liked them for a week or so.
the problem is that S is my ex (we went out twice). and C is his best friend.
and the worst problem is that they both like me back.
now i have to choose between the two... C is a good guy and i just started getting to know him better. S has matured a lot since we last broke up, and i know hes a different person.
so what am i supposed to do? has anyone been in a situation similar to this?
please help...

2007-12-16 09:41:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 09:40:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im in middle school i really like this boy he has never asked any 1 out and i liked him since last year so how should i ask him

2007-12-16 09:39:00 · 3 answers · asked by cutie <3 <3 2

My friend and I both like this guy, she's known/liked him longer, but he REALLY likes me. I don't know what he thinks about her, but he's always txting her about how he hopes I don't hate him (I'm so shy that I tend come off cold), but also that he really wants sex and that we should have a threesome.
Anyway, he's got the idea that on Wednesday we're going over to his house to have a threesome, and my friend's been txting ideas into his head. He called me up about it and I told him that I wouldn't do anything serious with her there, so he told me to come over alone some other time. I mean, we're both legal, so its fine, and I wouldn't mind doing anything with him. Here's the problem: I'm way too shy, I have no experience with relationships at all, and I'm paranoid about his condom breaking and STD's. Also, I'm worried that on Wednesday she'll get serious with him; what am I supposed to do? Sit there and watch? I even had a nightmare about it!

2007-12-16 09:35:57 · 11 answers · asked by x_solunaida_x 2

This guy I like is driving me CRAZY! I'll be standing by my locker and he'll poke me on my shoulder (more closer to the neck). I'll look and he'll just be walking by with his friend as if he didn't just poke me. It took me awhile to figure out it was him (you know, with 47892 people in the hallway), but I'm sure now. Why is he doing this? If it was for attention wouldn't he be a little more obvious that it was him? Or is he just a jerk?

btw: this has happened at least ten times. I've barely talked to him and he sits behind me in class. He seems like a really nice person but I have trust issues...

2007-12-16 09:30:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl i know since more than three years we always talk and i have her like a friend, sister ... i stand by her and i am always there when she need me and so is she . Lately i start ignoring her and not talkin to her anymore or even reply to her messages and soo .. etc .
thats all after she told me that she's falling in love with me and she'd not live without me!! HERE IS THE PROBLEM ACTUALLY ... i Never thought about her as a lover or a love of my life , i like and have her as a SISTER ONLY . she's totally NOT my kind of girls! .. she's not what i am looking for, she totally has TOTAL different thoughts and another different way to live life !!!

NOW, I have no IDEA how to tell her to leave me alone, i really dont want to hurt her ... but at the same time i dont want her to be my life love! :(

and yeah i know i am being pathetic! so yeah .

2007-12-16 09:29:07 · 30 answers · asked by Alian 1

what makes you feel bad about yourself in a relationship?..what hurts you the most?..Explain your answer.

2007-12-16 09:27:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 14. My boyfriend is 16. We are crazy about eachother. But are we "inlove"? Its hard to tell. But if we are "inlove" am I to young?

2007-12-16 09:24:15 · 11 answers · asked by yr_mommas_ugly 1

I don't understand, I thought I was over this girl and that I didn't like her anymore. But whenever her friends tell me that she kissed another guy or something, it really gets me mad and kinda jealous, why is this happening? Does this mean I still like her?

2007-12-16 09:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by chumptheory 2

k so i let my boyfriend go below the waist with me once, i mean i had clothes on but he was rubbing me down there. how do i keep him from doing it next time we are making out, i'm not ready for that. besides telling him, is there something i can do?

2007-12-16 09:21:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

After you have sex and you use a condom, if you wanna have sex again, what do you do with the condom? Do you throw it away, or flush it, or use it again, or what??

2007-12-16 09:17:32 · 15 answers · asked by Lucy loved life... 1

I recently asked out a friend of mine. She said that I am a wonderful person but she wants to hang out with me more and see what happens. The next day she said she had talked to her dad about me because she "needs permission to go on dates and stuff". In texts she has also started referring to me as "my dear" or "babe". I have always frequently complimented her and now she has started to do the same to me. At first I thought this was just her being nice, but she tells me that she talks about me to her friends. I am almost positive that she does like me, at least a little(correct me if I am wrong).
I already plan on continuing to compliment her and keep her close as a good friend, and still make it obvious that I like her, but what do I do about asking her out? Do I just wait it out and see if she brings it up? Or do I wait for a while and then ask again?

2007-12-16 09:17:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated when i was a freshman in high school (im a junior now) for like 2 months, and for a while we were friends again until about 3 weeks ago when we stoped talking to each other! She called earlier today and i didn't awnser it (ive been by myself all day), and then about a half hour ago my friend came over and was like 'here, someone left a present for you!" and he gave me a christmas gift bag from my ex-gf that had been left on the porch!
Now i fell really bad, since it never even occoured to me to get her anything, and she got me something even though we don't really talk anymore, i want to get her someting to but i don't want to make it seem like im doing it just because she did, what do you think i should do? Thanks!

2007-12-16 09:11:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes I just wig out about dying.....I heard it goes away with age.......I just can't believe one day I will stop and be put into the ground. I do believe we will meet our loved ones again tho.

2007-12-16 09:10:37 · 30 answers · asked by p-nut 1

I am really insecure about a gap in between my teeth. it's not huge, you can't even see it form a little distance away. You can see that it's there though. it's just wide enough to go all the way up the 2 front teeth.

Honestly, you wont hurt my feelings, do you guys care alot about that when looking for a guy?

2007-12-16 09:10:34 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

gosh i love this boy so much. he tells me he loves me alot, and stuff on the phone && in person. well when its just us. but when he gets with his friends, he acts like hedoesnt like me. hes just stupid&& he talks to me but not like usuall.
hes in ninth grade, im in eighth.
any ideas as to what i can say to him.
or what i should do.
thanks so much>3.

2007-12-16 09:01:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so the guy that absoulutly adore finally is intrested in me (thats what he tells ALLL my friends) but now nethier of us can barely look at eachother in the hall without getting nervous. For example he was like cheacking me out the other day and i got so nervous i had to look away and like i was soo scared. How do i get the courage to start a conversation? now what do i do since he likes me? Help??!

2007-12-16 08:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been goin out wit diz boy for about 2 year on nd off nd now i found somebody else
nd really like ,so idk i want to be wit both of them. i have only had sex wit one person so dats hard??

2007-12-16 08:57:09 · 54 answers · asked by honeybear 1

me an my boyfrien have been goin out for 6 months and we havent even kissed yet! we both have talked about it but we just never have. would it be bad for me to kiss him? should i just wait for him to make the move??

2007-12-16 08:55:08 · 34 answers · asked by ~*Georgia Babii*~ 2