k so i let my boyfriend go below the waist with me once, i mean i had clothes on but he was rubbing me down there. how do i keep him from doing it next time we are making out, i'm not ready for that. besides telling him, is there something i can do?
2007-12-16 09:21:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put a razorblade between your lips
2007-12-16 09:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Caity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take his hand and hold it, lace your fingers through it. Its a subtle hint, but being sweet in the process. If he asks why, just shake your head gently, if he asks again say "I'm not ready," smile, and kiss him again. Make it comfortable rather than forceful. As long as you prove to him that you still want him, just not for him to do that, then he'll be okay.
2007-12-16 17:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes down there, move his hand to a different spot on your body, if he questions just kiss him again. And if he askes questions just tell him you two haven't really discussed it and don't know if you're ready.
2007-12-16 17:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move his hand away from there if you don't want to tell him..i guess that's the only thing you really can do.lol.
i would say the best thing is to just tell him.let him know you're not ready yet.he needs to respect your boundaries or the relationship won't work.
2007-12-16 17:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by cuteycourt719 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just push his hand away. Shake your head "no." Say, "This is what turns me on." Kiss him. He may be doing it because he thinks you like it. If you tell him you don't he should stop. Men want to turn you on. If you look at him like, "No thanks", he shouldn't still want to do it. Besides, you can always tell him, if I wanted that done, I'd do it myself!
2007-12-16 18:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not ready for that next step, he should understand, if u does not then it means he just wants that, but tell him no and that when you are ready you will let him know, i hope you y'all are not minors
2007-12-16 17:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by MARKY MARXX 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's third and you slap his hand and say "No"
He will say "we did before..."
You will say"we shouldn't have then, and we won't now..."
It will kill the mood.. but you will gain a lot of knowledge about your BF by the reaction you get ....
2007-12-16 17:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab his hand, or stop. Just move away & if he's not a complete idiot he'll get the picture.
2007-12-16 17:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling him and moving his hand won't work because you allowed it to happen already. Guys don't go backwards they progress foward. Either let it happen or dump him.
2007-12-16 17:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
while making out just move his hand and hold hands with his and just do that or move his hand to your waist everytime you mkae out
2007-12-16 17:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he tries to put his hand there, just casually brush it away or hold on to it.
2007-12-16 17:23:01 · answer #11 · answered by śÃŃĐУ Ļáמξ SUCKS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋