Singles & Dating - 14 December 2007

Hi everyone
My buddy at work has had this girl on the brain for months now
but she always flited with the other guys and avoided him etc etc,
Well anyway he got over it and moved on now she confesses that her best friend told her to flirt with other guys to get him wanting her even more but when he didn't bite she had to come clean. should i tell my buddy she actually got the thing for him or stay away

2007-12-14 23:58:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

so here goes...
She knows I have a thing for her but we're not together. She went to her dad's place for the winter and we really have no method of communication for the time being except for e-mails and she only gets to do so every ever so often. Our conversations and e-mails our usually very casual..nothing attached, more on making each other laugh by telling each other what's been going on with our lives (I don't know if she can feel the tension coming from my part though).
Anyway, it takes her a week or a few days to read and reply to my email. After a few times of doing so, she sends me one that says i miss you. The email only bore those words but I felt a lot from that email, like she cant wait until we see each other again and stuff.
Is it just me or is she telling me she feels the same way i do?

2007-12-14 23:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

you slept with them, then you realise that you did not love them and you just liked them alot.and how can you ever trust you feelings again?

2007-12-14 23:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

I ask because sometimes you see a person look really nice, then you see them with a new hairstyle or in a hat or a worse photo and they look terrible

So my question is, is it possible for a person to be both attractive and unattractive physically?

2007-12-14 23:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went to place where me and my girls hang out a place near by my house then we some boys playing football then we decided to play wiht them but they wouldnt let us play so we sat on the bench just talking and there was this younger boy like 2 years younger than me he was flirting with me and i have a boyfreind and my boyfriend best mate is playing football den we were dancing with some of the boys then the girls left me and him toghether and i didnt know what to say he kisssed me but it was dark and no one saw us and we were kisssing and i told him that i have a boyfriend and he was like no one will know and then the proplem is i know his big brother and he is in year as me does that make me a pidophille
and should i tell my boyfriend or lie to him can you plese give me some advice
a.s.a.p

2007-12-14 23:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this gal that I like but we are just friends (i told her last year but some things might change now).
she always teases me. yesterday while i was playing something, she laughs along and is enjoying herself. but when i remember all the teases - the doodles on my paper (once she wrote a teasing YOU UGLY on my paper w/o my knowledge), the teasing smile, the helps she has given, the activities that we did together, the laughs, the remarks about me that she makes, i can't forget them! all the funny things that she did - like pointing out her tongues often and teased me even when i simply called her name.

but there's also this other boy who likes her too and they sometimes talk! this week i saw them talking about three times and a couple of times her friends tease her about him (although about me too). she doesnt make attempt to see him and in the past avoids him. they don't talk often though (a few months ago talked but reduced). she is nice to everyone, including him, but one exception is that sometimes she pretends to be 'mean' to me! when they talk she seems into the conversation but once he was asking her to play game with him but she just grinned and walked away. her interest in talking with him occasionally - it has been there for a year plus but they don't get together and she sometimes avoids him. and she doesn't joke and tease him -most convo are serious.

and cos of this i completely ignored her yesterday.

2007-12-14 23:24:33 · 4 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2

2007-12-14 23:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by sexiilaylay 1

2007-12-14 23:19:07 · 16 answers · asked by jhay 1

I have my fiance's xmas party for his football team, and he is really looking forward to it.
I was until i realised that a girl who dosn't like me is goin, lets call her Amanda*.
I don't usually care what people think etc. just have a laugh and get on with it, but she's really got to me.
Now i'm really worried about going. I'm mates with a couple of other girls there and i know i'll have a good time but Amanda makes be feel so self concious.

I need to find some confidence - even if i could manage to put a nice smile on when i see her - Please Help - I don't want to say to much to my fiance becuase it will make tonight akward for him!

Was going to try to look amazing - but had to work and very skint - that plan out of the wiindow!!

2007-12-14 23:17:06 · 18 answers · asked by Wife2b 2

A girl from work always asks me to join her and other friends for activities after work. I can never go because I have other commitments, but she continues to always ask me to go out and I feel bad because I always say no. I've said no the past 20 times she has asked. I used to go out with her and others from work but our schedules have changed which makes it difficult for me to go out with them. She called me lame last night because I said I couldn't go. I feel bad. When we do work together I never really talk with her, not because I don't like her but because I never have the time to, and yet she still always asks me to go. Is she just trying to be a good friend, or could she possibly like me

2007-12-14 23:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by mama a 1

Im 25 n av jus been told to stay out of the girl i loves life! I sent her a txt telling her i was unhappy that she told me she didnt want a boyf n she sent me a txt back saying im bitter n twisted n2 leave her alone 4ever. I av been friends wiv her for 18 months, shes beautiful. We'd cuddle, hold hands, kiss on the lips(just pecs). I realised i loved her after a year n a bit she has lots of attention from guys n she split her boyf7 months ago, he was a jerk. I had2tell her i loved her.. more than friends. I was scared as ive never had a girlfriend n when i told girls in the past i like them, they reject me. Im overweight but have personality. I plucked up courage to tell her and she returned my feelings, i was soo happy. We kissed ncuddled all night, when i touched her she told me 'no' so i stopped, i was happy to wait aslong as she's happy. We were2 meet the next day but she didnt turn up, didnt answer my calls, 3wks later she has a new guy ntxt me just friends. What did i do??

2007-12-14 23:08:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I want to ask a classmate whose a girl to lunch or something, how do I ask so that it wouldn't seem creepy or as though I am asking her out on a date? Also I don't want some people to mistaken that I like them when I just wanna hang out. Sometimes people think the wrong way... So how can I do this without it being awkward?

Thanks

2007-12-14 23:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Closed 5

I hate that this sounds so cynical but in my experience with relationships there must be Givers and Takers.Givers are the one with a clean heart and good spirit....Takers are the cheaters who wants to let the givers swallow everything that i have to say so for you are under my cruel strength and nerves.We are all not born in yesterday with this type of relationships.With the invention of internet and cellfones busy day and age is no longer difficult to carry more than one relationship.Accessibility to willing partners has become easier than ever.How to be strong but firm to a cheater partner?Give chances to cheat you but list all the details that you know .

2007-12-14 23:03:52 · 4 answers · asked by BitchEmpress 1

Theres this guy and we went out for about 7 months in total because he kept ending it and starting it again, and im still not over him properly, but ive told him how i feel and hes just said nothing, but he still seems to talk to me, and push and hit me and stuff on purpose but he says he likes someone else and im dead confused can someone help me please ?!

2007-12-14 23:03:34 · 12 answers · asked by Emma :) 2

hav u ever caught your GF or BF cheating on u with a close friend
or relative???? if so what did u do bout it????

2007-12-14 23:03:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some ideas to spice up the routine between me and my bf. any ideas please? before this question gets removed. heehee. or any websites that may be useful to this question are welcomed. thanks all!

2007-12-14 23:02:58 · 2 answers · asked by thegangygirl 1

there are alot of girls around me and they are with me either because i have a better educational understanding or they like me. it is in the school and a lot of girls are around me and also i am good on my education
what do u think?

2007-12-14 23:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by medajar 1

Im 25 n av jus been told to stay out of the girl i loves life! I sent her a txt telling her i was unhappy that she told me she didnt want a boyf n she sent me a txt back saying im bitter n twisted n2 leave her alone 4ever. I av been friends wiv her for 18 months, shes beautiful. We'd cuddle, hold hands, kiss on the lips(just pecs). I realised i loved her after a year n a bit she has lots of attention from guys n she split her boyf7 months ago, he was a jerk. I had2tell her i loved her.. more than friends. I was scared as ive never had a girlfriend n when i told girls in the past i like them, they dont reject me. Im overweight but have personality. I plucked up courage to tell her and she returned my feelings, i was soo happy. We kissed ncuddled all night, when i touched her she told me 'no' so i stopped, i was happy to wait aslong as she's happy. We were2 meet the next day but she didnt turn up, didnt answer my calls, 3wks later she has a new guy ntxt me just friends. What did i do??

2007-12-14 22:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 22:49:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off, I know this question sounds a little juvenile, and for the record I don't consider myself a stud. But there are many very unattractive couples out there, and when I see them walking around the mall pushing their strollers, my mind can't help but envision the act required to conceive this child. And what I see troubles me.

I understand the "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" answer, and the "sex is about love" answer. But sex IS undoubtably physical. You can't get around that. And for argument's sake, let's just assume that the partner is genuinely physically repulsed by his or her mate. How does the actual sex act take place without physical attraction, especially when making a baby isn't the goal?

2007-12-14 22:34:43 · 29 answers · asked by swollen_goat 2

Ok im 16 years old girl who likes 2 be alone and needs friends so whats your opinion

2007-12-14 22:32:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 22:30:58 · 10 answers · asked by michael e 1

There's this guy I like.he left for another state..he used to always contact me to chat, then we got together once and kissed and i contacted him after that as im into him but we never talked about our kiss. then he contacted me, but ive been contacting him a bit more than he does. now he has called me and telsl me he will visit me but in a while as he is studying v hard for exams and we live in different states. what does this mean? (he likes travelling. also he is very friendly and has many friends guys and girls but we also click).

2007-12-14 22:30:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i could use some help.
i can not find love. i am intelligent. quick and the nicest man you will ever meet. butt i am a performer, most girls like the fact that i am a performer at first but then come to relize what that meens about me. it could be 5 am and i am out back juggling fire. i am always moving. i cant stay still, but i like it it drives me. yes at times i can be childish but not all the time. i would date another performer but i find there morals lacking when mine are not. so that is a problem. what do you think i should do?

2007-12-14 22:23:17 · 19 answers · asked by Tip 1

ok, so this is my second attempt to have sex with my girl with no success. i would get hard but only for a short time. i get hard easily but it dies after like a minute. i told my girl that i can get hard quick if i see her naked but she only wants to do it in the dark. and that doesnt help me. Even if i see her naked i still dont think i would stay hard lol. im weird, i dont get hard lookin at her naked body but i get hard lookin when at her naked booty in sum position. she doesnt want me takin viagra either so. we are still virgins by the way. im 20 and she is 18. so ya.

2007-12-14 22:20:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well there is this guy and i like him and he likes me but when he is around this one guy he barely talks to me like hes embarressed or somthing then today after school we walked home together and he goes ima stop right here ill wait on mom so i was like oh ok bye and then i wanted to see where he was goin (i wasnt stalkin its just i heard stuff bout where he lived and i wanted to see if it was true) well i saw him go in this old broken down house and he went in and closed the door and then i saw a light come on so he lives there but he dresses REALLY nice and then i was walkin home from my friends house which is his neighbor and i heard him yelling at this little kid walking down the street and i was like whats he doing and i saw him take that guys jacket...i dont no if its bc he REALLY poor and thats how he gets clothes or hes just mean.i dont no but now my girls are sayin i can do better but he is SO NICE and funny.i just dont no who to listen to my girls or just like him anyway!

2007-12-14 22:19:16 · 4 answers · asked by Chri$tineeeee. 2

Is my ex doing these things, or am i paranoid?

or is he obsessed with me:
the guy thta we both liked each other, i dumped. mainly becuase i decided that though hes a great guy he isnt giving me what i need out of the relationship. i went cold turkey as in blocking his yahoo accounts and sending him a letter telling him not to contact me. i did this mainly becuase he always seems to suck me into an emtoional roller coaster, so being friends isnt a wise choice. that was two weeks ago. the first week i got a hang up call from "private caller" on my phone that means they pushed *67. the person just listned to my voice. and no it waslnt a telemarketer becuase thers shows up as "unkown". next, I am now getting instant messages for sex sites. saying " click on ___ to see my webcam" . number 1 i had this account a long time and never went to porno sites w/ it and never recieved these solicitations until NOW. is he behind it is this his little way of "being near me" or whatever. or am i just being paranoid?

2007-12-14 22:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl in my P.E. class and I think she might like me.

She always teases me then later blows it off with a smile on her face and tells me she wouldn't want to make me mad at her.
She will be really nice to me and we
just talk about stuff.

Then one day she over heard me talking about a girl with my friend and the girl totally screwed me over and she said," What is her name I am going to kill her".

Also she was mean to me at the beginning of the year but now she just teases me and is nice.
She isn't like that with other guys as much as she is with me, I observed her behavior.
I think she might like me or is just a tease and I am not sure how to handle it.

Then everything was going better than ever, then she got angry at me made a mean joke towards me starting out jokingly but then got to a serious tone and told me to go away and i am annoying?!

Now I don't have any classes with her , a reason to talk to her.
She acted like she likes me

She is so confusing, Help please?

2007-12-14 21:52:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over a year now and in the beginning of our relationship she always was more into being sexually active...Lately though she has stopped wanting to do things as much and we ended up talking and she told me that she is more turned on and wants to have sex when I dont want to or when I act like I dont want too..

My question is... How am I suppose to make it seem like I do not want to have sex,, and hide the fact that I actually am turned on and want to have sex ?!?! Any help and suggestions would be appreactied!! Thanks

2007-12-14 21:47:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i dont want people thinking i am a this, i am that, hear me out first...please..I have this friendship with a good friend of mine but he is odd, i know i should stop talking to him and like tell his girlfriend but i know i would be told that i am a liar which to be honest, everything i have ever done with guys i am honest about, but anyhoo, when we hang out, its not a big deal but then it gets on the subject of sex and it just goes downhill from there. I mean the last time we hung out, i put my foot down and said that i didn't want to be the other woman and that i felt sorry for his girlfriend. This isn't the first time that he has done that to a girlfriend with me. Like the girl before his recent now hates me cause of me supposedly taking him from her but yet he was constantly coming over to my apartment. I guess in the end, i am still the bad girl...would say guy, but i am not one..

in general i know i basically just answered my question but what would you all do if it was you?

2007-12-14 21:45:59 · 1 answers · asked by Life just complicated for me. 1