Singles & Dating - 14 December 2007

i want to leave a little anonymous treat for my boyfriend, but i don't know what candy would fit through. I thought skittles would work but they're too bulky. Any ideas?

2007-12-14 03:13:01 · 14 answers · asked by Mainee 1

What are your thoughts on having a guy blow on you....? either on your face or is there anywhere you particularly enjoy it? Just curious if this is something women actually like or not.

2007-12-14 03:12:54 · 11 answers · asked by J M 1

2007-12-14 03:06:08 · 7 answers · asked by BIgDiVa C 1

2007-12-14 03:00:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I currently have two boyfriends.( please redirect your slut and player comments elsewhere!) Stupid of me to get myself in this situation, yes I know. Anyway, it seems here lately the current and oldest boyfriend doesn't show as much affection or attention to me as he used to. The " spark " has pretty much died. I'm bored, but I thought it was love. And all my friends have told me that I should be good to him because I 'm the best girlfriend he's ever had, and If we were gonna break up, I would be the one to do it. Well It seems like their prediction is true, because I think I 'm gonna break up with him.
The new boyfriend lives another state away, but is sweet, funny, just not as attractive. So what should I do? I don't want to break the old boyfriend's heart, and the new one I'm just not sure. I'm utterly confused! Thank you in advance for your help!

2007-12-14 02:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3

My boyfriend has been working a lot of overtime this week so he has been coming home way later at night than me when I get off work, well last night I stayed at work about an hour after I got off talking to my cousin because she needed someone to talk to, he tried calling (which he hasn't done all week) I didn't answer because my phone was in my purse in the car, he tried calling for like 30 min then when I was leaving I answered and he asked what I was doing and I said leaving work now, he said why and I told him that I was talking to my cousin he yelled you ******* liar and hung up, when I got home he didn't say a word so I took a shower, when I got out of the shower he was asleep on the couch, he didn't even come to bed he stayed on the couch all night. Then he didn't even wake me and hug and kiss me goodbye before he left for work like usual. I texted him a little while later cause I couldn't get back to sleep and I said I love you, he never texted back. see more details

2007-12-14 02:29:09 · 6 answers · asked by coronaqt2004 1

Ok, so me and my gf were at the movies with some friends, and about 20 minutes through we got a lot closer and started cudling...my arm around her, and we were holding hands...but her other hand was on my leg and that was fine..however as i was sort of rubbing her arm like in a romantic way she was doing the same with my leg....but reeeealy slowly...and yeh i'm not sure if she was just in a romantic mood or if she meant something else by it? what you think?

2007-12-14 02:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And, when you confronted them on it, they lied even more?

2007-12-14 02:19:42 · 9 answers · asked by Rogue 5

i want to invite my friend over during christmas holidays or just before but don't know what to write. any help appreciated.
something like i firmly believe our love is true. i hope to see you one day soon.i'm happy to announce that i have fallen for you.
what do ya think.?

2007-12-14 02:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 02:15:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an older brother to a 15-nearly 16 year old male.
We've shared a room for a long time, but several days ago, I was only kind of half asleep and noticed him masturbating by torchlight, In our room. I didn't say anything and just rolled over and went back to sleep, I think he must have stopped because he asked if I was awake when I rolled over, whether or not he kept going I don't know.
I've been doing it since I was 13, no doubt he's been doing it just as long, He's walked in on me doing it a few times by accident, And we've both seen each other naked on a few occasions,
He's also told me he does it, and I've never really batted an eye to any of it, but for some reason, this really gave me a smack in the face.
I still don't know whether to say anything in case I embarress the little bloke, or myself. I know there's nothing wrong with it but this has me well gobsmacked 4 some reason.
What du reckon?
Have u ever caught som1 close 2 u like this?
What did u both do?

2007-12-14 02:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a Police Officer and I love to work on cars but I can't find a guy who meets my interests or intimidates me. The last boyfriend I had only dated me cause his friends thought it was cool that I was a COP and he hated that I knew more about cars than he did. Do I have to be a blonde ditzy airhead to get a decent guy?

2007-12-14 02:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by Roadrage96 2

If so how did thre handled it?

2007-12-14 02:13:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man has just recently ended a long-term relationship & gets involved with someone else is this still considered a rebound relationship & does the man at the time realize that this is what is going on. Also, if a man is seeing a married woman who still is living with her husband can this prolong the honeymoon phase of the relationship because they have to sneak around & do not get to see each other all the time? Can a man continue seeing a married woman for a long period of time without expecting her to choose them over the husband if their goal is to have a monogomous relationship with this person?

2007-12-14 02:11:31 · 4 answers · asked by Mary B 4

so here is what i can remember from the poem i wrote:

Hair of gold, Eyes of blue
Please forgive me cuz i love you

Sorry I hurt you, it hurt me too
Please love me cuz i love you

the end

That is part of the poem i wrote. she said she was interested in someone else which i doubt. and i told her i was interested in her awhile ago and told her i didn't like her like dat anymore...she got upset cuz i said in the poem it said love...she e-mailed me saying the following:

J----
you should never say you love someone....especially someone like me...don't ever say you love someone unless ur for sure. u can't be going around telling ppl you love them


So please tell me what i should do???? ladies any ideas

2007-12-14 02:10:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we hangout every weekend and we have been talking for a month and a half... i am too scared to ask him if we are dating and i kno he will never ask me..what should i do?

2007-12-14 02:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by jacee 1

i was i a relationship for five years..... lots of ups ddown i finally decided to let it go.. i started workig new place.. was havin fun bein alone.. im gettin attracted to my boss // bachelor but recently he got engaged ... i seriously didot know but when i heard he got engaged i felt really bad... i m not that sorts who falls for each and every guy.. its just that i vibe well with him.. he also speaks tome for hors at work.. my friends say he treats me just like nay of his juniors..
i thought it was enough.. i just took break for ten days
...help if u can
is it normal or im just hungry for someone

2007-12-14 01:55:35 · 5 answers · asked by ladybird 2

I became a gf of Mr.A for 7 years up to now. His family used to ask him to get married to a rich girl but he refused because he loved me. He is a quiet person, he never liked romatic feeling but he is faithful. Since i've known him, i can't do many things that i want like singing, dancing, wearing sexy dress because he dislikes...so i have to follow him. He often easy to get angry if i did s.th wrong but he is easy to compose. Last year, i came to study in another country while he was continueing his work at our country. He came to visit me twice a month. However, while i was in another country alone i knew Mr. B. W first talked as friends but i found out we had many things the sames then we decided to be bf and gf (i told him that i already broked up with Mr. A but in fact not yet). what should i do? Mr A has built loving with me 7 years and people know about us and he is still faithful to me even he is so sensitive (angry) , while Mr.B even i just know him but we have the same hobbie

2007-12-14 01:50:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok.. so there is this girl who i became friend with. We hang out couple of times and then i asked her out on a date... she said no. but everytime i see her she wants me to attend this painting class with her.....

She is ok and will be 18 soon. since then this is all she wants...and she does not want to hang out anymore..... should i go to the class?

Here is the problem... class is in church.. and on the day we have class, there are a lot of activities going on... too many people....Plus the only students in the class is me and her....


should i attend this class? do you see this thing going anywhere? Plus i know she has a lot guy friends... why does she need my attention in church?

2007-12-14 01:41:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

there kinda hard too come by .

2007-12-14 01:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 01:31:54 · 26 answers · asked by Nanami 3

i had a baby boy when i was eighteen and as a result ,me and my ex where always fighting.we broke up and i was told to keep away from her but i still paided her csa money.i done my best too give her a new home and stuff,but i was young and brought up with drink ,of which i thought was the norm and now i regret all the drinking i done then,i was too inature.anyway the child is 8 now and i sent another card to her address and she phoned me and says dont bother anymore ,i also said too her have you told our son that im his real dad?she went no im not telling him till he is mature enough and why should i.things were getting brought up about the past and i said we were too young and hated each other and i was just concerned about seeing my son.she told me too keep away at eighteen and she sent me solicerters letters which scared me as i was still young and shocked at the age i was so i kept away she never phoned or replied to cards nothing.so now i want to see my son as he is biologiacally.

2007-12-14 01:30:50 · 4 answers · asked by mark g 2

I don't mind sleeping in the buff, I pretty much do anyway( I only normally wear boxers to bed).
So now I figure whats the point? problem being though is I share a room with my older brother. We've both seen eachothers equipment on dozens of occasions, and I know for a fact he sleeps naked all the time. We're comfortable enough to walk naked around each other. Like I said he sleeps naked, and we share a room, but for some reason I feel slightly a little bit funny (tiniest little niggling feeling in the very back of my head)about sleeping naked around him, for such an extended period of time(round 8-10 hours a night). Then theres the other feeling that says don't be stupid and do it.
We're like the best mates ever, and neither of us has anything the other hasn't seen, so I don't think he'd mind to much.
What do y'all reckon?
Have you ever been naked around a brother/sister/friend before? and did you /would you be comfortable with it?

2007-12-14 01:11:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 00:57:58 · 26 answers · asked by bluemancity 2

I was looking on my boyfriends computer to see if he had been looking at wedding rings. Instead I found out that he had been looking at w4m personals on craiglist. Is there any chance that he is doing this for a cheap thrill? When I ask I know that he will just blow this off and be upset that I looked at his history on the computer.

2007-12-14 00:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by kind 2

What does he mean by this?
My boyfriend and I made the rule of *No sex till we're at least 16 (I'm 15) months ago(his idea). The other day we got very into making out and it was extremely heated. I think he had an orgasm. Wait, what am I saying, he had an orgasm.
I was teasing him in school, asking if he would sleep with me tonight à la "voulez vous coucher avec moi..." At first he was laughing with me, then he just kissed me very pasionately and asked me whether I was kidding or not, "because by now you could probably make me beg...I still have my rules, and I don't want to any sooner...I want time, but...god..." this was followed by another passionate kiss.
I asked him if I could seduce him if I wanted to, he said, "Apsolutely."

When I asked him how he knew, he just said, "I could tell that you could..." I told him that I don't think that I have that much power over him, he replied with, "But, you do!"

What exactly did he mean?

2007-12-14 00:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have a female friend; we're very close, I love her to bits and she knows it. Problem is this, she has a bf, but some days she'll appear to be hinting towards more - she put her legs in my lap for a friendly fondle while chatting, rest her head on my shoulder, hold hands, subtely invite me to play with her hair, etc. Other days she'll come and go without coming anywhere near me and look almost horrified if I attempt to instigate any contact all. I don't want to proactively come between them, but on the other hand if she wants to drift my way I'd be a very happy bunny. But what's with the hot and cold thing?

2007-12-14 00:03:40 · 5 answers · asked by SITSC 1