Singles & Dating - 14 December 2007

will he ever, turn into a man .

2007-12-14 06:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has always lied to me and was the type of person that if they put their mind into something they will go and do it doesnt matter what I think or feel.... and he would lie to get his way because he knew i would get mad - doesnt matter what about big and small things - and everytime i found out about a lie he'd tell me he wouldnt lie if i didnt get mad and accepted everything he does and always turned it around and made me feel like I was the reason for him lying - its all my fault! and now that we broke up because of another lie, i now feel it was all my fault again and if i didnt say anything or w/e he wouldnt have lied to me - i feel like the manipulation is taking over me even now..... its only been a week! i cant go back to him!

2007-12-14 06:13:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated for 3 momths i 29 she 25. All of a sudden she states she was not feeling the spark anymore but she was so into me and wanted to marry me and have kids etc... There were issues of her claiming she neded space and that we needed to know eachother more. She was in a verbally abusive relationship one month before we met ended in a restaring order. She was so happy with me saying how lucky she was and all. She also says she wants to remain friends cause i am a good person. She states she wants to be friends and still hang out. She also states that she broke up with me in a way maybe to get to know me better and for me to just be cool and let her think. She todl me thatt we had a good relationship and she will probably regret this decision for breakup. Family loved us together. She knows i love her and would do anything for her. Is this her way of figuring things out or am i done in her mind. I am just confused on how this came out of nowhere. Any advice of life exper.

2007-12-14 06:09:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I honestly hate my body. I have naturally big breasts, a tiny waist, long *** legs and wide hips. I look fake. I hate it. I would get a breast reduction but I'm too scared to do that. I hate how women give me dirty looks and men think im easy because of my body. Is there any way I can down play the size of my breasts? Gaining weight won't make me look normal...all my fat seems to go straight into my chest...my legs and stomach won't get any bigger. And my wide hips drive me crazy. Anyone fuss this much over their body?

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Doesn't that look weird?

2007-12-14 06:06:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so i'm 5'6-5'7 and 100-104lbs. i used to be anorexic but am recovered. i also used to be 110lbs but for some reason my body won't gain anymore weight, i am eating normally, like i used to, but just not gaining. but i like being thin anyway, secretly i'd like to weigh 80. all my guy friends always go on about how thin i am, and they're always like 'size zero is disguisting' 'kate moss is too thin' and im thinner so what does that make me. they always say they like a bum and big **** 'something to hold onto', and i don't have those things. does that make me unnattractive to guys? (i'm 15 btw). people say i'm pretty and all that and girls want my body, its just boys seem to be like 'eurgh you need a cheeseburger'. so do all guys like only curvy figures??

2007-12-14 05:59:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that if you really loved the person you can't fall out of love with them and you will love them forever.

What u think?

2007-12-14 05:55:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is trying to get me to come over this weekend but his parents keep asking what has he ever done to deserve to live there anymore?(because he is 18) And he doesn't know what to say and neither do I. What should we do?

2007-12-14 05:53:46 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Megan♥ 1

My boyfriend of five years and I have been talking seriously of getting married. My friends tell me that I am making a huge mistake because he is the only boyfriend I have ever had. They say that I need to date other men and have my heart broken at least once before making such a commitment. However, I see it differently. I'm a person who likes to learn from other ppl's mistakes and I've learned a lot from my friends' failed relationships. As a result, I know how lucky I am to have my boyfriend. He's handsome, smart, funny, ambitious, compassionate, and incredibly kind to me, my family, and friends. I know it would be hard to find another guy like him. Knowing this, why is it so important for me to date other men and have my heart broken?

2007-12-14 05:52:22 · 35 answers · asked by ♪♪♪ 2

i want a boyfriend but i have a problem


ah i just don't understand
no guys like me . and i have no friends but I've flirted with guys who have liked me but in the long run we never went out and i am really shy. its not that I'm fat or short because I'm 5 ' 5" and weigh 110 pounds but i just don't understand. so anyhow, i had stopped worrying about getting a boyfriend until recently when I've noticed a lot of people at school walking round holding hands, hugging, etc...and i suddenly wanted a boyfriend really bad. I've never had one before! i want to know what it's like to go out on dates, you know, stuff like that.my friends say I'm a "good-girl" or i appear to be one even though I'm not some goody-two-shoes. do boys not like "good girl" girlfriends? what's up with me? what could i do?BTW, I'm up for changing who i am to get a boyfriend.]
am i happy or depressed?
i am a 16 year old girl . a Junior in high school. and i have never had a boyfriend . also i can be awkward ,weird ,ugly , shy ,ext. so i would not know how to act when i finally get a boyfriend if that ever happens. and i believe that everyone hates me..
help me please
anyone
and if u know me
ah just don't talk to me in person about it or make fun about me please
just help me
i am super depressed people please help
i just need advise but i don't show people this i hide all this inside me i never let it show that I'm depressed or not liked or what eve i just want advise on this and i don't want a boyfriend just to have one i want one so it can help me feel better about my self and show it on the outside and stop hiding all me feelings bottled up inside

just please give me some advise

2007-12-14 05:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 05:49:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the best feature someone can have?how can i stand out from the crowd??

2007-12-14 05:47:08 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

you come across on your boyfriends pc, recent pornongraphic conversations with a female, that he is clearly planning to meet. you have been with him 2 months, would you forgive him or leave him as you've only been together a short while?

2007-12-14 05:46:45 · 23 answers · asked by Loli 2

2007-12-14 05:45:49 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

Long story short. It's a long distance relationship we're working on meeting soon. It's been over a year as friends and 8 months Dec. 28th this year as boy and girl friend. She has this local guy friend who she thinks she might have feelings for and she still loves me so she's in that stuck between two guys rut. But she's never lead me to not love or not have trust in her. So what do I do and what do we do stick it out and hope for the best or just end it now? Can our true love and yes that's what we have this far last and will it last or is it time to just call it quits? Be honest but don't be harsh. Some of you have no idea how much this hurts none at all. It's like being dead inside. And even when I talk on the phone to her there's still that distance that gap. Sucks all of it sucks. And she needs to do her part to get the communication back in our relationship. Advice. etc. I've loved her and stuck it out this far but now what?

2007-12-14 05:42:51 · 13 answers · asked by dave_83501 4

I always have trouble dating; as a matter of fact I hardly ever date. Mainly because of my work schedule but also because I have constant fear of that first date. Most of my dates don't even bother calling me for a second, what am I doing wrong?

2007-12-14 05:37:06 · 19 answers · asked by emer_mirage 2

2007-12-14 05:35:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

why?

2007-12-14 05:35:06 · 21 answers · asked by Kia S 1

2007-12-14 05:32:39 · 41 answers · asked by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3

he tells all of his mates what you said then it spreads around??
i HATE that!

2007-12-14 05:29:30 · 6 answers · asked by Toothepaste Kisses-* 3

I have a gf for almost a year now. We know each other since `94 and are extremely happy together. One thought bothers me very much though and does not allow me to focus on other things. It is concerning my gf's other boyfriends before we were together.We lived in different countries for few years and lead separate ways of living. Now I can't get picture and thought out of my head that she'd been with some other guys in bed. The picture makes me feel just so bad.I feel anger,sadness,sickness in my stomach at the same time.I can't stop thinking about it. I know it's crazy,but the image of her in bed with some other guys make me feel so, that I want to cry. I haven't talked to her about it,as I guess I could upset her. I have no right to be angry at her nor blame her in any way,but I can't stop this horrible feeling coming back every few hours I have some spare time. I want it to go away and don't know why it doesn't.I need help, how to cope with that. I can't change the past, do I ?!

2007-12-14 05:28:12 · 17 answers · asked by surcharge 2

stupid questions

2007-12-14 05:26:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for 6 months now when sex if usually very active but its not with us. He knew from the beginning that I am very sexual so I'm not sure if he has ed or if he feels inadequate. Everything else is our relationship is wonderful and he says that he is totally inlove with me. I have tried to spice things up by wearing sexy clothes or planning intimate evenings but he usually has an "excuse" that he either feels sick or is tired when I'm thinking he should be aroused. When I try to discuss it he says I'm too insecure in the relationship and just shuts it down. I'm trying to figure out if he has a problem or maybe sexually just not interested in me. I have even tried being less aggressive but if I don't initiate it we would never have sex which is ruinng my self esteem. I Love him but where do I go from here? He is 52 yrs old but I've been with older men and they didn't have this problem. Help me please. I'm frustrated and don't want to go on like this.

2007-12-14 05:26:01 · 5 answers · asked by Dana B 2

i know guys do it too so dont send me 5000 answers of ya'll do it too i've never been that way and i asking about women right now

2007-12-14 05:25:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get jealous every time i see him flirting with a customer at work.

2007-12-14 05:24:18 · 13 answers · asked by babygurlmami 1

most men are always__________? or most women are always__________? be nice.lol

2007-12-14 05:22:30 · 19 answers · asked by WonderWoman 5

before i met him i used to have lots of guy friends
i used have more guy friends then girls
Now that i have been 2 yrs with him i lost contact with all my friends...i found few and i want to go out with them and hang out but i know my bf is too jealous he wont let me and i understand him..but there is lots guys here in yahoo say that they arent jealous if there gf have guy friends....I dont think its true...What do you girls think?

2007-12-14 05:21:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

help

2007-12-14 05:20:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

just being curious and the fact that my gf just dumped me, i was wondering do i look ok?

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in case your were wondering, the one to the left, lol

2007-12-14 05:16:28 · 1 answers · asked by captain amazing 2

what things put you off that make you want to leave them...is it something that some ones does and you just think OH i gotta run....lol

2007-12-14 05:16:11 · 12 answers · asked by london-fem 3

i already took the act and dont plan on taking it again. im just curious if if is possible to cheat or if anyone has successfully cheated cuz it seems pretty rigid and hard to cheat.

2007-12-14 05:14:26 · 1 answers · asked by Ryan M 1