She broke up with me saying she lost feelings (romantic) Do i give her time i want her back she knows it?

Question

We dated for 3 momths i 29 she 25. All of a sudden she states she was not feeling the spark anymore but she was so into me and wanted to marry me and have kids etc... There were issues of her claiming she neded space and that we needed to know eachother more. She was in a verbally abusive relationship one month before we met ended in a restaring order. She was so happy with me saying how lucky she was and all. She also says she wants to remain friends cause i am a good person. She states she wants to be friends and still hang out. She also states that she broke up with me in a way maybe to get to know me better and for me to just be cool and let her think. She todl me thatt we had a good relationship and she will probably regret this decision for breakup. Family loved us together. She knows i love her and would do anything for her. Is this her way of figuring things out or am i done in her mind. I am just confused on how this came out of nowhere. Any advice of life exper.

Answer 1

Would have to know really how close you got, did you ever get her to show a tear during the whole time together? Reason I ask is that her way seems a tad cold and the relationships seems TOO happy after that abusive relationship. That leaves deep scars and the typical response is to hide the pain. If she let go with you, I'd feel real good that she'll be back. If she hasn't open up to you that much then she could do alot of things, she's still trying to deny the pain, no telling what can come of that....