Singles & Dating - 14 December 2007

I'm 19, and an falling for a girl in my life, who is 16 (17 in 4 months). i'm not even interested in sex with her. she's amazing. just being around her makes me happier than i've been with anyone else. the last relationship i got out of was with an 18yr old and was very sexual. it crashed and burned after a pregnancy scare. i'm not looking to add that stress to her life, let alone a relationship. all i'm interested in is her companionship, her open arms, just to know that shes there, and i'm hers. she turns 17 in <4 months. some people have told me to wait, but as i have approval from her parents, and am not interested in having sex with her, i do not see the problem with persuing a relationship now. what should i do?

2007-12-14 07:29:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 years, and this past week i have felt very distant from him. we have been arguing some - well i wanna do something special for him to get us close again. so i was thinking while he is at work i could figure out a little something. i was thinking making dinner (candle light corny or not?), maybe watching a movie (whats a good romantic comedy? or a movie u think would go good for this?) and i having some dessert too. what do u think of the idea? anything u would change or add? any stories to share or advice?

2007-12-14 07:24:43 · 5 answers · asked by snowrider336 3

This kid who ive never seen in my life, no idea who he is, what his name is or anything has something against me. The other day he blatantly banged into me and every time I pass him in the hallway he calls over his shoulder P**** or B**** and does a little jeering smirk. I thought he was kidding at first but when I realized he wasnt I started to shake in anger. Idk what he has against me but after the first few times its a serious knock on my pride and self-esteem and i feel weak and vulnerable when I let it go. Im a senior in Highschool and I dont really want to get suspended before i start applying to college but I have a hard time letting it go now that he is obviously disrespecting me. Any advice or should I violently beat him down and get detained?

2007-12-14 07:19:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone once told me that the reason why we have our Brain over our heart . .

2007-12-14 07:19:12 · 3 answers · asked by jillster 1

my best friend hooked me up with her cousin and its been about 3 weeks now. we spent the weekend togther a week ago today. we dont go to the same school and i do stuff for him like lieing etc. anyway he says he loves me and i feel the same way to but what am i suppose to do about this? i mean its another guy who reallllly says he likes me and he goes to my school but he is older then me and im only half interested and i dont want to cheat on my boyfriend because i really think i love him. i need help to try to explain these emotions to myself??

2007-12-14 07:18:45 · 35 answers · asked by mookie 1

i love this girl at my school but she has a bf. she has said she likes me but she will not leave her boyfriend just becausee of that. we used to get along so well and she used to complain about her bf and how she would want to be with me but will wait till after his birthday and stuff. now she is becoming more distant and avoiding every me every time i say i love you or something like that. my friends have all told me to tell her to decide between me and him but im worried that she will not pick me and then think less of me and there will be no chance. but she is leaving to go to uni at the end of the summer next year so i will probably never see her again =( i really want to be with her, i love her so much

2007-12-14 07:17:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

...and let go of hurt and move on?

2007-12-14 07:17:45 · 12 answers · asked by Francesca 5

I love my man when he dresses "sharp"! Its so sexy.
What about you?

2007-12-14 07:13:45 · 5 answers · asked by Rissa! 3

I married the wrong person. Then...soon I met another man, on-line. He came to see me. I fell in love. I left my husband on the same day and my country after a month. I tried my best to give my swedish-american sweetheart both freedom and affection. We've always been very open to each other. I said "I love you" and he that he will cheat on me because he is not ready yet. That I was almost perfect and he considers spending very long time with me once he is more stable. We wouldn't separate if I didn't have to return. He suggested it's the best to separate...for a while. I know he is honest. What should I do? I wasn't a challenge. He values liberty and is young (28). I am only 23 and I have 3 months ahead of me with No contact between us, whatsoever. What would you do? Would you hold on to someone both sad ("I miss you") and indecisive or would you let go?

2007-12-14 07:08:57 · 1 answers · asked by Blue Bird 1

Fellas, let me ask you a question. If you bought your girl a gift and you bought one for yourself would you think she'd think less of the gift if you had the exact same thing? Case in point: Me and my girl are both on the same cell phone carrier. Ever year or so we upgrade cell phones to the newest models. I bought both one year and she bought both the next year. This year we looking at the Treo 680. We both liked that phone and wanted one. My girl's birthday is the 9th of Dec and she's the type to expect two gifts. One for her b-day and one on Christmas. Ok, I recently came into some money, not a lot but enough to do some things with. I ordered the phones today but I feel like she's not gonna like the cell phone because I got the exact same phone. These phones were over $330 each. Is she being ungrateful about me also getting the same cell phone? Is she wrong to expect two gifts in Dec for her bithday and then a few weeks later for Christmas?

2007-12-14 07:08:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do when your boyfriend wont to have sex but he is 18 and has done it before and your 16 and only done it once how do u tell him no its really hard to say no when u really love that person what can i do please help me

2007-12-14 07:04:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been acquainted with her for about 8 years, really started talking and such this year, and i dont want to ruin a young friendship if she doesnt like me? wont it be awkward after i ask, if she says no? I also know her brother, to add to the whole 'awkward' feeling...fun? Not really.

...Oh, did i mention i cant call/ email/ write because her mom is super overprotective? All avenues seem blocked, but i dont want to give up? Starting at the same college as her next semester, and going skating w/ youth group (that shes in) on the 26th...best time to tell her, and how? sorry for the length. =/

Any help greatly appreciated. If you need more details, tell me. =)

2007-12-14 07:03:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

To lose weight without being disrespectful.
Just wondering and curious on your response

2007-12-14 07:02:48 · 22 answers · asked by conny 6

2007-12-14 06:59:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

she kicks me in the butt alll the time she busts in my room all the time and she plays my video games with out askin soemthin's gotta be done like a prank i need a good prank

2007-12-14 06:59:25 · 5 answers · asked by skylormurphy1990 1

I am trying to determine what characteristics create attraction between 2 people: (i know its a bit much, but please...)

Please describe these characteristics about yourself, and also what type of those characteristics you expect in the opposite sex(ideal partner).

sex:
height:
physique\built:
intelligence(1-5)(5 = very intelligent):
assertiveness(1-5)(1 = unassertive, 5 = very assertive):
dominance(1-5)(1 = submisive, 5 = high dominance):
introvert or extrovert:
open or judgemental:
logical or intuitive:
decisiveness\well planned(1-5)(1 = undecisive, 5 = decisive):
impulsive or regulated:
confidence level(1-5)(1 = low confidence, 5 = high confidence):
style(classical, retro etc.):

2007-12-14 06:58:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a very funny guy and im friends with all the hotties in our social circle. I dont think they want to date me tho? Im quite fat and have a big nose and some hairloss already- im only22! How do i make the transition from mate to boyfriend? I just dont know where to start? Also its gonna be awkward if they reject me(one girl im thinking of in particular) I look quite mean im 6'3, big built and have a no.1 buzz cut all over! I just think she is soo stunning would she want an overweight gorilla like me hanging around? The other day i heard her come in the house i share with my mates and ask where i was? Does that mean she DEFINITELY likes me! Ive never had a girlfriend, i asked a couple on dates in school but they turned me down and have only kissed girls when drunk! I really want her to be my girlfriend but im not sure she will reciprocate! Im nervous and i want to be cool and smooth? Like ive done it loads of times! Any advice would be a great help?

2007-12-14 06:53:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were you successful at the end?

2007-12-14 06:49:03 · 8 answers · asked by Dodgers777 2

he says he will fix the problem he has created and he promises me he will give me copies of the receipts he gets but haven't seen one yet. and what can i do about him changing my real address if he has done it again i am may finally give up and get him for mail fraud please what should i do should i give him a limits saying i need these receipts in 3 to 6 days or what please advice getting more bitter here? we were together about 3 to 4 yrs and no i didn't live with him but he open credit cards in my name with out my permission please help what should i do

2007-12-14 06:46:19 · 2 answers · asked by bettyb 5

I have this female friend...

She's talked me down from a suicide attempt, been there for me to talk to when I was going through a bad breakup and school woes.
She's come to me for advice on boys, school, computer problems and a ton of other stuff. And I've helped her through breakups and similar stuff.

We both grew up in the same town, same high school, but frankly, there are differences - she's kinda snobby, lots of money. And I really don't think she is my type or vice versa - she seems to go for different guys than me.

Yet I think I'm in love with her? Am I really? Or just a good friend?
I certainly don't want to broach the subject of my feelings, as it might hurt the friendship.
Oh, and she's since moved to the midwest - parents got transferred (I'm in Washginton state), and we keep in contact online only, and a phone call sometimes.

We're both college age, not in high school. Over 18, so this isn't some little kid drama.

What should I do?

2007-12-14 06:44:26 · 11 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5

Ok, this question has been bugging me, every one picks on me because i am naturally thin, i have even been called anorexic or bulemic by vindictive girls. Is it wrong to be naturally thin, i'm also 5'3 which doesn't make it any easier. I also still wear size one to three jeans, oh yeah mostly skinny jeans. DO guys really like voluptuous girls more than thin ones?

2007-12-14 06:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by Psychobilly_luv 1

I honestly hate my body. I have naturally big breasts and a small waist. I hate it. I would get a breast reduction but I'm too scared to do that. I hate how women give me dirty looks and men think im easy because of my body. Is there any way I can down play the size of my breasts? Gaining weight won't make me look normal...all my fat seems to go straight into my chest...my legs and stomach won't get any bigger.

And No, I am not trying to get compliments. It's actually kinda hard to do my job when people won't stop staring at me and it's aggravating when men don't look at my eyes when speaking, they look down. I want people to respect me and stop looking at me like I'm an object. Maybe some people want big breasts....but I'm not one of them. And don't bring in people who have actual disorders...this isn't about them...I feel sorry for them but I'm not going to just tell myself to get over it because they have worse problems. Everyone feels this way about something that most people think is unimportant. I don't want to sound mean, that isn't the point, but I'm trying to get respect in my work enviorment...not women wanting to kill me and rolling their eyes when they see me talking to a guy. I've had people, strangers, come up to me and ask if they're real. I don't want this attention

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2007-12-14 06:37:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello I am Indian there is a white girl in my school blue eyes and blonde hair. She says I am funny. I love her how do I get her? I want to date her. She is so pretty and she says I am smart and helpful.

2007-12-14 06:36:33 · 23 answers · asked by Brahmin-Hindu 1

i want to know what would cause a man to turn down sex. and how would i go about approaching my guy about "why we don't have sex very often" sometimes i get the excuse ," i don't want sex to get old", or" i'm just tired", or "stressed". if that's the case he's been tired and stressed for 6 years. i am attractive, intelligent, and in my sexual prime who caters to his every need. what would cause a man to have little or no sex drive? a few notes
in the beginning of the relationship we had sex maybe once every two weeks, now it's once a month sometimes longer.

2007-12-14 06:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by jack w 2

What can I do to make him stop feeling like that cause I'm really not trying to give that impression

2007-12-14 06:33:35 · 3 answers · asked by BrownSkin 1

im 44 hes 42 started seeing each other and hes very bossy controlling, should i dump him and focus on myself?

2007-12-14 06:29:33 · 11 answers · asked by sharon 2

After 1 month of friendship with a girl, I finally decided to say to her that I like her and ask her out to know her better. Finally some how I said all thing and she replied that right now she is not looking for any relationship (she talked about her last BF, and how they broke up).she said that she want to be single and enjoy her youth age with her friends. I know her answer was so stupid, but I know all people have right to choose their way of life and I respect her. At the end, she said we can still be friend, and also I acted cool. When I gave her ride to her home she hugged me and leaved me. I like her but I can’t do anything.

2007-12-14 06:29:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a great girl in October 2004. She was my first serious relationship, and I had just turned 27 when I met her. We both hit it off well and got engaged in March 2005. Over the next few months our relationship went south and she broke up with me in October 2005. I loved her deeply, but I don't think she felt near as strong. She never seemed to give as much as I did (she was only 21, I was 27). I have tried repeatedly to move past her, even telling her it's best if we not talk. Six months ago, she moved to a different state. Still, I think of her everyday and still want her sometimes. Most of the time I wish I could just forget about her completely. How can I be sure I am truly over her? How can I know if I'm ready to get serious again?

2007-12-14 06:25:27 · 12 answers · asked by G$ 1

I finally got a date with my friend, Michelle, who I've taken a liking to for some time now. The problem: she is delusional. We were at the food court in the mall, and she expected me either to go up and get her a chicken sandwich, or at least go with her to the counter. Of course, I refused. It's the responsibility of the woman to serve the food, that's just a fact of life. I took out my wallet, gave her a 10 dollar bill, and told her to get me a caeser salad. She didn't like that too much, so I had to get a little physical. I pulled her up to the counter, she ordered the food, and I told her to wait by the table. "You'd better wait for my request to sit," I told her. She doesn't seem to understand the position of a woman on a date... how can I tell her without hurting her feelings?

2007-12-14 06:24:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

...and is there anything you can do to avoid being one?

2007-12-14 06:23:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous