Should I go for it or not?

Question

This kid who ive never seen in my life, no idea who he is, what his name is or anything has something against me. The other day he blatantly banged into me and every time I pass him in the hallway he calls over his shoulder P**** or B**** and does a little jeering smirk. I thought he was kidding at first but when I realized he wasnt I started to shake in anger. Idk what he has against me but after the first few times its a serious knock on my pride and self-esteem and i feel weak and vulnerable when I let it go. Im a senior in Highschool and I dont really want to get suspended before i start applying to college but I have a hard time letting it go now that he is obviously disrespecting me. Any advice or should I violently beat him down and get detained?

Answer 1

Try to ignore it.... these things can really mess up your future. Not worth it !

Answer 2

So sorry you have to deal with high school morons. I know it's horrible, but the truth is: you're almost out. And yes, it would be pure stupidity to get suspended now. However... the next time, should he look back for your reaction, it might be nice if you just look him up and down in a glance, smile and say "weak" and keep walking. If he doesn't look back, don't react at all. The only reason he's doing this is to feel strong, so push his buttons in a way you can't get in trouble. Show him it amuses you, but choose when and be subtle.

Answer 3

What a weirdo! I would just try my best to ignore him, people must think he's just plain odd to go around hating people for no reason. Maybe he's jealous of you - have u got a super hot gf or are u really good at school or something? He's really pathetic if he feels the need to go out of his way to be nasty to you. Let him be, and focus on getting to college. At the end of the day, when ur qualified and have everything in head of you, you'll look over at him with pity and he'll be sat there wishing he'd put more effort into school than bullying!

Answer 4

DON'T beat him down lol. I am a senior in high school too and i wouldn't want anything messing up my chances to get into college, and i wouldn't want that happening to you. I would be really annoyed by this but responding to him in anger will be exactly what he wants you to do. He is obviously jealous of you in some way because who goes out of their way to disrespect someone who they never even talk to?

Ignore him for as long as you can, and after a while tell him he needs to stop being disrepectful. but dont let your anger get the best of you... this is a tough one.

Good luck!

Answer 5

If you choose to ignore it, what's the worst thing that can happen? You have half a year left in school. Don't screw it up. "Shaking in anger" over someone running into you (even on purpose) and giving you a look is not good, you need to keep it under control.

Your pride is not worth sacrificing your education.

Answer 6

Man I hate to say it but you ARE being a p**** if you have to go online to ask how to deal with this situation. Don't worry about getting suspended, you're a man, he's challenging you, you STEP IN THAT *** and show him what's what. If you're really worried about suspension, do it off school grounds. That way, if he doesn't back down you're in a neutral location. If he tells the administration and you get suspended, whatever, you look like the badass. If its your first fight, they won't do anything.

And yeah, you're going to get a lot of people saying you should turn the other cheek and be the bigger man. That would be an adorable course of action!

Answer 7

For you are the "UNSEEN FURY"!! Who would dare speak such hated word toward thee? You must thrash him to the inch of suspension!

Answer 8

GO TO THE PRINCIPAL OR ONE OF YOUR TEACHERS AND TELL THEM ABOUT THIS HARASSMENT. YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF AND IT'S NO USE GETTING IN TROUBLE BY KNOCKING HIM ON HIS ***.