i deleated my old question, once again, guys only?

Question

i want to know what would cause a man to turn down sex. and how would i go about approaching my guy about "why we don't have sex very often" sometimes i get the excuse ," i don't want sex to get old", or" i'm just tired", or "stressed". if that's the case he's been tired and stressed for 6 years. i am attractive, intelligent, and in my sexual prime who caters to his every need. what would cause a man to have little or no sex drive? a few notes
in the beginning of the relationship we had sex maybe once every two weeks, now it's once a month sometimes longer.

o.k i've noticed most of my answers that i am receiving are leading towards the unattractive approach.
i am NOT being vain but here are some comments that i get pretty regularly...

i could bounce a quarter off your ***
your butt is shaped like a ripe juicy peach
and there is no friggen way you can be 32 could i please see some i.d?

Answer 1

work may be getting in the way.that or the fear of proformance cuz you say it has been along time.he prob doesnt want to dissapoint you.tell him to make a night for yall and then tell him you want to try.....new things or things he wanted to try.you'll think of something.women are smart.

Answer 2

Once every 2 weeks!!?? That didn't start very well. In the beginning it should've been once a day. He's Stressed?? Sex is the best Stress remover I've ever had. Lady I'm sorry to say but He sounds as though he's having too much sex with someone else. If not maybe you should use shock and awe. Go and get some sexy outfits, Stripper boots, wigs etc.. and walk around the house and learn some new tricks.. Keep looking your best and I guarantee someone will appreciate it. Hell...send me a pic.

Answer 3

maybe you need to be a little bit daring with regards to your approach,most of us guys will never turn down sexual advances especially if the lady is showing some unique moves,be kinky,wear nothing sometimes and flash yourself to him,maybe this could start a sexual flame from your man,dont do the old trick of asking for sex its an old move and outdated,fell good about yourself be sexy make your man look like a looser if he doesnt take your bait,take command if needed, be aggresssive,its a trend nowadays,gone are the days when woman will say please have sex with me,we are now in a new era of equality where woman will do what the guys do so be modern to your approach and good luck

Answer 4

the easiest and most probable is he just is used to it and doesn't think that highly of it. (ouch I know)
but that gives you room to do things you may have never thought of, that he would want. for example, if he comes home one day and finds you in a school girl's outfit ready for hot sex, nothing could stop him.
if something does though, there is probably something really wrong

Answer 5

Maybe you've become physically unattractive to him.

I don't mean to be rude, but is this possible? Have you gained weight? Lost an arm recently?

Answer 6

jst tell tht it dsnt feel right

Answer 7

just be mean or not sexy