I honestly hate my body. I have naturally big breasts, a tiny waist, long *** legs and wide hips. I look fake. I hate it. I would get a breast reduction but I'm too scared to do that. I hate how women give me dirty looks and men think im easy because of my body. Is there any way I can down play the size of my breasts? Gaining weight won't make me look normal...all my fat seems to go straight into my chest...my legs and stomach won't get any bigger. And my wide hips drive me crazy. Anyone fuss this much over their body?
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Doesn't that look weird?
2007-12-14 06:06:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I am not trying to get compliments. It's actually kinda hard to do my job when people won't stop staring at me and it's aggravating when men don't look at my eyes when speaking, they look down. I want people to respect me and stop looking at me like I'm an object. Maybe some people want big breasts....but I'm not one of them. And don't bring in people who have actual disorders...this isn't about them...I feel sorry for them but I'm not going to just tell myself to get over it because they have worse problems. Everyone feels this way about something that most people think is unimportant. I don't want to sound mean, that isn't the point, but I'm trying to get respect in my work enviorment...not women wanting to kill me and rolling their eyes when they see me talking to a guy. I've had people, strangers, come up to me and ask if they're real. I don't want this attention.
2007-12-14 06:31:48 · update #1
Girl stop complaining and live with it!! theres some people who don't have LimbS!!! and are blind and disabled! get a Like and Get over it, your beautiful!
2007-12-14 06:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
After reading this question I couldn't help but wonder if there's ever been a case where a guy was worried that his "unit" was to big. Complaining that he must be deformed because people are always staring at the unusually large bulge in his pants... and that his unusually large unit makes him feel like an object, which in turn negatively impacts his life....etc....
If so, you two really ought to hook-up. You two would have lots in common.. Would be a match made in heaven for sure...
Honestly Greeneydgirl I don't know what to tell you or even what exactly your asking here. I know you said that your not fishing for compliments but come on... You know you have an attractive figure yet your clearly unhappy. Changing your diet probably isn't a very good idea because your already obviously very healthy and probably want to stay that way.... So my suggestion would be to wear clothing that better conceals your body. Something that doesn't extenuate your curves.
Otherwise you've got to live with what you've got, and to be honest I think most would agree that what you've got ain't so bad. (understatement)
2007-12-14 06:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by mknight 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you look deformed when everyone else seems to think you are really nice? Those pictures you have are very nice. A lot of people are obsessed just like you seem to be. Many women that looks like you would be the exact opposite and be stuck up. Don't change yourself, because you can use your looks to your advantage in this society. You say you're not looking for compliments, so you know that you are an attractive person? In the end just find a way to be happy with yourself for you do seem to have a lot going for you and that's a good thing. Don't try and put on more weight, or change yourself for someone else, because you might only be hurting yourself and making yourself unhealthy. If someone has a problem with you then that very well might be there problem and there insecurities. You say you don't want to be an object, but how would you feel if you weren't? An old saying is "the only thing worse than being treated like an object is not being treated like one."
2007-12-14 06:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Escape 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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My body is deformed!!!!!!!!!!!!! (pics)?
I honestly hate my body. I have naturally big breasts, a tiny waist, long *** legs and wide hips. I look fake. I hate it. I would get a breast reduction but I'm too scared to do that. I hate how women give me dirty looks and men think im easy because of my body. Is there any way I can down play...
2015-08-13 14:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're body is amazingly perfect.
Personally, that is a type of body on a woman I would want. Not really trying to compliment you since thats not what you're looking for.
However, most women would kill to have a great body like yours. I would consider myself lucky if I were you.
Look - You are one of the few women who won't have to worry much about finding a boyfriend or anything.
Your hips are big because women are suppose to have bigger hips. To bare children...lol. Its natural.
Stop trying to avoid what you were given as a person. Accept what you are and be happy! Your body is amazing!
2007-12-14 19:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by kinkydude21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not deformed and your body does not look weird. Every woman's body drives her crazy. Ignore the women who give you dirty looks - find a few good female friends who you have fun with and love you and the way you look. Guys who think you're easy because of your body - set 'em straight with the way you carry and conduct yourself. Expect respect - don't settle for less - and learn to love your body, big breasts and all.
2007-12-14 06:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're body is not deformed it looks perfectly healthy and normal looking to me. In fact if I was to saw you I would say you probably take good care of your body. Don't waste the money changing what God gave you, you actually have a gift that a lot of men want and you can use that to your advantage. If men think you're easy make them think twice.
2007-12-14 06:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Knowing 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You have a very beautiful normal body with nice breasts … Most men I am sure will love them and you together as one person. Not just your lovely breasts. Many woman would love to have them to. Your body is no way deformed .Love yourself and your beautiful body.
2007-12-14 14:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by t Preston 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get a breast reduction covered by insurance, especially with your complaints of back pain.
I had mine reduced Feb 2006 (38J to 38C) and don't regret it one bit!
A LOT of women get breast reductions, especially because of back pain and other health issues.
Please really look into it, it changed me completely and I would get it again if I had to!
I have a "surgery story" as well if you would like to read it, send me your email address via message.
http://www.breasthealthonline.com
That is a great site you should check out.
2007-12-16 23:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so hard on yourself. Your fine!! You are a pretty gal. Don't let some people get you down. God made you beautiful and learn to except the way you are.
2007-12-14 06:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by conny 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being young and beautiful, it won't last forever...and it's a bad idea to post pics on the internet, do you realize how many pervs are on here??
2007-12-14 06:14:47 · answer #11 · answered by FrancesFarmer 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋