I currently have two boyfriends.( please redirect your slut and player comments elsewhere!) Stupid of me to get myself in this situation, yes I know. Anyway, it seems here lately the current and oldest boyfriend doesn't show as much affection or attention to me as he used to. The " spark " has pretty much died. I'm bored, but I thought it was love. And all my friends have told me that I should be good to him because I 'm the best girlfriend he's ever had, and If we were gonna break up, I would be the one to do it. Well It seems like their prediction is true, because I think I 'm gonna break up with him.
The new boyfriend lives another state away, but is sweet, funny, just not as attractive. So what should I do? I don't want to break the old boyfriend's heart, and the new one I'm just not sure. I'm utterly confused! Thank you in advance for your help!
2007-12-14 02:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off: don't do what your friends tell you. They are not the one dating the person. Second, If you can't make the decision to break up because you don't want to break your bf's heart, then suffer. You can end this "situation" by making some decisions and not jacking around. Someone may/may not get hurt, but in life that is what happens. Everything isn't like TV where the endings always comes out fantastic.
So, saddle up girl and make a decision.
2007-12-14 02:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by CatNip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to your own question. Call it quits with your first boyfriend or at least take a break for now. As you are not sure about the other just take it slow or also take a break till you sort out what and who you really would like to spend your time with. Perhaps you need to rediscover who you are.
2007-12-14 10:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Iris R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what is necessary to preserve your happiness and make sure whoever you decide to let go knows it's a clean break. Not going out but remaining close friends can lead to some really gross drama that would make all parties involved feel horrible.
2007-12-14 10:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The far one when you get to know him and see more you will find his faults and get comfortable. If it is not working with the current one talk to him and work it out or just be friends so that you can find someone that gives you the spark.
2007-12-14 10:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you girl, i have been through there myself, it's not that you are a player, it's just... idk anyways just think about it, the boyfriend that you have that lives a state away, well let's just say it's not going to work out with him, how do yuo know he doesn't have another girl over there, i mean seriously, and your boyfriend here, well if he likes you alot, why leave him? unless you definitely don't feel anything for him, so my suggestion is if you are going to break up with your boyfriend, do it and find you another man around your area, i mean you don't want to end up hurt, you know... well good luck!
2007-12-14 10:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you gonna do when the new, younger boyfriend gets bored with you?...Sucks when the shoe is on the other foot...Just something to think about
2007-12-14 10:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with the new one and try again with the old one.
2007-12-14 10:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who cheats sux in my book. But dump the one. And stay with the other. You deserve a much less attractive man. If any man at all.
2007-12-14 10:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by . 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well by the sounds of it you're not completely happy with either one of them.. I think you shoudl let them both go and find someone else.
2007-12-14 10:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the old one you need some time apart.
2007-12-14 10:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋