Is my ex doing these things, or am i paranoid?
or is he obsessed with me:
the guy thta we both liked each other, i dumped. mainly becuase i decided that though hes a great guy he isnt giving me what i need out of the relationship. i went cold turkey as in blocking his yahoo accounts and sending him a letter telling him not to contact me. i did this mainly becuase he always seems to suck me into an emtoional roller coaster, so being friends isnt a wise choice. that was two weeks ago. the first week i got a hang up call from "private caller" on my phone that means they pushed *67. the person just listned to my voice. and no it waslnt a telemarketer becuase thers shows up as "unkown". next, I am now getting instant messages for sex sites. saying " click on ___ to see my webcam" . number 1 i had this account a long time and never went to porno sites w/ it and never recieved these solicitations until NOW. is he behind it is this his little way of "being near me" or whatever. or am i just being paranoid?
2007-12-14 22:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your thought process is a result of your guilt. You went "cold turkey" and had no closure. Had the two of you talked about it you would have walked away knowing how he felt (sad, angry, or otherwise). He could be relieved and already moving on in his life and the last thing he has time for is to "toy" with you. Bottom line, whether him or conscience, your paying the price for the cowardly way you handled the situation.
2007-12-14 22:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you should want something out of a relationship. Being smart and knowing what you want only means your are confident.
Second, I would say it is your ex, to odd not to be. Sometimes Exs like to be mean to get even, I had one send someone to beat me up and after he drove into my car he then began to punch me. So know what you want means you know what you don't want. Good job in trusting yourself
2007-12-14 22:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by chicket 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
psycho! By the way, what is it that makes a person think they need things from a relationship? You should have a relationship because you see that someone else needs something.
2007-12-14 22:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by anton t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wish he were obsessed with you. He;s probably screwing someone else right now. I don't thinkhe can do that and call u at the same time.
2007-12-14 22:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋