Singles & Dating - 16 December 2007

My girlfriend of 2 years and I broke up 3 months ago, mainly to get space, but knowing we would get back together. A week after this she wanted to get back, and i did too, but i said we should take some more time to fix what we needed to. she was upset and said she wanted me back. 2 days later she went to see her ex , and after this, she didn't want to get back, saying she needed to be single. over the course of the next month i begged for her back, sent her flowers, did everything i could. she was different, told me she didn't love me and to move on. we were at the same party one night, and i decided to try to move on, so i talked to other girls. one girl was on my arm flirting, and my ex flipped out, screaming at me and calling me an asshole. later she came to my apartment to see if i was sleeping with her (which i wasn't). after this she wanted to hang out again and so we did. the next 2 weeks went well until she told me she had slept with her ex 2 weeks before.

2007-12-16 12:30:23 · 3 answers · asked by Loverboy 1

she said that she want to have a college experience and make new friends. Also she want to focus on school and make up her mind about what she really want to do in college. she said that she want to end things between us in a good way. she said that she still likes me. She said that she is not ready for a relationship yet. she said that she is deppending on me too much. the thing is that i really like her and she really likes me, but she believe that this is what she have to do. i am her first real relationship that she ever had. Also i took her virginity and she was my best friend. The thing that i want know is should i still talk to her as a friend or completely do not talk to her at all. if i talk to her i am going to still have feelings for her. I do not want to give her part of me, I want to give her the entire me. i feel like if i give her part of me (which is friendship), she will get too comfortable with it and later on do not want to go back out with me. What should i do?

2007-12-16 12:29:17 · 4 answers · asked by offense12 1

OK HERES THE DEAL I USE TO TALK TO THIS SPECIAL GUY NAME JAMEL ME AND HIM STARTED OFF AS FRIENDS BUT HE REALLY LIKED ME BUT I DIDNT PAY HIM NO MIND CAUSE HE WASNT REALLY MY TYPE BUT THAN MY BESTFRIEND KEEP TELLING ME TO GO OUT WITH HIM CAUSE HES A NICE GUY AND HE EASY TO TALK TO SO I WASNT GOING TO A FIRST CAUSE I KNOW ALL GUYS AND GAMES BUT I JUST TOOK THE RISK AND WHEN IT CAME OUT TO BE HE TOLD MY BESTFRIEND THAT HE DIDNT WANT TO BE WITH ME AND HE NEVER LIKED ME HE WAS JUST RUNNING GAME BASICALLY BUT THAN IN THE END I GOT HURT CAUSE HES NOT LIKE ANY OTHA GUY I BEEN WITH HES SWEET CHARMNG BUT ALSO SNEAKY I TOLD HIM STUFF I NEVER TOLD ANY GUY I THOUGHT HE WAS THE ONE BUT UNFOURTANLEY HE WASNT I FORGIVE QUICKLY BUT HOW COULD U FORGIVE SOMEONE THAT HURT YOU MENTALLY PHYSICALLY EMOTIONALLY I DONT KNOW AT FIRST I COULDNT LET GO BUT NOW I THINK I MOVED ON BUT I REALLY DONT WANT TO HATE HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO HE WANTS US TO BE FRIENDS IM NOT THE TYPE THAT HATE SOMEONE BUT I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD

2007-12-16 12:26:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

how old wer you?
do you regret it?
was their a reason why?
did your partner ditch you the next day?
idk what to do, im 14, and i think sex is great, i see nuthin wrong unless its not safe!
but its a scary thought at my age!you know?
[pleas dont write your to young to have sex].thanks!=]

2007-12-16 12:25:54 · 17 answers · asked by GOD is good 3

There are some many to say women! I don't wanna say them. But what are some good things to say to guys?

2007-12-16 12:25:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously, I have been wanting a girlfriend since I was 14 and so far I have not even been close to going out on a date with a girl or having a girlfriend, why do people always say "you haven't met the right one", or "there is someone special out there for everyone", I don't care if my first girlfriend is the right one!!!!, I don't want my first girlfriend to become my wife! Seriously!, it is so frustrating and depressing that I have been single my whole life, while there are tons of people out there younger than me that have had tons of dating experience, and I don't consider myself lucky for never having a girlfriend, I don't wanna hear you people saying that "I saved myself from all the drama and stress from the results of a relationship", well guess what!?!, I wanna experience that stuff, besides, it's part of growing up, no relationship or marriage is perfect, thats why people break up and get divorced. Seriously, am I the only one who is 20 and has never had a girlfriend?

2007-12-16 12:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6

In love ...
With Love....
Finding love....
Love coming to them etc...

2007-12-16 12:23:48 · 22 answers · asked by Rita 6

whats the best way to flirt on the phone with someone you like...what are some good sentences to say ?
and am a girl :)

2007-12-16 12:22:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you guys care more for in a girl?
pick
A.) personality
B.) appearance

2007-12-16 12:20:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ahhh! It's this week! We've been going out only since last monday, And I wans't sure if I was gonna give him anything. But then he said he was gonna get me preswents for my birthday AND christmas. So... yeah. He has two south pole jackets that I like to wear, but I don't know if he wants another one. Help me please!

Just so you know he's a 13 year old 7th grade boy.

2007-12-16 12:20:08 · 23 answers · asked by Boo. 3

would you still be talking to other girls,dating and flirting w/other girls?would that be NORMAL if you love someone but youre not bf/gf yet??..or does this make a guy a player whos doesnt know what love is?

2007-12-16 12:16:15 · 1 answers · asked by cant take heat?get the f%&k out! 4

this is for my sister she needs advice

i was in a relationship with someone who showed a lot of signs of sincerity and caring in the midst of all this is ex fiance of a year and half ago contacts him through email saying she was sorry for what she did and she still has feelings for him. meanwhile this girl really did him wrong so he had mixed feelings for her which ended our relationship. my question is when we had broken up we had a talk and i told him that i didnt want him to contact me unless he was110% sure he wanted to be with me. so after about 3 and half weeks i get a text message " would it be okay if i gave you a christmas gift"? so what i wrote back was " if that is something you feel you would like to do you shouldnt have to ask me" and his response was "okay".

that was about a week ago and he doesnt call or keep up any form of comunication that was it. for me that was a very strange situation what do you guys think?

2007-12-16 12:15:34 · 3 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

There is this junior that i like at my school but i don't know him that well. he is really hott and people tell me he is nice. I would love to get to know him! i am a freshmen though. but EVERYDAY when i pass him in the hallways he always glances at me, he glances at me at lunch, he looks at me when he thinks i am not looking but my friends are for me, he sometimes stares at me in the morning times, and he will kinda show off by bending over to tie his shoes in front of me, sticking his butt out in front of me, and standing right in front of me stretching and taking off his sweatshirt. My friends think he is interested in me but he has a gf from a diff town and they have been goin out for like 3 weeks. I know i don't know him...but i know that i am attracted to him...cuz he makes me happy and he is all i think about. based on all the stuff i have listed above....could he possibly be a tiny bit interested in me???

2007-12-16 12:14:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay im 13 and was over at my 14 year old gf house i walked into the bathroom and i accidently saw her naked. she said its okay and she actually told me to watch her. so i did and then she told me to touch her. is this going 2 lead 2 sex?!?!

2007-12-16 12:13:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he wont be interested in anything further?

2007-12-16 12:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by Its been a while............. 3

some guy left this in my honesty box on facebook.

"how's 60 bucks sound for a roll in the hay?;) if you know what i mean..."

I have a bit of an idea of what it means, but I'm not completely sure. anyone know?

2007-12-16 12:07:35 · 27 answers · asked by meghan♥ 4

...and you may not even known she was shying away. For all you know she could have been uninterested if she looked away. Anyway, if you saw her and were attracted to her and/or thought she seemed nice (at least to others) since she didn't talk to you, would you try to meet her by going up to her or making your way over to her?

2007-12-16 12:06:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it difficult to kiss when a guy has braces and the girl has a tongue ring in? Is it possible for the ring to get hooked onto the braces?!

2007-12-16 12:00:32 · 5 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3

my boyfriend would like a stuffed dog for christmas?

2007-12-16 12:00:12 · 1 answers · asked by blah 1

okay well i have to choose between a girl or boy.

first there my ex gf me and her love each other and i've hurt her in the past but i love her. she's worth a lot to me and i want to show her i can do better and i care about her a lot.

then theres my ex bf but he loves me, and i love him too. i know its like "how could she love 2 people?" well i do so get over it. well he lives in Canada but hes moving here in a few years because of his basketball career. and he wants to have a future with me. and i want to also have a future with him. but then again i want to have one with my ex gf. she loves me and i love her. i have no idea what to do. and to add on to that, they both hate each other. ive been told im too immature to even have this stuff. but i dont really care i just need help on what to do, insteed of being called names.

2007-12-16 11:58:15 · 1 answers · asked by jordan h. 1

I think this is a stupid question but is it better if the girl asks the guy out or the guy ask the girl out...........thanks.....CoLlEeN :)

2007-12-16 11:53:50 · 5 answers · asked by Colleen 1

I just want to know out of curiosity.....
and because i accidently texted a guy im interested in drunk a few nights ago
it wasnt offensive (i didnt say anything bad just that i was drunk and that it sucks that he couldnt make it) but i was obviously drunk
is that bad?

2007-12-16 11:53:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is 18 years older then I am. He's in his early 40's. Anyways, we have an amazing relationship of almost 2 years. The sex is lacking in the last year. It's partly because of his anti depressent medications. He was severly heart broken from his previous relationship before me. Now that the honey moon phase of the relationship is over. He's satisfied with sex once a week and i want it everyday im in my 20's! Is this loss of libedo also something to do with his age? What is a girl to do?

2007-12-16 11:51:20 · 14 answers · asked by geminigirl 1

My boyfriend and I have been together 13 months. He's amazing. I love everything about him including his family!
Anyways we have a great relationship and hes telling me how i'll be the furture "mrs. *his-last-name*" all the time and saying "when your my wife..." Also stuff about where I'll be putting my stuff at his place.
I found out last night he has it all planned out and plans on asking in the spring.
I can wait, but i'm so excited! I don't want to go over board and talk about what I want for our wedding till he asks. How can I chill out before actually being asked?!? I do not want to scare him away but hes so open about telling me!
Is it wrong to actually start looking at stuff online, ex. theknot.com and finding stuff? I'm just so excited I need to relax! Any tips?

2007-12-16 11:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by Mom to one cute boy! 6

Ok here's this girl I know, she's hot, smart, educated, funny, sometimes scathing, sarcastic, she's a great cook, and loves sex!
But, of course there's always a BUT.. She's opinionated, stubborn, and occasionally condescending. Once a month she flips out completely!

2007-12-16 11:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My new cell-mate Rodrigo keeps staring at me. Sometimes he smiles. I think he likes me. I don't want to get too excited because he may get transfered or shanked.

What should I do?

2007-12-16 11:46:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in 8th grade and last night i was at my friends party. my crush//rly good friend was there and we were laying down next to each other and talking. He was saying some of his racist jokes again but he doesnt actually mean them but everytime he says them im like thats mean and then he'll hug me. For some reason he asked me if id ever dance wit a white guy and i asked him y but he didnt answer me back. the nite b4 a whole bunch of us were hanging out and i texted him to see if he was going and instead f just textin me back yes or no he called me. he also asks me to sleep wit him or give him a blowJ [4 some reason i still like him even though he asks me this stuff and im da only girl that he asks]why do u think he does all this stuff?? please help

2007-12-16 11:45:15 · 35 answers · asked by questioning 2

What has been your best kiss? What has been your hottest kiss? How did it happen and what did you do? The hottest one will get 10 points But specify what you guys did!

2007-12-16 11:43:30 · 2 answers · asked by Foryou42 3

15 years old dont be rude
new boyfriend

2007-12-16 11:40:52 · 3 answers · asked by Gabrielle C 1

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:32:14 · 9 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7