Seriously, I have been wanting a girlfriend since I was 14 and so far I have not even been close to going out on a date with a girl or having a girlfriend, why do people always say "you haven't met the right one", or "there is someone special out there for everyone", I don't care if my first girlfriend is the right one!!!!, I don't want my first girlfriend to become my wife! Seriously!, it is so frustrating and depressing that I have been single my whole life, while there are tons of people out there younger than me that have had tons of dating experience, and I don't consider myself lucky for never having a girlfriend, I don't wanna hear you people saying that "I saved myself from all the drama and stress from the results of a relationship", well guess what!?!, I wanna experience that stuff, besides, it's part of growing up, no relationship or marriage is perfect, thats why people break up and get divorced. Seriously, am I the only one who is 20 and has never had a girlfriend?
2007-12-16 12:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Prostitutes and Hookers do not count for me, I refuse to have sex with them, besides, thats just asking for AIDS and other STD's.
2007-12-16 12:24:57 · update #1
Dude... speaking man to man here, don't give up! It doesn't matter if you haven't had that type of relationship with a girl in the past. What matters now is what's goin on today and the future. How you were back then with the ladies is no indication of how you will be. Man, you just need to stop bein so hard on yourself and put yourself out there. Girls totally dig the type of guys that are outgoing and not afraid to be themselves. Maybe show them you have a little danger in you, cause for some reason girls like risky kinda guys. Whatever you do, don't completely transform who you are just to attain a lady. Dude... I'm 19 and have only been in 3 relationships, and I'm pretty proud of it. They were great girls. It doesn't matter how many girls you can get, you just want that one amazing lady. For real though, you need to get over this sad state you're in because people can sense this from you. It's just as simple as hittin up some nice social spots and bein who you know best...you. Good luck to ya my man. Peace.
-Kenny
2007-12-16 12:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so young! Having a girlfriend at 14 is nothing. That barely counts. You have missed out on nothing. You are only 20 years old. There are many 20 year olds who are busy studying, working on careers, are shy, etc. I know it feels as though everyone and their brother has a significant other, but it's just not true. Many have never dated. They just don't let others know. Don't settle for anyone. Yes, I know you want to experience having a gf, but try to meet someone who is like you. Where would that type of girl hang out? Maybe hang around there, but don't go in search for a gf. That rarely happens and work out all great. It usually happens when you are busy living life.
2007-12-16 20:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 and i've never had a boyfried, and i dont think i ever will :) but its okay because I know life has plenty of other things to offer llike having fun with close friends, and becoming successful in life. I know how you feel, it's like everyone around you is in a relationship and you don't want to be excluded. If only you were younger lol
2007-12-16 21:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Billa Bong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only twenty? That is actually more common than you might think. I am sure you have heard this before but, confidence is what counts. Guys with self confidence are the ones who get the dates. I have seen plenty of men who are actually ugly but get dates because they have a lot of guts. I am sure they weren't always like that. It probably took time, practice and patience. But, I am a woman so I don't know for sure. So, why not find a guy like that and ask them how they got their self confidence with women.
2007-12-16 20:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by cactusflower333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have missed out but it cud be the fact that you are trying too hard you sound needy look at it this way i am no stud i dont consider myself great looking but i am cocky i have something other guys dont have the ability to say no to a woman the ability wen she walks up and says can i read that book your reading to say **** off i am reading it be a bit bad and girls will find you more attractive for it at the same time respect them they are someones daughter remember
2007-12-16 20:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by '' The Second Coming '' 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey confused are you shy when it comes to asking girls out? you sound as if you have very low self esteem you have to feel good about yourself first before you can attract girls cause believe me when i say if you don't feel good about who you are women will pick up on that,or may be your very picky about who you want to date?but seriously if you are feeling down on yourself you will find it next to impossible to find a girlfriend so do something to make yourself feel good and you will attract the opposite sex any ways good luck!
2007-12-16 20:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i hear this bs all the time so i know whatcha mean. Unfortunately i Still have this problem and cant help u. ill tell u somethin though. The girls r not gonna come up to u. U gotta go to them. ( yeah i know... it sucks)
2007-12-16 20:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jamesnt2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like a sweet guy you can find someone
just flirt and talk to girls more, maybe the reason you haven't had a girlfriend is because you haven't tried
2007-12-16 20:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by theluvguru 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad you're not into s*uts. Just keep looking, you'll find someone eventually. Good Luck!
2007-12-16 20:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mary 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no just step your game up everyone is meant for somebody its just take time to find that special one
2007-12-16 20:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by lil bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋