she said that she want to have a college experience and make new friends. Also she want to focus on school and make up her mind about what she really want to do in college. she said that she want to end things between us in a good way. she said that she still likes me. She said that she is not ready for a relationship yet. she said that she is deppending on me too much. the thing is that i really like her and she really likes me, but she believe that this is what she have to do. i am her first real relationship that she ever had. Also i took her virginity and she was my best friend. The thing that i want know is should i still talk to her as a friend or completely do not talk to her at all. if i talk to her i am going to still have feelings for her. I do not want to give her part of me, I want to give her the entire me. i feel like if i give her part of me (which is friendship), she will get too comfortable with it and later on do not want to go back out with me. What should i do?
2007-12-16 12:29:17 · 4 answers · asked by offense12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wont want to go back out with you if she got "too comfortable" with you, thats dumb.... she probably would... your story is sweet.... you should talk to her as friends and if u like her as much as u say u should be able to wait for her... thats what us girls like is to have someone in the end able to wait for us..
Not talking to her would be like the last resort...
She probably wants to not have a boyfriend on the side while being in college cuz u never know who you'll meet there...
Good Luck... Peace!
2007-12-16 12:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is right to want to go to college and have other experiences before settling down for life. You can't blame her for using some common sense, few relationships that begin as young as yours will work out in the long run, because you will be going through so many changes in the next few years. If it is too painful to remain close friends, try to at least be friendly when you see her, while making new friends. Nothing is to say that this is a permanent break, if you have deep ties they may be rekindled at a later date, it happens all the time. In the mean time you might also set some future long term goals for yourself. Nothing is more attractive to a girl, than a confident guy who can set out on his own and make his own way...
2007-12-16 12:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you completely stop talking to her then it wouldn't be very likely to ever be with her again. You need to at least be a small part in her life, but if you still care for her deeply it isn't wrong to let her know that. She just needs some space to find who she'll be on her own. So definitely stay friends, and offer an ear when she needs someone to talk to, even if maybe its not something you want to hear.
2007-12-16 12:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space thats what shes practically asked for so respect that decision
2007-12-16 12:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by '' The Second Coming '' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋