Singles & Dating - 16 December 2007

So I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. When he is normal, he is the most amazing, caring, loving boyfriend a girl could ask for. He is very considerate and does lots of cute little things for me. He never puts me down, has never said an insulting or mean thing towards me, and isnt one of those controlling ******* alot of girls get involved with.

Here's the thing: he has alot of stress/anger issues, and his mom is bipolar and he may be too. When he gets in one of his "moods", the slightest thing will piss him off. Stupid things that normal people (or even slightly angry people) wouldnt get upset about sends him over the edge. Even when he is like this, he has never come out and insulted me, but walking on eggshells around him really gets old. He has done a good job of controlling himself i guess, because he told me the other day that he will get these really hurtful thoughts running through his head sometimes....

2007-12-16 21:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by sami_sam 4

Does anyone think thats a little unreasonable? Perhaps I am wrong.

2007-12-16 21:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by Allie C 2

i know it's rude but i can't fight with my feelings to her.
at first when i saw her my feelings are the same or i have no feeling to her but after 3 years i'm in love with here now,i told my cousin last night about my feeling to her and he said that she has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is a close friend of mind and a relative as well. and i feel downhearted again and again
i want her in my life what should i do

2007-12-16 21:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by ironfist09 2

this boy has been looking at me from a distance for about a month and a half. finally i decided to talk to him because i heard from on of his friends that he doesn't usually approach girls first. also my friend told me he was expecting me to talk to him because i'd added him as a friend on facebook and he'd been making eye contact etc, so i figured he was interested. it took me a long time to talk to him but i finally did and it was okay..and he seemed surprised, but he wasn't grinning like an idiot or anything (like i probably way)/ and i sent him a message later that night saying we should hang out but all he said was 'yea sure'. so im confused is it normal for some guys to be this aloof and passive, or is he just not that interested? im getting mixed signals like crazy. AND on top of it this other girl likes him and is moving in way faster..so i have no clue what to do... let it go?

2007-12-16 20:55:02 · 1 answers · asked by luckmess 2

Are our morals badly degraded that we find it hard to relate properly?

Like
why are there more infidels than faithful partners?
why are some friends turn out to be traitors?
why do we leave the people we love?
why do some people love those they should not love?

2007-12-16 20:52:51 · 13 answers · asked by Comedienna 2

I realize this sounds pathetic, but this is my story. I have always had a crush on this girl since middle school, we were close friends, we flirted with each other from time to time, but we never showed any physical affection. Through out high school she had many flings, although we were still close friends. In between her flings I would really start liking her again, which caught me every time because we hung out more. Although she would end up telling me about other guys she was hooking up with, I would see her at parties hooking up with guys and actually had oral sex with a close friend of mine. I still really liked her much. Anyways to make a long story short, eventually I gathered up the courage and kissed her in between one of her flings, and as of now we have been dating for over a year but even till this day is something I cannot forget. I really love this girl but sometimes I get really depressed over the past. We are both young, 19 yrs old, and I am not sure what I should do

2007-12-16 20:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, this is gonna be kind of long, so u all know.
so, recently, my girlfriend who i loved more than life broke up with me. i seemed to have gotten over her. but now, we are just like normal friends. but everytime i read something she sent me, like love notes and stuff, i cry from missing her so much.
since then, ive been hangiing out with this other girl who i was told had a crush on me. last night, i tried to ask her out, but she said that she would, and shes sorry, but shes got a bit too much going on now to have a boyfriend. i asked her, "maybe in the future?" and she was like yeah. ive really started to like her now too.
ok, well, now for the question. i know why my old gf broke up with me, and i know i can fix it. so i was wondering, should i ask for a second chance with my old gf, or wait and see what happens with this other girl? any advice at all is greatly appreciated.
thank you in advance

2007-12-16 20:37:28 · 21 answers · asked by Roxas 1

I am only talking to you cos I can't see you.

2007-12-16 20:34:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 20:34:43 · 13 answers · asked by green5storm2 1

If you are single, do you hope to find someone in the new year?

2007-12-16 20:12:10 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3

WILL A GUY WITH A LOT OF EXPERIENCE KNOW IF I PUT FAKE BLOOD AFTER SEX ??
CAN YOU DO THIS AND PUT IT IN THE SHEETS OR IS THERE A WAY YOU CAN TELL BECAUSE THERE IS NO BLOOD IN HIS CONDOM???
I REALLY NEED TO FIGURE OUT HOW I WILL DO THIS OR ELSE I CAN GET KILLED AND NO, THERE IS NO OTHER OPTIONS SO PLEASE STICK TO MY QUESTION AND HELP ME!!!!

2007-12-16 20:10:21 · 16 answers · asked by shiri 1

I just get that vibe from most asian girls I know.

Are they into the same things sexually? I guess I'm just clueless when it comes to asian sex customs. Masturbation?

This is just based on what I have observed. I also have never come across an asian girl that I thought was interested in me as a BF or sexual relationship.

2007-12-16 20:10:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... I'm In So Over My Head.... I had this boyfriends James** for just over a year, we both decided we were better of as friends and we stayed best friends, about a month after we split I started seeing one of his mates Andy**, he said he was fine with it and we stayed best friends me and Andy** have been together a year and a half now, I never really got over James** he was my first love and I just thought it was normal... The other day me and James** were out and we talked for about 2 hours, I have began to develop very strong feelings for James** and he likes me too but what about Andy**? I don't want to leave Andy who I Love for a filling, but I don't think it is fair to be with him if I like some one else!!!
Help!!
There is also one other thing they are really good mates they both work together and they play football together on saturday and sunday!!! They see each other all the time...
** changed names...

2007-12-16 20:08:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a friend with a girl yesterday.
He was my closed friend few months ago. I kept some secret from him, and he misunderstanding that I had changed. We end up with arguments. We had not contact each other anymore.
How am I going to say to him that I am still the one that he knows?
I can’ tell him the secret because this is going to hurt him much.I can only keep it for myself..how???

2007-12-16 20:04:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

He acts like he likes me but he doesnt really. He sleeps about..hes even that desperate for some that he sleeps with the females staff at his army college! (but im not meant to know) ..He flirts with me in texts and when we're together he kisses me loadsss!! Even down my body and things go a bit further haha (NOT ALL THE WAY THOUGH) But anyways is he just a playa? I like him sooooooooo much && its like no matter what I do I cant get over him. He'll do something wrong and it some how turns round not to be his fault and I punish myself and he just traps me! Like the other day I asked him if he was out of army college this weekend..he said no and yet he went to meet my friend && her boyfriend (hes best friends with her boyfriend) and I went maddd thinking he lied to me! ..Turns out he was only allowed out for the day so I got mad at myself and jus pigged out loads && now I feel fat!

2007-12-16 19:57:54 · 10 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3

I have known this girl for a while now, and I know, deep down in my heart that I love her, and she loves me, but not the same way. She loves me as her best friend, and I am just so heartbroken, because for the first year, she led me on, and then she told me she didn't want to lose our friendship by dating me. I am about to give up on love altogether because everyday I wake up and feel a huge, empty hole in my stomach. I cry almost constant when I am home, and whenever I see her, her beautiful face reminds me how much I hurt, and it kills me even more. What should I do?

2007-12-16 19:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by matrix man 2

I finally got into a relationship with this gal that i've a big crush on.Yeah,great..But after a date one day I noticed that she's got tattoos on her back and thigh..Argh,I dunno if i can accept that.I mean she's got a great body but all the tattoos are just a turn off.What do u guys think if u were in my situation?

2007-12-16 19:56:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a male close friend and well he invited me to attend a concert and also to go to an anime fair

i was unable to go with him to the above events but he invited me out again to accompany him to go around the mall and to watch a movie just the 2 of us

we met in front of the theater

I find him real cute

we met back in college, when he asked for my number he said would anyone get mad if I ask for your number?

plus he sends me sweet txt messages

can anyone pls tell me does he have feelings for me or am I just misreading his actions. he's a nice guy

2007-12-16 19:52:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I caught my boyfriend looking at porn on the internet. Is that weird? It makes me feel uncomfortable and I wonder why he does it. He says it's not a fantasy but it "recharges his batteries." Has anyone else been in this situation? We got in a fight last week but things are better now. Still, should I be worried? We've been dating for more than a year & a half, plus we live together. I guess I would feel better if he looked at it with me and not by himself.---Thanks in advance for your input.

2007-12-16 19:49:03 · 15 answers · asked by Steph 5

I have been meeting with a guy on a semi-professional basis over the past few months & I am very attracted to him but am unsure he feels the same way. Today was our last meeting & he commented that I will never have to see him again. I thanked him for everything & put my hand on his shoulder & he reached down to kiss my cheek (I guess) & I moved away.
Is it better to make a move or wait to be sure that the other person feels the same way???

2007-12-16 19:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by *dream weaver* 3

theres is this girl that ive known for a while n were pretty good friends.we r both in the ninth grade and im not sure if she likes me.i really like her alot n i think she mite like me cuz one time she told things(personal)and then she told me to tell her things(personal) about me.she is always smiling when im with her so plz help me out im not sure wat to do.and i think she mite like one of my friends.and if she does do u think i should get her somthing for christmas and if so wat do i get?

2007-12-16 19:23:50 · 3 answers · asked by MoonDoggie93 5

Why is it if someone posts a question for guys,men,gentlemen only. There is a mad rush of girls answering the question. ? This is for you ladies that are reading this. I caught you red handed. confess.

2007-12-16 19:22:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dream of Special K, my fantasy girl....how about you?

2007-12-16 19:20:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help I know you have seen a question like this hundred of times but this time is different... well here I go... I have a male friend (I am not interested in him I just want his friendship), I have noticed that he is staring at me most of the time while he is working... so it is supposed he should be focused in his work the othey day we attended a party and he hugged me... well in fact I felt squeezed! and he tickled my tummy very VERY near of my boobs I feel so confused because I did never lead him to do something like that. So I start to believe that he likes me or something like that... what do you think?

2007-12-16 19:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by Cutie-Pie 2

I split with my boyfriend yesterday, and what hurts the most is that my 2 yr old boy who got a little attached to him is asking me where he is. I dont want him back, he cheated on me too much, and lied more than a normal human could probably do in a lifetime! but i feel so so much pain, all i seem to be doing is listening to cher strong enough on a loop, any words to help me to keep it together would be so appreciated. if theres people out there that have been here before how did you cope? I need to be there for my son, and being so close to christmas its quite hard to feel festive. Thank you.

2007-12-16 19:16:43 · 19 answers · asked by smrobinson1987 1

For an 18 yr old man falling for a 26 yr old female? or would it be wrong if the 26 yr old female has also falling for the 18 yr old man?

2007-12-16 19:12:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

So there’s this boy, D. He likes me, and I like him. We’ve hooked up a couple times (just making out). He’s asked me to keep it from all our friends though. He told me back in November (after the first time we hooked up) that with friends, he will hook up with them a few times to “get to know them more” and then if he likes her, he’ll ask them out. We’ve hooked up three times, but now its Winter Break, so we won’t see each other for an entire month.
Do you think we have the potential to turn into an actual relationship?

2007-12-16 19:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by A Nonny Mouse 2

THEN turn around and do the same thing again?

2007-12-16 19:10:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So...we've met once. He told his friend that im super hot which was the only one comment; he was mad at me when i called him 'dumb'; he wanted me to go visit him before; he likes to keep short convo about other ppl; he never calls me; and he sometimes doesnt send tells when he logs on unless i do it first, kinda like ignoring...

2007-12-16 19:09:37 · 6 answers · asked by Kasha 2

I think I am kinda pathetic
but honestly what is the easiest way to ask a girl out because I really like some one
but dont want to be embaressed

2007-12-16 18:58:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous