He acts like he likes me but he doesnt really. He sleeps about..hes even that desperate for some that he sleeps with the females staff at his army college! (but im not meant to know) ..He flirts with me in texts and when we're together he kisses me loadsss!! Even down my body and things go a bit further haha (NOT ALL THE WAY THOUGH) But anyways is he just a playa? I like him sooooooooo much && its like no matter what I do I cant get over him. He'll do something wrong and it some how turns round not to be his fault and I punish myself and he just traps me! Like the other day I asked him if he was out of army college this weekend..he said no and yet he went to meet my friend && her boyfriend (hes best friends with her boyfriend) and I went maddd thinking he lied to me! ..Turns out he was only allowed out for the day so I got mad at myself and jus pigged out loads && now I feel fat!
2007-12-16 19:57:54 · 10 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think this guy is honestly a smooth bastard. he knows his way around women so well that it allows him to play the field in a way that won't make him look like a bad guy and will have you eating out of the palm of his hand. don't let yourself be a victim.. i know you see theres something wrong with this picture. so move on unless you confront him ask him for something more .. like a relationship and depending on his response follow suite. if he says yes he'll commit.. be with him but be cautious until he fully earns your trust.. if he says he's not into doing relationships right now you'll know he was just in it for the hook ups.
2007-12-16 20:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by luckmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get over this lad and stop any contact with him. He's obv just using you hun, I kno that's tough to hear but it is the truth. You've already said he sleeps around and even goes with girls in his barrocks. He's not serious about you otherwise he wouldn't do that.
Just be glad it hasn't gone any further than messing round and stay well clear!!!!
Take care
2007-12-17 04:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by angi_tinkerbell_fairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get what is so confusing. He wants to have sex with as many women as possible and you happen to be one of the ones on his list. He obviously doesn't like you in anyway other than a physical one. Your choice if you want to see him but he won't be faithful, will never commit to you and may give you a nasty STD. If that's what you want from a relationship then go for it.
2007-12-17 04:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by SR13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he's a player and you're being played with...!!
Leave him or just have fun..
I don't really think this can be a serious relationship..!!!
But, euh.. you never know your fate..!!!
By the way, life has opened many doors for us.. Don't just stare at one and say you want this without even knowing the pleasures inside the other doors..
Hope you understand me.. .The decision is yours...!!!
2007-12-17 04:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by Stranger somewhere out there!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awh :( Ive had this happened to me before and it truly does suck. Just make sure he wants something serious with you and make sure you dont lead him on. Stop playing his little games even if its hard. Eventually whatever happens will be the right thing.
Just hang on tight. Someone else will find you if he doesnt.
Good luck <3
2007-12-17 04:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by xrobot.ambulancex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts like a player, then he's a player. This is a no-brainer, to be honest. He clearly doesn't like you enough to be loyal to you - but that's not your fault! Forget him and find someone else. You'll be a lot happier.
2007-12-17 04:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player!! and he's got u hooked
have ur fun with him while u can cause men like him like to bounce around
2007-12-17 04:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You again? jeezzzzz
Will you just drop it
why do 99% of women go crazy about men who are obviously pieces of sh*t?
2007-12-17 04:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a player but mayber talk to him about it and see whats really going on and tell him how you feel and how you feel about what it does to you and how it hurts you
2007-12-17 04:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by x_Three Days Grace_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ÙÙEnjoy your time with him when he is around and let him take it further.
2007-12-17 04:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋