I have known this girl for a while now, and I know, deep down in my heart that I love her, and she loves me, but not the same way. She loves me as her best friend, and I am just so heartbroken, because for the first year, she led me on, and then she told me she didn't want to lose our friendship by dating me. I am about to give up on love altogether because everyday I wake up and feel a huge, empty hole in my stomach. I cry almost constant when I am home, and whenever I see her, her beautiful face reminds me how much I hurt, and it kills me even more. What should I do?
2007-12-16 19:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by matrix man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will go away, but it takes time....try to relax and just do small chatter with them, so you still have a connection with them, because friendship is the bases of all relationships..dont listen to any slow love songs, it just makes you feel crappyier....talk with other friends...your true friends would talk to you and try to cheer you up...
2007-12-16 20:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by laxitivepo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship, friendship comes first, then as time passes by it developed into something more than friendship: soulmates. Maybe she feels you're her brother. Try to stay away from her for awhile and be friend to others. If you feel the same, then tell her that you are seriously in love with her. After declaring your love, then stay away again. There is a saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Who knows it may have a positive effect on her. Goodluck!
2007-12-16 20:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by yolanda o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. i know it is easier said than done but that is the only thing you have to do. it would be hard and painful at first but in time, the pain will go away. when you have given yourself enough time to cry for the love you have lost, it is time for you to give yourself time to be happy again. and be thankful that once in your life you have loved that someone. it may not have resulted according to how you would want. still, it is something you ought to be thankful for. besides, if the girl prefers the friendship, you have to respect that. it's just that some things are not meant to be.
believe me, moving on will not be that hard if you really put your heart and mind into it. besides, there's no point in making yourself feel the pain longer than is needed.
moving on is hard but not impossible. i just did. i broke up with my boyfriend of thirteen months. it was so painful but i learned to move on.
good luck!
2007-12-16 20:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bernadeth B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know she just afaird of losing you... you have to try to prove to her that you are the one for her and try to convince her to take that risk... because falling in love is one the riskest things in life... but you nevar know what will happen till you try....yea you both may fall on your assess but you just got to be brave enough to take that leap
2007-12-16 20:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up a prostitute. You'll forget about her.
2007-12-16 20:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋