Singles & Dating - 16 December 2007

we're in our 20th. We've been together for 4 months. Everything is fine, but I dont have much attention from him, and because of it, I feel a need to have attention from other guys. I know he doesnt cheat on me. He sits home reading a book, or sleeping, or dong something else, but he wouldnt call me and ask to go somewhere. I told him that there is a problem, but he says he is lazy...and he will try to change it...but no changes. If he gave me more attention, I would stay with him for sure. I dont really want to break up with him cuz he is a decent guy, but I'm often not happy because he doesnt say that I'm the best for him, that he loves me, or simply doesnt ask we out as often as I want. Finally, he always says Yes if I ask if to go or to do something....What do u think? What should I do to get his attention? Or maybe I should reduce my wants? Thanx a lot!

2007-12-16 18:58:24 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

I'm depressed and have anxiety disorder and am seeing a psychiatrist. Recently my psychiatrist and I have attributed my conditions to being lonley -- especially at night time. I barley ever have contact with people because of my job, where I can't talk to anyone there either. I am engaged but untill June of 2008 we are in a long distance relationship. I feel especially lonley at night because we used to cuddle every night and now i dont have that. I feel so lonley and insecure that im losing sleep worse than I already was. Is there anything I can do to not feel so lonley? thanks =/

2007-12-16 18:56:25 · 15 answers · asked by Maxwell 1

Just an Idle question. How do you differentiate?

2007-12-16 18:54:28 · 19 answers · asked by Dissent21 3

and between you and your guy friend is nothing just friendship will your guy friend be jealous of your boyfriend even though he doesnt like you that way
sorry if its confusing

2007-12-16 18:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by emitinpink 5

2007-12-16 18:48:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf has a good fren (lady) married with a kid of 5yrs old. Her hubby is always busy and that's y she would always meet us for dinner. She was actually our co-worker, which i have left the ex company. Leaving her and my bf in the same company now. Recently i was disappointed with my bf, for he shop a xmas gift (handbag) for her. When i am looking at my own bag, my bf told me. If i like the bag ? If like he can buy it for my xmas gift. I was abit disappointed and leave the bag without buying. Coz i feel that he got no sincerity. My sentiments if he can find time, searching bag for others. Y can't he find time to find present for me ? Humh... Rather then just buy anything i took from the store ??

2007-12-16 18:47:12 · 19 answers · asked by Samantha 2

What were the signs in the begining.......before it became physical abuse

2007-12-16 18:39:39 · 12 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3

2007-12-16 18:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Jake 1

i am 16 year old boy..... ok here is the DL

i have always been too caught up in school, to ever even consider dating, but i met the perfect girl. And she asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with her... duh, of course i said yes.

here is the complicated part, my parents are protective.... very protective. i need your help. tell me how to tell them i am going to go on a date (without them FLIPPING OUT) or being to nosey.... also im worried that they will tease me to no end... i hate that.........HELP

2007-12-16 18:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

could u sub conciously be scared of commitment?

2007-12-16 18:33:34 · 2 answers · asked by Shorin_ninpo 1

ok, im 14 and a freshman in high school, and this year ALL OF A SUDDEN, it seems like everyone has boyfriend. me? NO. this may sound pathetic, but i've never been asked out, never had a boyfriend, and never been kissed. i dont think im hideously ugly, and im nice, funny, and smart. guys flirt with me...but thats all that happens.
its not like i only want a boyfriend because everyone else has one....its just i want to feel loved, and be held, and kissed. has anyone else felt this way? or am i alone?
and the WORST part is, that guys my age or in my school just dont seem that into me. BUT, when i go out, i get hit on my guys at least 4-5 years older than me. but i dont reciprocate those feelings, because thats kinda creepy lol.
and i know you guys will say "focus on school" and i am, i have straight A's....
i just feel like i'll never meet someone whom i can just talk to about anything, or just hold, you know?
am i completely pathetic for feeling this way?

2007-12-16 18:21:31 · 6 answers · asked by . 1

Comon Lady's.... Do you think your a bit too choosy to find the right man? Not everybody's perfect be happy of what you got now! + It's very hard to find a Prince Charming...

2007-12-16 18:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by *BlueWolf* 1

she always wants her way and so do i, but she is so stubborn!

2007-12-16 18:12:20 · 25 answers · asked by sahuayo20 2

2007-12-16 18:07:00 · 7 answers · asked by zeeke a 2

I have been trying to look away from this guy angrily telling him I am BACKING OFF as he has wished after he has snapped at me once. However, he still looks at me when I happen to see him. He is pissed off when I look away angrily. The other reason why I look away angrily is becos I am trying tell him to stop looking at me as it disturbs me. Haven't I fulfilled what he wanted?

2007-12-16 18:03:02 · 4 answers · asked by Playful 2

So the usual philosophy is that a guy should have all these great ideas for a date in mind when he asks a girl out. He's pretty much expected to know a movie theater, have a back up plan in case that falls through, have a few good restaurant ideas, and maybe an idea for a follow up for dessert.

So that sounds good, but what if you aren't very familiar with the area where the girl lives.

I mean, girls always like it when the guy has a plan, and saying "Let's go out to dinner sometime, but I don't know where" sounds kind of pathetic, but if you don't know the area, how are you supposed to come up with an idea?

Just a thought I was wondering... how do you plan a date in an area you're unfamiliar with? Or do you bring her to your area(30 minute drive usually).

2007-12-16 17:57:40 · 3 answers · asked by Xeno 4

Many people say that I am ugly and I think so too... do u think so also?
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2007-12-16 17:53:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

love can be a hard experience to go through and i had this thought that for most of us, we seem to want what we cant get. But when it really comes down to it i believe that a lot of people are looking for someone they can really be with. So i ask YOU......do you believe it is hard to settle for less?

2007-12-16 17:49:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your happy and you love your bf/gf, why cant you stop?

2007-12-16 17:49:12 · 14 answers · asked by Mimza 3

This guy who I've liked for almost 4 months now is ignoring me. I didn't do anything but I'm afraid that someone could have made stuff up about me and told him something. We have a non-verbal relationship, meaning we only "communicate" through body language, I just read his body language and facial expressions. I love him so much and my entire day revolves around him and I only run into him once in a while. I tried to let go and forget about him despite the harsh things I heard him say about me but I can't. I'm so deeply in love with this guy I dont even know and the hard part is, I can't let him go because I don't know anything about him and I feel like I'm losing a really great guy. Please please, help me, I don't know what to do or how to read him anymore, I need some comfort.

2007-12-16 17:47:39 · 21 answers · asked by Behave 5

What yall think?

2007-12-16 17:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by Antwuan (Giants Superbowl XLVI Champs!!!) 7

What was the best meeting of a BF/GF? It doesn't have to be your current BF/GF. just a meeting that was funny. Mine is with my current GF

She was a cheerleader for her HS, and my school was versing hers in football. I intercepted the ball and while running it back got smothered out of bounds despite being 6' 1" 260lbs. I was tying to keep my balance while stumbling backwards and I hit something. I fell on the ground. I heard a female moaning and I had notice bowled over 2 girls, but fell on one. I apologized non-stop, and helped her up. She only suffered a minor ankle sprain. But it would turn out she lived 2 blocks away from me, because I would see her while I was doing a light run... and one thing lead to another after we recognized each other and now we have been going out for about 5 months.

Yup top that lol

=P

2007-12-16 17:41:07 · 4 answers · asked by Smooth Move EX-LAX 2

my boyfiend glances at breast..and im on here looking around at questions and everyones like 'because hes a guy' and all of this stuff. but i dont think thats nessacarily why, and i dont think its nessacarily means they like larger breast. why? because I notice the larger breast...we all do. not just men. at times (usually when i am pmsing) and i notice some girl with large breast then look at him and i see his eyes go down for a quick second, i get antsy and want to say something dumb like okay...well im gonna get implants and maybe youll stare at mine more. and i get immature sometimes. i find myself juggling the idea of breast implants...but he says he would NEVER want me to and always tells me he loves my breast. do some of you agree? that its not because he likes them or because 'hes a guy' but just because their in OUR FACE!!! I mean ...cmon

2007-12-16 17:39:18 · 26 answers · asked by Bird Girl 2

Of the tragic I've went through with him, I realize we were not meant to be.

2007-12-16 17:33:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

should I wait until after christmas to break up with someone?

2007-12-16 17:31:18 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 17:28:30 · 20 answers · asked by precision 3

Ok this girl im talking about is one of my good friends and I've finally decided to have the guts to tell her im starting to see her more than a friend. I know its not the best way but im gonna tell her over a text message when she's asleep so she'll read it in the morning.... main reason is if i do it at school in person every1 will know so I hope you ppl understand. So what do you think of this


(girls name) you are beautiful have a great personality and you are one of my closest friends. Im starting to see you more than just a friend...and i dont want this to affect our friendship in a bad way. So dont get freaked out by this message, its not the end of the world if u dont feel the same way... I just wanted to let you know how I feel.

So thats basically what I came up with so give your opinions or tips.... Also we're both 8th graders so think about that when you answer please. I'll pick the best answer it wont be by voting. Thanks

2007-12-16 17:23:45 · 7 answers · asked by Ya tu Sabes 3

I really like this one girls but she always changes her mind if she likes me or not..i really like her but I don't know what to do?

2007-12-16 17:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how retarded is it to break up with someone tho a TEXT MESSAGE???????????

i jsut want to know cuz my boyfriend broke up with me on saturday tho a text message!!!

♥Love♥
*Phreak*

2007-12-16 17:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by Murdoch! =D 3

so my girls birthday is coming up and i cant think of any thing to get her. she has done alot for me since we got together(e.g. get me a job, gave me a suprise birthday party,etc.) so i want to get her something special. im thinkin of things but i dont know what to get. she means a lot to me we been through alot so i want to get her that certain something that expresses my feelings. it doesnt have to be a gift it could be a act whatever as long as i get that reaction that makes her melt. thanks for your help.

2007-12-16 17:23:22 · 4 answers · asked by david j 2