Help I want her to know I like her, but I think I messed up.?

Question

The girl I like works at the store, we both went to school together she graduated a year after me, and I thought she use to like me but I duno, like the things she did I couldent tell if she actually liked me or not, like for instance one time I went in to check on my graudation stuff and came back out and she was sitting on bench near double doors and I was on way out the door and she walked in front of it and asked where I was going and I said home, and she said I dont want you to go, and I said Y?..and she said I would miss you, and I told her I had to go so she moved. So give or take 2 years later we talked online for awhile I told her I liked her and I asked her maybe to go to a movie sometime she said maybe and then sometime later she is working at the store and she has a boyfriend, but when I go in she always smiles at me and gazes at me, its weird we dont really talk even when I go through her register..so I duno what to do..is she nervious?..so I say bye bye fair lady?..

Answer 1

talk to her,

Answer 2

I think that based on her last interaction with you she might have been nervous about reaching out to you again. You said -

"I was on way out the door and she walked in front of it and asked where I was going and I said home, and she said I dont want you to go, and I said Y?..and she said I would miss you, and I told her I had to go so she moved."

I don't know how serious her relationship with her boyfriend is, but it wouldn't hurt to try and be friends with her. Next time you go through her register, ask her real quick if she has a break and to meet you later. Then just go for a walk or grab a bite to eat and just talk to her.

If you don't know what to say to her, or are just too nervous, ask her questions. Pretend you are interviewing her on TV, and listen to her answers. She will think you are the best guy in the world, and then just take it from there. You guys are just talking, so no pressure. :)

Answer 3

If she has a boyfriend then she is probably only interested in being friends.

She may well have felt emotional at the time of graduation, thinking she might not see you again, but that does not mean she wants to date you two years on.

I think you have a choice to make; if you are happy to be a friend, not a boyfriend, to her now, then do that.
If you are only interested in being her boyfriend, then stay in casual touch but look to date somebody else. If you split her up with her boyfriend and it does not work out for you too, you will have messed up a lot of people, including yourself.

It sounds like you care about this girl, which is good, but you need to respect her choices and not pin all your emotions on her.

Good luck!

Answer 4

You will never know until you ask her out. The worst she can do is to say no and that is not the end of the world. We are all told no lots of times in our lives. Yu just got to roll with the punches. She might just say yes. Go on give it a try. What you got to loose? Good Luck

Answer 5

if shes someone special to you dont give up..and dont act so tense! lol go to the store and get something..when your at the register start a conversation..and dont worry about the b/f..just try to get close to her as a friend and soon enough when she has trouble with her b/f she will need a shoulder to cry on and you will be there. or maybe by gettin close to you she will realize that you are a better match than her b/f.
good luck! :)

Answer 6

I think you need to act like a man and stop beating around the issue and just be up front about it. And if you like her why don't you step up and take the initiative. Its called a pursuit, women wont to be sought after, so seek her out.

And as far as her boyfriend, you either need to talk to him and tell him how it is or back off and wait. But don't be a punk. I had some cat trying to talk to my wife back when we were dating, and he tried to deny everything when I asked what was up. That guy pisses himself now whenever he hears my name.

Answer 7

Helllllooooo,Romeo put some life into this "could be romance",turn up the love in your thinkin Lincoln.Ask this girl out!!!!Why are you waiting for the cupid to shoot you in the BUTT.
Go to the store.tomorrow if possible. Smile big next time you see her ask her if shes free for Starbucks,on break{ see if she still looking at you for a possible relationship} If you still want one DECIDE to win her.Get her number,CALL follow up with some fun you may have in common,a concert,movie, alittle dessert.Go for it come on now, be a hero.

Answer 8

Fooling or not, go get yourself 10 points and find out. I'd tap it even if it wasn't serious, cause she'll definetly want it twice after the first night!

Like I always say, the best way to find out...is to "find out". (And by find out I mean, hit that **** like a steriod pumping boxer infront of a punching bag.)

Answer 9

hmm...thats complicated. sounds to me like she liked you but when you didn't say anything to her about it until two years later she moved on. but id say she still has feelings for you cause its hard for a girl to move on from a guy they really like. so talk to her about it and maybe you all can take up where u left off =]

Answer 10

You couldn't be to interested or you would have finalized the date to the movies. I'm sure she feels like that. She's not going to wait around forever.

Answer 11

YES, duh, she's nervous. Show her how much she's worth, treat her with respect, and don't give up on her. Show her that she's valuable enough to fight for. Ask her to hang out, not on a date, just casually. She and her bf will eventually break up, so wait for it, and be there for her when it happens. Trust me, it's really easy for a girl to fall in love with her best friend.