At a dance party last night, this amazing guy danced with my friend and I for two hours, we just had a great time. He favoured me more and more as the night went on, and at one point he gently put his arm around me to dance closer, but I slid away and he said "sorry!" .. I feel uncomfortable grinding with guys I don't know personally.
Then, later, when I went to the bathroom he caught up with me and asked to get me a drink, and I said "no, I don't drink alcohol" and he was like "so if I get you a drink you won't drink it?" and I said "no, my friend could have it though?" And he was like "yeah."
Then afterwards I left with my friend and saw him outside and he just started blushing.
And ... I am attracted to him! I was for the whole time but something is holding me back. I don't know what it is. Could I have just asked for a pepsi? I've been upset all day ... he was so sweet. He was sort of tipsy .. but genuine. I don't know. Am I stupid?
2007-12-16 13:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah.
Clearly I am an foolish. Hopefully I see him again. Thanks for all the help, I wish I could give you all 'best answer!'
2007-12-16 13:10:12 · update #1
He didn't offer the drink to my friend, he just didn't want to waste it, he sounded sorta *bleh* about it.
I just can't get him out of my head, this is stupid.
I know, he could have been looking for a one night stand, but then again ... what if he wasn't!
2007-12-16 13:20:25 · update #2
no ur not stupid . it wasnt meant to be . who knows maybe u wuldve gotten to know the guy more and he wuldve been an a**hole. and u wuldve been even more upset . theres so mayn more guys out there, so dont sweatt it
2007-12-16 13:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think you kinda acted like you wanted him to stay away from you... so he probably thought you weren't interested. you shouldve totally got the drink, and yeah why not, they do serve coke at the bar!
2007-12-16 21:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mellissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry he was after a one night stand and though he could get you drunk and compliant ---- when you turned him down he went for your friend ---- its best to move on and not worry about him ---- best wishes
2007-12-16 21:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems sweet...
maybe you SHOULD have asked for a coke...lol
I hope you got his number!
2007-12-16 21:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by theluvguru 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea... u should've just said pepsi please and smiled! but w/e, more will come. they're like buses, every 5 minutes!
2007-12-16 21:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by Stuck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋