Well I have a "crush" on this guy at school. I don't really know him, I pass him in the hall sometimes. I've never talked to him or anything, but I'd be too shy. I mean it would seem weird if I went up to some random kid and stared talking to him. I would feel even more weird if I just went up to him and told him that I liked him. Well, I would be terrified if he thought I was creepy or something. I don't take rejection very well. I've never talked to him or anything, but he's really cute and I want to get to know him more. But how? What do I do?
2007-12-16 13:17:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the feeling girl..but u got to be bold...most guys like that. If you are uncomfortable asking him out or telling him that you like him try getting his attention. You know that he is at a particular place at certain time ...try to be there. Try to get into his path...alot of eye contact and smiles in the oldest trick in the book to get someone to notice you. Just say hi...i am sure that wont hurt. Go for it ..u have nothing to loose by saying hi...how u doing? something like that
Good Luck
2007-12-16 13:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have touched on a issue that is common and also very difficult for everyone to deal with.There are no easy answers for how to handle it but you can try the following:1)be prepared to be rejected since that is part of life and the dating process.2)get all the negative ideas and thoughts out of your head. Telling somebody you like them does not make you weird or creepy; it just makes you human.3)since you have never spoken to him, start with a smile and a simple hi. how he responds to your smile and greeting will let you know what to do next, and if he is even worth the effort.4) if your initial step opens the door and breaks the ice, then you can continue with simple conversations about school, music, video games etc which then will lead to more intimate talks like if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, do you like me and so on5) finally, you can then reveal your interest and hope that he feels the same way and wants a romantic relationship with you instead of just a platonic one. I hope these ideas help you in getting your heart's desire. Good luck.
2007-12-16 21:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation many times in high school. I am like you in a way. I'm shy and quiet. There were many girls that were cute that I wanted to try to date, but I was too hesitant. Now looking back on it I regret ever doing that.
I would recommend trying to talk to the guy. Introduce yourself to him. Casually visit with him here and there, but try not to be "stockerish". If you dont act you will never know if he has any feelings for you. The worst thing he's going to do is not want to date you. Then dont worry about that because there's many other guys out there.
2007-12-16 21:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by 2nd Generation Firefighter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write your email on a pair of panties and put it in his backpack when he's not looking. you'll be like his secret admirer and you can talk to him on the internet until you decide to let him know who you are.
2007-12-16 21:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your friends if any of them know this boy. if they ask if you like him, just say no, i was just wondering. and he probably notices you too ;D well good luck!
2007-12-16 21:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by briing_iit_0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋