If you live with a girlfriend who periodically treats you like dirt, her friends bash you, and she deceives you. She cheats on you, and denies it even though you saw it with your own eyes. Anyways, she breaks up with you one night, to get with another guy. You gracefully accomodate her request to make her happy and yourself happy. The two of you lived togetheir for 2 years, and the very next day you gather all of your belongings and move out. Days after of which, she wants you to take her cats, give her money, and pay bills in her name so she can easily move in with this new guy. Now the question is, was I in the wrong for respectfully rejecting all of her requests (as it felt as though she was just trying to use me as a fool) even though to some extent she was good to me by buying me gifts and helping me a few times in the past? The reality is that she deceived me, and that the relationship wasn't meant to be, but does that mean I should still be nice to her after what she did?
2007-12-16 13:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would do her absoutely no favors. the only bills i would pay would be the ones that could affect my credit. i wouldt give her any money or take her smelly cats. id then tell her to screw off, tell her that she is trash, then tell her to never call my phone number again. good luck
oh yah, if she wants money tell her to get it from her new man!
2007-12-16 13:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by negaduck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you dont deserve to be treated like that anyways. Give yourself some self respect.
2007-12-16 13:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by dynamyta21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply go talk to her. tell her all the things you told us here, like how you believed that she treated you like dirt. you can decide to be nice to her depending on her reaction. see whether she sympathizes with you. if not, she is too selfish.
2007-12-16 13:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you 'must' pay for depends on what you signed for.... is your name on the lease for your apartment, utilities, other credit? If so, you are both liable for repayment. If not, I wouldn't give her a dime.
2007-12-16 13:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you drop it.
you drop her.
she obviousely found some thing else to spark her engine.
and left you out...alone.
she wont think about you,,
they never do.
so go on with yer life , and....godrestya................
u will learn to live agean.
it aint easy bro.
but you will learn to live agean
2007-12-16 13:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you were entirely correct in rejecting all of her requests.
you are under no obligation to be nice to her after all she
did to you. i would not blame you if you decided not to
even speak to her again.
2007-12-16 13:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ur totally right to not do anyof that for that bit*ch fu*k her shes a stuoid hore and she needs to die for doin that sh*t hahahha give her a strawberry shortcake
2007-12-16 13:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from her. Find other girls who suit your tastes
2007-12-16 13:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nazzzzz dude dont help the ***** get with another guy
2007-12-16 13:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by akp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe we are equiped with 2 fingers that are good for such occasions...
2007-12-16 13:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋