Singles & Dating - 12 December 2007

i know it sounds freaky
but when im in the bedroom with a chick
sometimes i mention it others i freak out
should a normal 16 year old
have a fetish like this?

2007-12-12 10:27:50 · 9 answers · asked by Adrian V 1

We broken up 2 days ago and I've tried my best to want to get back together with him, but he's firmed and told me to carry on with my life and to forget him time & time again. When I sent a wrong text msg to my GF to meet up this fri for a drink, he kept asking me who im going drinking with. I didn't replied his text, and he asked the same question for 4 times saying dont force him to ignore me completely. So I told him the truth. he then replied "hope ur telling the truth, if not ur only lying to urself". Isnt it contradicting that he wanted me to forget him yet still wants to know who im going drinking with ? No doubt that lifted my hope abit that he still cares for me, but 2 hours later he messaged me "forget me". I replied " forgetting u is not up to u to say, and u keep saying that becoz you're a psychopath (i got hit by him several times over the past 4 mths) , a quick temper & attitude problem i get from him at times and that I deserve someone better right". what does he want?

2007-12-12 10:25:52 · 5 answers · asked by Arpengenie 1

It's been over a year now, almost 2 years to be exact that my f'ck buddy and I have been fooling around. I was ready to break it off with him a couple of months ago after he borrowed money from me and never paid me back. That problem has since been resolved and now my feelings for him are stronger. I want to spend more time holding, caressing and kissing him. i'm not in love with him but I do have love for him. I like him alot and he knows it..My question is how do I keep my feeling for him balanced? Some times I wish I were a man! No matter how long you have shared intimacy with a man, he or should I say most have the astonishing ability to sepereate there feelings.

2007-12-12 10:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m 19 and in my first year of uni. There’s this girl that I know from back home who also goes my uni that I met 2 years ago through her boyfriend who is at a different uni.
Last week we were both at the same party and we were rather drunk. We danced together and flirted a lot and I thought we were just having a bit of fun. Just before she was about to go we were talking outside when suddenly she just kissed me! We only kissed for about 10 seconds till I came to my senses and pulled away and she said sorry and then just carried on talking as if nothing had happened. Since then we haven’t talked about it but she has started texting me a lot being very flirty and asking when we’ll be able to go out partying again.
Do I tell her bf because he’s my mate? Do I tell her to cool it or was the kiss just a drunken thing? Do I carry on flirting with her and try and get with her because she’s gorgeous? (If I’m honest I prefer this option but I don’t think most of you will agree lol)

2007-12-12 10:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by Scouting 4 girls 3

ok i really like this guy... but the thing is he has a GF but i know for a fact he likes me to everyone tells me that he is more happpier around me then her! him and his GF always fight. he told his sis which is my BFF he is confused and doesnt know what to do! we both like eachother a lot... im so confused what should i do any opnion i will appricate! oh and im not trying to steal him from her its just we both like eachother more then the people were already with help please!!

2007-12-12 10:20:37 · 18 answers · asked by Baby #2 on the way..its a boy 1

what turns you on when you are talking or texting a girl that you may have feelings for?

2007-12-12 10:19:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

we broke up about a month ago and shes already seeing someone else but she was really confused cause she would still call me and tell me she misses me but recently she finally said she wanted to move on. before that she told me to wait for her but changed her mind cause she thought it wasnt right, but now she says shes really happy. i know i should move on myself but i keep thinking she might come back. she still emails me telling me she cares. i feel like i want to move on too but im stuck.

2007-12-12 10:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by fuckdaworld 1

i've gone out with this guy 7 times for 3 years now. each one last less than a month. should i be friend with or not and just i've give tis guy another chance.
please help

2007-12-12 10:16:01 · 14 answers · asked by sweet girl 2

as I am a bit shy and in the past have always let the man do the running. I just really dont want to face possible outright rejection. I dont even know if he has a girlfriend (in which case I would not be interested) and I dont have anyone to find out for me.

I think that he may be interested in me as he always seems to cheer up when I am around (or else he is permanantly buzzing!). I don't know how to make our professional relationship go into a social setting so we can get to know each other without asking him out directly. Currently I am just flirting a little with him when I get the opportunity and I suppose there is time for this to pay dividends.

However can anyone think of any novel way to cross this professional/personal barrier / break the ice (and no we have no mutual friends in common to help). Yes I know its a silly question but I need some advice before I end up old and alone. Or worse old and with someone I wish I wasnt!

2007-12-12 10:11:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sex life with my boyfriend is on the rocks at the moment and I find it's hard to initiate sex with him because I'm afraid he will reject my advances. (he's done it a few times before and I take it really hard when he does.) Now when we have sex he seems so disinterested in me and lately doesn't even finish!! What can I do to spice things up so he will be more interested again?? Any ideas on what would rev his engine??

He has a foot fetish and likes to look at my feet but I'm talking about the sex part here. I want him to have fun making love/having sex with me again.

Any ideas? I really appreciate it!

2007-12-12 09:59:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a freshman in college and sometimes it feels like everyone around me is having sex like it's an extracurricular activity! I believe you should be in a serious relationship and date for at least 6 months before you go there. Maybe I'm just a little naive, but guys, do you honestly respect girls that go for it two or three months into the relationship?

2007-12-12 09:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 09:54:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21yrs old and I want to start dating again. I want to try the internet but not to sure about all the rules that go along with internet dating.

2007-12-12 09:54:15 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

"Hannah,

Whats the point of replying this mail to me...when at the end...you choose to let go...
Why do you want to do this to me...dont you know that i am deeply in love with you...
Why do you choose to let go...why cant we try things out...or just be friends...why do you have to just end it just like that...Last Christmas i given my heart to someone i love but the person broke it...this Christmas, i have given my heart to you who I love...yet you decided to throw it away...why...i cant bear to let you go...even if you choose to leave me...why do you have to force me to let go...hannah...tell me why...
hannah...i want you to know this...i will love you always forever even if we are off...you will be my last...and if you really love me...pls contact me pls...my heart is bleediong..and i wish to die...if i can...i will rather choose to die to exchange for your love and happines...haiz..."

He told me this... Would someone possibly fake this?? We went steady then we broke off..

2007-12-12 09:51:22 · 18 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3

so i ask a girl if shes tickelish if she says yes i tickel the back of her neck then put my arm around her

and do u think she likes me...so she tells me alot girls usually dont say we flirt and we signal alot. also she makes time to talk to me or she just says somthin dumb just to talk to me

2007-12-12 09:51:20 · 12 answers · asked by NEdawgs 3

My ex girl & I just broke last week. This will be the 3rd MAJOR TIME n THREE YEARS that she has broken it off with me VOWING that she hates me and wants nothing to do with me, and that's she DONE FOREVER. We are suppose to be going on a cruise in Jan, & she's told me thru txt that it would b n my best interest to get someone else to go, but I don't know if she wants me to chase her, like I'VE ALWAYS DONE, or really find someone else. Even tho it's only been about a week since we spoke, I miss her, and I want her back, what do I do, and what can I say to get her back??

2007-12-12 09:51:05 · 4 answers · asked by D3 2

Just trying to get into a guy's mind.

2007-12-12 09:50:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't know how to tell her or wahat to tell him. but he is cute!!!

2007-12-12 09:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki D 1

I am 19 years old and go to college, but I live at home because my parents are overprotective
Tonight was my 22 year old boyfriend's office xmas party, which my parents knew about for weeks.
My bf and I have been dating 3 years and I have known him for 10 yrs prior to that.
He is always good to them, has even done their food shopping using his own $
I go to school and work part time, and I clean up the house everyday while everyone is out.
Today I got lazy after a long night of work (I work at toys r us) and decided for ONE day not to clean up the dirty house
They told me I could not go to the party as punishment!!
I told them I am going no matter what, and my dad has threatned to either physically restrain me or follow me to the party in his car so that he can humiliate me later
I don't know what to do, my mom is out at her xmas party, I told my bf I would meet him at the end of the driveway
Advice?

2007-12-12 09:47:20 · 9 answers · asked by marm212 5

2007-12-12 09:43:57 · 3 answers · asked by khayla 1

I went out with this guy a few times he was really nice. I thought it was goign some where went over to his house to suprise him he wasnt there. called him and he said he didnt want to see each other any more because it just wasnt gonna work out. I barley got to say hi and he didnt realy want to say why. Things were fine so i thought he must be seeing someone else , but he said no. Witch i think he was seeing someone broke up n got back together with them . he has a pink toothbrush n matching razor in his spare drawer. Even so I liked the guy and I think if he knew it would change things. he wants a girlfriends at first i told him lets just date, but now i want to explore the relationship further, n he is randomly called it quits. What should i say if i call, every one is tellng me not to call because ill get my feelings hurt . this isnt me normaly but i would rather get my feeling hurt then not know what might have been. how should i approch. this was like 3-4 days ago

2007-12-12 09:41:18 · 29 answers · asked by saintlouisheat 2

thats funny, sweet, smart, pretty, down to earth etc if she had boobs like this?
http://www.handbagdesigner101.com/images/img_celebrity/28/HUGE_kate_moss_Sam_Wordley.jpg

like does it matter that much?

2007-12-12 09:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to stay friends, but it turned sexual, I don't want this serious of a relationship. i want to do this as gental as possable, befor it gets to emotionaly entwined for us both.

2007-12-12 09:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright I see this girl maybe 3 times a day in the hallways. When I catch a glimpse of her & she has not noticed me, she is walking perfectly fine with her hands at her sides.

But...as soon as she sees me, she immediately starts fooling and playing with her hair. And I mean EVERY TIME!

Could this be a sign?

thankyou for your help =]

2007-12-12 09:38:46 · 56 answers · asked by John D 2

Im i in love? Im not sure weather i really love him or forcing myself to love him. Because im crying and fighting to be with him and i feel like i going be happy. But this happen before, me and bestfriend broke up (dating at the time) and i cried and me forgave me and got back togother. So after we got off the phone, i wonder why i did that. So now me and him, are broken up again (months) and its been hard on me. So he asked me weather i really loved him, because i was doing alot of stuff, that he knows i would never do! And i been feeling the same way too. So he said, to him it seem as if i was forcing myself to love him because i feel that i someone won't love me. So i got the thinking about, and i been felling that way for along time. So what do you think?

2007-12-12 09:38:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, I like this person ok. I posted so many comments before about how reacted around me, so 90% of you answered yes that he probably feel the same, and it’s final exam week and yet it has been like 3 month and we’re about to go on break and he still hasn’t say anything to me? What is going on I’m so confuse????/ and tired of waiting you know??

2007-12-12 09:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by Soldier 4 Christ 3

I want to go see Larry the Cable guy in Feb and told my boyfriend. I asked him to go with me but he said its stupid and refuses to go. He says I shouldnt go beacuse he isnt going. Is this a control thing or something else. Would you go? If it was him and I asked him not to go he wouldnt but the thing is I wouldnt ask him not to do something he really wants to do. We're on the verge of ending our 2 year relationship over this. If I do give in isnt it going to just be something else next? And how do I tell my parents and everyone that I dont want to go because of him even. I'm only 17 right now. What would you do or what have you done?

2007-12-12 09:30:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes, he started it and yes he was a little bit tipsy...we ended up making out for a long time in his bed. I didn't know he was gay at the time, but found out later. Now, he's ignoring me. I know that he liked what happened while it lasted, but maybe he feels awkward now? Do you think that gay guys can ever turn straight, or are they always going to be gay?

2007-12-12 09:28:02 · 10 answers · asked by lovefool1050 3

ok well theres this guy and he is funny and nice and everything and i really like him so i want to ask him out but i dont know what he will say even though i know he will say yes because i heard that he has liked me for a while. its kinda like im almost scared

2007-12-12 09:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by bri_bri 2

I think this guy might like me....but I'm not totally sure.

Any advice?

He's not shy, but he's not an extrovert either. He's just--normal.

2007-12-12 09:22:46 · 18 answers · asked by Obama! twist™ 4