i've gone out with this guy 7 times for 3 years now. each one last less than a month. should i be friend with or not and just i've give tis guy another chance.
please help
2007-12-12 10:16:01 · 14 answers · asked by sweet girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems that the two of you really don't know what you want. Or your both afraid of being alone.Not having all the details about age and or activity with the two of you, leaves a big gap.....but it seems you two should just part ways be friends for a long time. Say about a year or more then see what happens. If you where really meant to be together it will happen. If not enjoy your freedom............
2007-12-12 10:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by thebaked 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up and getting back together 2-3 times in normal. If it didn't work 7 times, I doubt it will work 8 times. Stop seeing or hanging out with each other for 3 months in order to wean yourselves out of this situation and possible find someone else better suited for you.
I did the same thing and figured out after the fact is was a big waste or my time.
2007-12-12 18:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sleepy Dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand you correctly, you have been in a relationship and broken up with this guy 7 times? I think that would be enough to know he isn't the guy for you. Whatever problems are causing you to break up need to be solved before you can ever hope it will work out.
So if the problems have been solved, give him another chance if you really like him. If not, then don't make it an 8th break up.
2007-12-12 18:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is give this guy the boot. 7 times in 3 years is a little bit too much. You better watch out because he might just be comming back time after time for what he needs.
2007-12-12 18:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sanic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just tell him "Hey, i don't think that this is EVER going to go anywhere. Why don't we just end it now?" Probably, he's about ready for calling it quits too. Perhaps he thinks that YOU want to be with him, and that's why he's not 'devestated' you yet by telling you it's time to call everything off. k? just tell him, or you'll be dating/notdating this guy for the rest of ur life.
2007-12-12 18:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try just being friends bvecause obviously you're not made for each other you should go out with other people and call him every now and then
2007-12-12 18:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by kuilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself first if you really love this guy or you just pity him.If you love him give him a chance but if not enjoy your life without him.
2007-12-12 18:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by dreampowergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? If you do,you can break up 1000 times and it's still worth it.Love is always worth it.
2007-12-12 18:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by saddemon26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like a match made in heaven. Don't waste your time with him, find someone else.
2007-12-12 18:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by almighty mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope that many times going out it isnt gonna work my friend. and friendship may not either sorry it s life
2007-12-12 18:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋