Singles & Dating - 12 December 2007

Okay. we always talk on the phone, and I really like who he is and his beliefs and everything. There's a few speedbumps though. First: I'm 17 and he's 21. Is that too much of an age difference? Am I too young for him? I seem to be pretty mature for my age, and I'm sick of dating guys my age, they're so immature. Second: He's never had a girlfriend. I know that seems odd, he's 21! He's a great guy too, and it's hard to believe he's never had a girl. We have the same beliefs, we get along amazingly and all that, but should I? Could this work? ANY advice is welcomed!

2007-12-12 07:09:39 · 12 answers · asked by Chase 2

My best friend has been dating this guy for 7 months (she is 20, he is 26). It was the whole love at first sight thing and they are so much in love... you can just tell. However, she has been getting a lot of mixed signals lately and I just don't know what to tell her about the situation.

Apparently he has been dropping a ton of hints that he is going to ask her to marry him this Christmas. He has also apparently told some friends that he was going to and word got back to her. However, she called me this morning crying because last night he said to her "It's over a year away, but I plan on asking you to marry me. Would you say yes if I did?".

It really upset her, she was so excitied. My question is... do you think he said that to throw her off? I'm thinking maybe he found out she knew or had an idea and wants her to think it's not coming? I just don't want to say that to her and it end up not happening... so what do you think?

2007-12-12 07:01:04 · 3 answers · asked by piscesgirl 1

I can control the way I look 2 ways; I can either lose weight and have my body look horribly boyish cuz I look so thin and flat, but with that my face looks really stunning with less weight.
Or I can have a normalish figure if I eat carelessly, but though it's still slightly flat, just looks sexier and healthier, but then my face doesnt look as good.
What do guys prefer? really gorgeous face and horrible body, or quite pretty face and ok body?
thanks =]

2007-12-12 06:55:53 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you liked a girl alot... would you do the following:

1) would you ditch your friends just to be with her (given the moment)

2) would you "always" pay attention to her.. (look at her directly in her eyes... etc..)

3) would you if you happend to be around a girl (whom your friends with) walk away from her just to show the other girl (who your crushing on) that your not with her....

4) would you given the opportunity, talk to her if it was just the 2 of you... what would you say? or would you wait for her to say something?

this guy i like is doing all of the above and i dont know if i should just tell him.. cause he is trying right?? like i want to know if i should wait.. but then again ive waited so long... hes really shy around me so..... and the fact that i havent seen him in like 5 months lol isnt making it any easier..? so what advise would you give me to help him out?...

DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME?

2007-12-12 06:55:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 06:52:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never kissed anyone before and I feel like such a loser because every one of my friends has. Their first kisses happened when they were like 12 and 13. I'm almost 16 and still haven't had my first kiss. I feel so left out when I'm with my friends because of this. I've had boyfriends before, but I still never got a chance to kiss any of them before we broke up. People tell me I'm pretty and have a fun personality, especially guys. So I don't understand. Do you think there's still hope for me? How old were you when you got your first kiss?

2007-12-12 06:51:21 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not a good looking guy. I don't have a nice body. I don't have alot of money. Mostly, I just have a nice personality. No girls ever approach me or show any interest. However, my friend is all around a good looking guy. He gets alot of women. He sweet talks them and tells them what they want to hear. Behind there back he cheats on them and goes around having sex with other girls. Basically, he "caps their head up". Myself i would never treat a girl like that. Why are so many women naive? Also, I guess you can fool a women as long as the guy looks good.

2007-12-12 06:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 06:40:35 · 15 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7

well he smiles at me and there has been eye contact but i just dont know whether he likes me. weve never spoken to each other and he seems really shy just like me, how do i know if hes just being friendly by smiling at me or if he likes me?

2007-12-12 06:38:12 · 23 answers · asked by madinalake 3

so the woman i am dating (who is a freak) wants to watch me do her best friend and her friend is down for it also simple man answer would be "hell yeah im doing it" but im caught up cause this girl and i have been threw alot of good and a little bad over the past 5 years we met when she was married and we played around for 4 years till she got divorced then we became one anyways thats not the subject of this question. i just want to get answers from both sides. women would you want to see your man doing another female even if she was your friend and how would your react during also have you already done this and did it work out good or bad? and men what would you do if you were me trust me these two females are both lovely young women but would you question it or would you just do it?

2007-12-12 06:37:30 · 19 answers · asked by Godson 3

Once a girl has decided that you are a friend where once she thought of you as maybe more, is that it, over for ever? Or can that attraction ever come back?

2007-12-12 06:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think it is possible for 2 people to love each other but still have happy successful relationships with other people?

I''m stuck in the middle of 2 friends from high school. We've all been friends for about 10 years & they dated for about 6 months, 2 years ago. They each come and talk to me about their relationships & say that they love the person they are with & that they are happy. He started dating a girl about a year ago & is currently living with her. She started dating a guy a few months ago & are talking about moving in together. They both have confided in me that they still love each other, they even tell each other "I still love you" & flirt through text messages all day while they are at work. I don't see how either of their relationships are going to work if they continue this kind of "friendship" but I might be wrong. I just want to see them happy no matter if that is together or not. I've told both of them to either to truly be just friends or get back together.

2007-12-12 06:23:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very ordinary looking and over the years I have had male acquaintances. I have found that some of them in conversation look at my chest then my face and the conversation goes with his eyes going up and down. Do men realise they are doing this? Is it an instinct they don't know about? Is it a sign that they fancy me or is it a fascination with any breast? However most of them never asked me to "date" or wanted any relationship. men what are you thinking? I don't wear skimpy clothes and my chest does not appear the biggest.

2007-12-12 06:22:28 · 23 answers · asked by ummsulaima 5

My girlfriend and I live an hour away from each other. I see her every weekend. And, sometimes, I stay with her for a week.

A few months ago, I hurt my girlfriend really badly. My friends made fun of her. And, I just sit back like an @$$hole and let it happen. I feel so terrible about it. She brings it up all the time and it makes me feel like crap.

I love this girl, a lot. She means the world to me. And, the fact that I hurt her, bothers me more than ANYTHING in the world. I want to make her happy. But, feel as if I can't because of what I did.

The reasons I didn't retaliate is because, I'm afraid of conflict. I don't like arguments and fighting. But, I know I should've said something.

Is there anything I could do to make it up to her? :( I want her to be happy. But, I don't know what to do. :(

2007-12-12 06:19:38 · 21 answers · asked by Jesse H 2

I am going back to my parent's home during Christmas time from 23rd December until New Year. The problem is I am wearing a chastity belt and my girlfriend has the keys to my belt. The belt will stay locked on my vagina during Christmas time at my parent's home. As we are separated during Christmas time, she will not be able to unlock my belt for cleaning in the evening, a cleaning routine we follow daily. I guess I am able to get through Christmas time locked in the belt without cleaning. However, when I suggested to her of bringing an emergency key of the belt with me just in case somehting happens to me, she seems to be unwilling to give me an emergency key as she scares that I might be tempted to use it to remove my belt during Christmas time at my parent's home. She told me she have been kind enough to let me go home and I should not demand so much. Should i conform to her refusal or insist on bringing an emergency key?

2007-12-12 06:16:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it okay for a girl to make the first move..like ask him out on a date, pay for the date, kiss him first and call him?...do guys like that kind of stuff...and also do they like flowers??

2007-12-12 06:11:04 · 35 answers · asked by ladywetherell23 4

2007-12-12 06:06:27 · 39 answers · asked by Sweet Southerngirl 1

Ok i have a bf and he say's he dont love me and he dont wont to be with and this guy that go's to my shcool really likes me and he wont to go with me and he know's about me bf and he got mad at him for tha way he has done me and i love my bf but i like that guy to what do i do?????

2007-12-12 06:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up one week ago, she wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the gecko, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

2007-12-12 05:55:27 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 05:50:57 · 34 answers · asked by Red 2

Well I've been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and I love him alott! But our sex life isn't the best. I don't orgasm by sex... just by being touched and by receiving oral. He has a problem with the fact that I can't 'get off' while having sex... he thinks it's because I'm not attracted to him, or because I'm getting 'it' somewhere else. I love to masturbate and do it regularly (about 3-4 x's a wk). We don't live together so when I'm in the mood or just watching a porn (girl on girl is the only thing i get off too though) - idk... any advise on how I could possibly start cumming with sex?

2007-12-12 05:48:39 · 37 answers · asked by pam3la 1

like this guy who is really good looking and we get on well. I'm friendly with one of his friends and he was asking me 'what kind of guys do you like'. I confessed to him that I like his friend but said 'I know its stupid as i'm sure he has lots of girlfriends but sometimes we flirt a bit'. The friend said 'yeah, he sure knows how to flirt!'. He also said that he suspected that I liked him as 'he picked up on the chemistry going on in the atmosphere'. He also said that he used to be envious of this guy because he was 'friends with so many women'. Do you think that this means that he is a womaniser? Do I have any chance with him? We got together once and kissed..he wanted more but I need time as I like to take things slow. He wants to come see me..we live in diff cities. I know one girl he is friends with and it is totally platonic (as she is a friend of mine as well).

2007-12-12 05:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 05:36:36 · 40 answers · asked by pete 1

want to have sex but aren't in a relationship. Do you have people you call to have sex with? And, when you have sex with them, what kind of mood are you usually in?

My friend and I have different views on this. And we were just wondering what other people think!

Thanks.

Have a great day.

2007-12-12 05:34:30 · 4 answers · asked by ughhh 3

so theres this girl at my school....she keeps flirtin with my boyfriend and its really getting to me i know that he wouldnt do anything but this girl is a ryt lil biatch and she'll try anything to split us up wot can ido?

2007-12-12 05:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex caled me and ask me where am i and i say, i was out. then he ask me again ami dating with a guy now.?? when i say 'noh i wasnt'.... then he say 'ya right' and just hang up on me..... what was that all abt????

2007-12-12 05:28:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my girlfriend for bout 5 months now and i truely love her. She was my best friend before we even starting dating, but now that we're heavy waters, i dont know if we'll go back to being friends or is the wound to deep to ever heal?

2007-12-12 05:24:19 · 5 answers · asked by Karo G 1

2007-12-12 05:20:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex told me she didnt love me anymore after 2 years a month ago. Two weeks later she said she just didnt know who she was anymore, she felt lost and that she still had feelings but needed who knows how long to figure herself out. I told her We should be apart during this time, but she has said that if we do that we wont even be friends again nevermind get back together. She told me the other day "shed be lying" if she didnt think it would work out between us. Now shes starting to talk to me everyday again like we did when we were together, and i cant tell if shes just doing it cuz shes lonely or cuz she wants to get back, but she does keep saying that she still needs to figure herself out. and at first i thought it was about other guys, but shes hardly gone out since we broke up, shes been just keeping to herself. Do women sometimes just really need time alone? thanks

2007-12-12 05:11:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF said he and his friend are goin gto make a sandwhich and I'm going to be the meat, what's he talking about?

2007-12-12 04:58:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous