like this guy who is really good looking and we get on well. I'm friendly with one of his friends and he was asking me 'what kind of guys do you like'. I confessed to him that I like his friend but said 'I know its stupid as i'm sure he has lots of girlfriends but sometimes we flirt a bit'. The friend said 'yeah, he sure knows how to flirt!'. He also said that he suspected that I liked him as 'he picked up on the chemistry going on in the atmosphere'. He also said that he used to be envious of this guy because he was 'friends with so many women'. Do you think that this means that he is a womaniser? Do I have any chance with him? We got together once and kissed..he wanted more but I need time as I like to take things slow. He wants to come see me..we live in diff cities. I know one girl he is friends with and it is totally platonic (as she is a friend of mine as well).
2007-12-12 05:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is always a chance, but it doesn't seem as though he is interested in you the way you are with him. Add to that you both live in different cities...even if he liked you as much as you like him, how would that work out?
2007-12-12 05:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've got the right idea. If you're interested in something serious, take things slow and you'll see fairly quickly if he's really interested in you or if he's a womanizer.
How good a friend is your mutual friend with him? If she knows him well enough, she may know if he is a player of just a flirt with a lot of female friends.
2007-12-12 05:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your friend's warning. If he wanted "something more" than he definitely doesn't have your best interests in mind. Plus, you might catch a disease even if you do "take things slow" because if he's been with other women, then it won't matter.
2007-12-12 05:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is into you but you are right to take things slow. having platonic relationships with many women doesn't mean he is a player, instead it's a good thing.
by the way you should be more confident.
2007-12-12 05:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you do not desire to "seduce" a man out of a bootycall and right into a dating. when you desire to be in a truly dating you ought to voice what you particularly desire, make it transparent. seducing him will simply justify the proposal all you desire is intercourse. if he is not inclined to decide to a dating there isnt a lot more you'll do. however i want you the first-rate of good fortune.
2016-09-05 09:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋