I’m 19 and in my first year of uni. There’s this girl that I know from back home who also goes my uni that I met 2 years ago through her boyfriend who is at a different uni.
Last week we were both at the same party and we were rather drunk. We danced together and flirted a lot and I thought we were just having a bit of fun. Just before she was about to go we were talking outside when suddenly she just kissed me! We only kissed for about 10 seconds till I came to my senses and pulled away and she said sorry and then just carried on talking as if nothing had happened. Since then we haven’t talked about it but she has started texting me a lot being very flirty and asking when we’ll be able to go out partying again.
Do I tell her bf because he’s my mate? Do I tell her to cool it or was the kiss just a drunken thing? Do I carry on flirting with her and try and get with her because she’s gorgeous? (If I’m honest I prefer this option but I don’t think most of you will agree lol)
2007-12-12 10:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by Scouting 4 girls 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude! Sleep with her! Its what women are for!!!!!!
2007-12-12 10:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 7⤋
Sure get "drunk " again but not so drunk you cant have sex, use her for sex then destroy her life the baby's life and your friendship with her b/f.Everyone will be happy in the end son.
Or be a REAL man, quit the partying and learn to deal with life other than drinking your problems away learn to have fun doing other things and tell her to lay off or youll be telling her b/f.
If she breaks up and the 2 of you want to date thats another thing.Use your HEAD not your hormones to make this decision.You have MORE to lose than to gain.If she will cheat on her b/f , she wont hesitate to cheat on you later.
2007-12-12 18:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think friends are more important than what might just be hormonally driven attraction. It's a lot more fleeting and superficial. The answer seems pretty obvious when you think with your head.
2007-12-12 18:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her that badly then ask her to dump her b/f and get with you, don't go cheating with her else Satan will appear in a fiery cloud of purest evil and screw you hard up your rear end til you bleed fear!
Um..... yeh, just behave ok?
2007-12-12 18:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to remain friend's with the guy? If it doesn't really matter to you and it wouldn't make you feel like complete slime, then go ahead and keep flirting with her. If not, you should tell her that you would like to keep your distance because she is taken.
2007-12-12 18:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by webjen26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and give her an ultimatium....
Tell her you will meet up with ehr and kep textn her only if she will get rid of her bf!!!!!....she cant have two guys on the go!
2007-12-12 18:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her, ask her what she wants to do but don't just expect to cheat. if she wants to go out with you make her loose her current bf. but you have to remember this will mean your friendship with your mate
2007-12-12 18:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be a good mate tell her to cool it. Imagine if you were in her boyfriends shoes.
2007-12-12 18:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Clueless 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your being a good mate if you keep her happy in the feather.If
you don't.Someone else will.
2007-12-12 18:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by angler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're already broken up. She just hasn't told him yet. Encourage her to do so. Then hit that girl scout.
2007-12-12 18:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if shes serious to dump her bf first-then afterthe dust settles you can move on her like it was the first time
2007-12-12 18:27:52 · answer #11 · answered by Glenn F 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋