ok i really like this guy... but the thing is he has a GF but i know for a fact he likes me to everyone tells me that he is more happpier around me then her! him and his GF always fight. he told his sis which is my BFF he is confused and doesnt know what to do! we both like eachother a lot... im so confused what should i do any opnion i will appricate! oh and im not trying to steal him from her its just we both like eachother more then the people were already with help please!!
2007-12-12 10:20:37 · 18 answers · asked by Baby #2 on the way..its a boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes sometimes things get too complicated and we feel really restless..well,its your heart and you have the right to choose anyone,anytime and the same goes for him as well<
Good wishes !!
2007-12-12 10:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by zzedezz zzu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't step on the other girls toes.
If he's interested you and you like him that much then you should be willing to wait. Right now he's confused and doesn't know what he should do with his current relationship so give him that space that he needs to gather his thoughts and get them together.
The fact that he and his girl fight all the time doesn't really pertain to you and is none of your business. And, it doesn't matter what everyone thinks, it matters what he thinks. So wait around if you're really that into him but don't try to intrude in his current relationship because that's just wrong.
2007-12-12 10:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that his GF is always fighting with him, but have you stopped to think that if the shoe where on the other foot (meaning yours) that you would probably be fighting with him too asking why he isn't paying attention to you anymore??? That's because "you" the other girl are interring with their relationship. I'd be pissed too!!! but anyways, on the other hand you are very likely to stir up some turmoil if you continue to pursue him, perhaps she won't give up without a fight.???
Always use empathy whenever possible. It makes us better people. Good luck.......awwwe teenagers....lol
2007-12-12 10:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bandrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he definatly needs to figure out his feelings, because he it's almost like he is playing his girlfriend. So he just needs to figure out if he likes you more enough to break up with his girlfriend and go for you (:
but try not to flirt with him too much, especially if he is around his g/f. then SHE and the rest of the people will think that you are trying to take him away from her (even if you're honestly not trying to)
goodluck!
2007-12-12 10:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by don't gεt mad, gεt glad™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you're very close friends if he's happier around you. this sounds like one of those wonderful movies where they're best friends the whole movie and don't realize that they're madly in love with each other until the very end when they have that 'kissing in the rain' scene. i wish the best for you, the same thing is happening to me, but you just have to deal with it for right now. With all hope, he'll come around.
2007-12-12 10:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are fighting so much they will eventually break up, BAD idea to even think about hooking up if he has a GF
2007-12-12 10:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
urgh, don't you hate it when the guy you like already has a gf? lucky for you though, he likes you better than her. i'm sure your bff can help u with this since she is his sister. maybe talk to the girl. don't tell her that you like her bf (lol) just talk about it. maybe she'd be ok with it, maybe she doesn't like him anymore, like u said they fight a lot. you need to talk to him, too. good luck! <3
2007-12-12 10:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by meow. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this happened to my friend so i know first hand. i would let him know that you like him. be like "hey (his name), i jsut wated to let you know that, even though u have a girlfriend, i like you a lot. i realize that it might not make any difference but i just thought i would let you know"....yes it will be really hard, but in the end it will all pan out and work out. i had to get soooo many balls in order to tell the guy (who is now my boyrfriend for over a month) that i liked him. and it might even work out in your favor! so good luck and dont stress! if he likes you back, he will appreciate ur honesty.
2007-12-12 10:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by slhs_classof2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can either tell him how u feel about the whole situation or u can wait for them to break up(which they probably will if they r fighting all the time) and u guys will probably end up goin out.
2007-12-12 10:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by petemac117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. He either needs to break up with his girlfriend or leave you alone. Any steps you take will make you the bad guy in the situation.
2007-12-12 10:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by webjen26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋