I feel that i want something new i dont know whats wrong with me really but for qiet a while now ive been feeling like i dont like anything about my boyfriend no more i seem to not like his body not like his face not like how he acts & everything, the other night we were having sex & after a couple of minuts i just stopped because i just was not interested its not that we have sex too much cause we have it stuff all but when we go to do sexuall stuff im just not interested in him i feel kind of bad but when i picture me & another guy doing stuff together it kind of turns me on and interests me? its hard to leave him because i have a 18month son to him i feel trapped sometimes i feel like i hate him? what can i do? & no its not hormones either. we are both 20.
2007-12-12 22:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to move on then.
2007-12-12 22:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you discuss your feelings with him in a kind way. He doesn't need to know that you are turned off by his body, his face, etc. You might suggest spending some time apart for a while so you both can get in touch with your true feelings. When you're with someone every day, it's easy to lose sight of what attracted you to each other to begin with.
He might be relieved when you suggest this because he may be feeling the same way as you do. But don't burn your bridges. After some time has passed, you may come to realize that he is the love of your life. Even though you both may agree that a trial separation would be in your best interests, maintain an amicable relationship with each other. You need to do this for your child. Your son should be a top priority in deciding the fate of your relationship.
2007-12-13 06:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dogchic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh this is too soon............at 20 you want to call it off already....I guess you just lost the spark in the relationship, which should have been continuously nurtured..it takes two to tango, you have to be honest with him and tell him what you feel, this is unfair if you dont and maybe somehow by opening up you will assess your situation and see where the problems arose........be honest with him..and help each other..because the worst feeling is boredom in a relationship and then falling out of love.............dont let that happen for you two, at least for the sake of your child..build it and let it work.......now no one can do this for you, except you two................good luck~~~
2007-12-13 06:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't love him anymore. If you can see yourself living without him and you are okay with that, it's time to move on...you both deserve better.
2007-12-13 06:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bridget W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Four years is a long time for a baby
and no marriage.
Work on it.
2007-12-13 06:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't always do sex, keep it until you can't stand it anymore, then only make love with him
although i never have sex with girl but i can feel it
2007-12-13 06:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by ti sen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another dumb girl who got pregnant and is now stuck. what should you do? get birth control.
2007-12-13 06:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by abominusprime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋