pliz need help. imagine i applied for a job and under normal condition, am qualified for the job, but i have been refuse the opportunity because i didnot do what the manager asked me do.
yea, what did he asked me to do? he told me, that inorder to show my appreciation, i needed to make love with him.
and that could be the only way out.
actually, i need a job, but how do i over come this temptation. he is not the first that has approach me like that. sometimes i think because the know i need the job despirately , that is the reason why, am been ask to..
2007-12-12 22:49:42 · 13 answers · asked by R.M.zoneziwoh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well don't it and show that you got some dignity girl!! and pride!! Apply for another job and don't show that you really need it just that you are really intrested in what you are going for and not because of the money!! If happens again threaten to sue their ***!!
2007-12-12 22:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mental health 22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the human resources of the company and file a complaint. Or get an attorney (if you can prove it) and sue the company/manager for sexual harassment. No matter how much you need the job, if you subcumb to the advances, you may be "expected" to keep up the behavior and unless you are applying for a job as prostitute or porn star, sex should not be a factor in hiring.
2007-12-13 06:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious you really need to get some evidence and file a complaint against him. That way when another supervisor or manager comes in they will hire you for the right reason. I would look for another job though don't give up yourself for a job, unless your a porn star thats what they might do.
2007-12-13 07:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the authorities. He is using his power for his own personal gain. It is also sexual harrasment. What a creep. No job is worth that, no matter how badly u need 1.
2007-12-13 06:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what an A R S E!!! he is a disgusting pig. he should be reported!!! thats sexual harrasment. you don't need to put up with that kind of crap!!! find a different job. there's plenty out there!! you have to get rid of that dirty man. he could be doing the same to many other workers. what a CREEP!!! REPORT HIM!!!!
2007-12-13 07:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've been ask like that, slap him in the face and take revenge by filing a case on him, sexual harassment... don't take that job offer as the last JOB on earth! find another one... lots of jobs out there
2007-12-13 07:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him and all the others. You could sue and then the company will give you a job but of course your co-workers will not be fond of you.
2007-12-13 06:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by not_moes_cousin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep searching for work sweetie... nobody needs to degrade themselves that much for a job. And I would definitely report this as*hole who asked you this.
2007-12-13 06:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would have taken him up for sexual harassment and laid a charge against him coz that means that he is doing to lot of girls and they will do coz they need a job very desperately,
2007-12-13 07:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by auris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? you need to report him. jesus, have some respect.....do you dress provocatively? sometimes you don't realize it, it invites unwanted attention.....if not, he is such a loser....don't take me negatively...he could get fired if you report him.......the job isn't worth it if you have to get in through backstage...but some famous people have done it and they are successful, but not necessarily happy...
2007-12-13 06:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by damnedweight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋