i speak spanish so sry for the bad writing
so me n my ex broke up cause she was moving to jersey after 6 months she found out tht she is moving bac so sicne i luv her n she luvs me( she found out i had a gf alst night cause i told i ahd one n broke up tht same day)i broke off with my current gf but my ex is pregnant from her last bf she broke up with him 2 months ago
she is my true love,she is thinking of giving the baby for adoption is tht k? wat u think?
im18 she is 16
2007-12-12 23:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feelr esponsable fort he baby i luv kids
2007-12-13 01:27:52 · update #1
well its kind of a confusing tuff situation, but thats good that you both ended your past relationship's. And im glad you two are in love,
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it sounds like you both are in a good stable relationship,
adoption would be good if you cant take care of the baby right now, or if you keep it just make sure it will have a good lifestyle.
good luck
2007-12-13 10:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16's too young an age to deliver a baby...
try and get it aborted if the pregnancy is under three months.
else it mite be dangerous for both the baby and the mother..
However, If u plan to keep the baby, it's better u give it for adoption, you guys are way too young to have the responsibility of a kid.
Finally, be careful in future, you two have got a long life ahead of u.
Grow up and settle down before you plan to have babies...
2007-12-13 07:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by benmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation looks like a mess. I wouldnt interfear untill she decided what she wanted to do with her life..Stay close, help her as much as u can but I believe that u shoudnt go back establishing a relationship with her again. Remember that a true love at 18 may be forgotten at 19. U are still very young
2007-12-13 07:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by tony_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea , i would say that it is actually your best option. Both of you had something with someone else, and if she doesnt want to keep the kid that ties him to her, then you are golden. I think u should get back together with her, and she is only 16 , and having a kid that young isnt easy. IF she did keep it , would u still stay around? I mean , u have to ask yourself these questions? Hows that for 10 points!
2007-12-13 07:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by kaiors23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmkay i think that it is up to her wether or not she wants to give up her baby, but if it were me id keep it. if she gave it up one day she would probably want to be in his/her life again and that child might not want to see his/her birthmother! so in my opinion i think that she should keep the baby and that you her and baby should make the best of life. you only live once you should live to the fullest. but no matter what you decide to do juss no that that is her baby and that no matter what she may think now she'll regret it when she grows up a little more not only that but that baby will feel so unloved and unwanted.
but it is better than abortion!
how would you feel if you parents dropped out on you?!! thats what you gotta think about!!!
plus look at all the kids that die or commet suicide in those foster homes, and in there adoptive homes!!
good luck, happy holidays, and i hope i helped
much <333
drea_luvs_david
2007-12-13 07:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best for all if she gave the baby up for aoption. 18 and 16 (especially since it's not your baby) is too young to raise a child properly.
2007-12-13 07:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better to keep the child cause that way she won't be wonderin what happened to her child. Althought, undoubtedly it would be really hard, you guys are so yoiung. Can't she just keep the baby and ask any of her relatives to help out?
2007-12-13 07:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Concerned.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cnt get everythng ur sayin but it seems to me u 2 havnt thought bout "protected sex" and with all the drama goin arround u guyz. (who got a bf/gf and broke up with whom) tht could b a danger becoz u dnt knw how was her bf tht got her pregnt in d 1st place, so wht ever u do put in mind thngs like std, hiv and aids.
2007-12-13 07:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by mabhebeza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a personal choice and she has to do what feels right for her. She will have to live with know she gave the child up for her whole life
2007-12-13 07:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her why don't u take her back and tell her that she mustn't take the child up for adoption she must keep the child and u and her will raise the child together.
2007-12-13 07:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by auris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋