i just dont' feel close to her at all, she hasn't really done anything wrong . in fact she has pretty much done NOTHING
i am just feeling estranged from the relationship that we had.
She hasn't bought the dress yet and she is no money out of pocket. I just feel as if the friendship is really coming to an end just due to lack of interest with each other and heading in seperate directions in life.
what can i do , how can I say anything, am am only having two girls stand for me so it is importaint that I feel close and when i look back I don't want ot be like what ever happen to that girl.
2007-12-09 02:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not angry with her, I have called her and she is very short on the phone.
and chances are that we will not be hanging out in the long run due to where she wants to be in life and where I want to be in life will lead to seperate coast lines.
2007-12-09 02:59:02 · update #1
the thing is i have to know who is in or out by this week. as well I am only having two people stand for me so it is importaint that when i look back I am not like whatever happen to that girl.
2007-12-09 03:06:47 · update #2
bridzilla ? because I am seeking advice about a friend who I do not feel close to anymore. And i am trying to find ways to not hurt anyone.
( I will accept your answer as consider the source. )
2007-12-09 03:14:36 · update #3
Just give her time and space without her knowledge and soon enough, everything will be on its proper places IN GOD's TIME :)
GOD BLESS!
2007-12-09 03:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mutya P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound to me like she is doing anything wrong. You obviously wanted her to be in you wedding from the start for some reason. This is your wedding not hers you can't expect her to be as excited as you. If you ask her to step down that will be the end of your friend ship.
2007-12-09 02:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by spanky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that she is already missing the special relationship you 2 had? Wondering how she'll fit into your life after marriage?
Give her a break. Talk to her and see what her intentions are. Maybe she thinks you've abandoned your relationship.
Good Luck
2007-12-09 02:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know...just ask her that you dont feel close to her anymore and you would rather her not be in your wedding party...but that could cause a lot of drama at your wedding so I dont know if you want to remember your wedding as asking one of your closest friends to step down.
2007-12-09 02:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance.
2007-12-09 02:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Fizziwig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bridezilla
2007-12-09 03:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by coquinegra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋