i broke up with my ex in may bc he was a jerk. i was out of sight out of mind for 4 months, and i see him when i go back 2 work 4 months later and i ignore him. He has a new gf that works there also, and is very mean to me when i dont even talk or look at him! It got so bad, management found out and talked him about it. Why would he waste his energy and be so mean to me when he has a new gf?
2007-12-09 10:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doesnt a new gf show that he moved on? why would he be so cruel if he did?
2007-12-09 10:50:28 · update #1
Men cant handle rejection at all....Tremendous blow to our egos,self-esteem. Also, not to mention that we might really,really like this girl and she didn't feel the same....So we tend to hide behind anger cause thats all the defense that we have left....
2007-12-09 10:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by McDaniel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the typical egotistical jerk. Not to say that in an offensive way, but this usually overcomes the other once something big has blown up in their face. Most ppl are use to a "beautiful letdown" (alluding to a song by Switchfoot). In a relationship, both spouse must have some kind of agreement, but when a line is crossed or some kind of barrier is denied and broken the agreement dissolves. THis is a simple matter of logic and min ingenuity. As a guy a break-up is telling me that I am not good enough; this in turn is something that goes straight to my self-esteem and self-confidence.
2007-12-09 10:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she was playing hard to get. Sounds like she likes you, but it could have been her friends being around too. Don't push her for her # anymore. Be cool and if she gives it to you in the future, good for you guys. Sounds like she likes playing games and you're pretty straight forward. If she's not stupid and actually looking for a man then she may start chasing you. It may also be that she is very into her studies and doesn't want a guy to interfere with her getting further in life. If it's meant to be, it will be.
2016-04-08 04:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You dump him, insult him by calling him a jerk and you expect him to like you? Be nice to you?
It's called revenge, someone hurts you, you hurt back.
So you're the one that has to ask questions about his behaviour, and you want to know if he has moved on? He's moved on as much as possible, you're the one stuck in the past and causing problems by caring about how he's treating you.
You're an ex, ex doesn't mean he should become your friend, especially if that ex is being a b**ch and insulting him.
2007-12-09 10:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some guys are just jerks because when a guy moves on he shouldn't worry about the ex anymore. He is just pissed you broke up with him and hurt his feelings. He should just forget it and move on before he loses his job. And not all men are like him and he is making all men look bad.
2007-12-09 11:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex wants to dominate the situation still - that's not love, that's his ego. Not all men are like that - your ex needs to GROW UP.
2007-12-09 10:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have an ex too, and i think he's just threatened. Anger is easier to display than the fact that he still likes you. Anger covers the love, you know?
2007-12-09 10:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He was mean because he's still bitter and mad at that you left him. Nobody wants to be dumped. But smile every time you see him, because the best revenge is being happy.
2007-12-09 10:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i've never had to deal with that pain but did you break up with him that would explain it but for further answers from me talk to me at jbb8888@hotmail.com
2007-12-09 10:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by JBB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he is a jackass and he is threatened by you ...he is a hater
2007-12-09 10:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋