and move on with there life... caused i been dating and it so happens my ex's finds out the gossip.... doesn't that mean to stay out my relationships.... i don't bother with theres....... sos why do they like to bother with my relationships with whom i see or date
2007-12-09 17:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is what it means. The problem is, your ex is not over you yet. Give him some time to get over you. Ignore it.
2007-12-09 17:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by joker_32605 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First I would advise to finish your college. The rest will follow. It seem to me that you are depressed. Go and seek professional help, that would help you. Having an overbearing mother doesn't help much. If you don't have a desire for sex there must be something wrong with that you are not aware of. You are only 21 and people can be happy along, but you are not. Believe me I had felt like that way and I had been seen a doctor. Seek professional help and tell you mother to get off your back. Some people are married and very unhappy and some are single and very happy. I know you can be happy. Just thank God that you can see, you have your arm and leg and you are in one piece and are not in the wheel chair, think about all those positive thing instead of thinking that life is not worthy. God bless you I hope you start thinking positive and see a doctor.
2016-05-22 10:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by scarlett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a relationship is over, it means exactly what it says.
No one should be getting in your face, because you are dating someone else now. It's none of their business. They're just trying to stir things up.
If your EX bothers you and you don't want him around, it's time for a call to the police.
Some people just don't understand the words IT'S OVER!
A lot of people don't think, they react. When you react, you start listening to other peoples stupid talk.
Like I said above, if things get out of hand and your EX won't leave you alone, call the police. May be then he'll get the hint.
2007-12-09 18:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Eagles Fly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some ways, nothing we ever do stops being a part of our life. Who we were, and what we did, is how we got here, and will be with us wherever we go. So philosophically, you can never leave your past behind.
In a more pragmatic vein, how and why a relationship ends usually determines whether or not two people can coexist peacefully in the other's presence. Your ex sounds like they are having a difficult time letting go, and thus uses any excuse in order to stay close/in touch with you. Could be any number of things they can't accept that is keeping them in your orbit, from the mundane to the truly criminal.
The biggest determiner is really oneself. If being around such-and-such doesn't do me any good, then its probably a person I shouldn't be around.
2007-12-09 17:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Khnopff71 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relations are dynamic and not static. when a relation ends, actually it is not a total end but needs to be redifined. it only happens that the level of intimacy changes. a fast friend may be just a casual companion and an intimate lover may be reduced to just a friend. shud not bother about gossips and go on with life as u think proper.
2007-12-09 17:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person is worth keeping in your life then definitely don't end the friendship. Just because a romance has ended doesn't mean a friendship has to as well. Some people are better suited as friends than lovers.
2007-12-09 17:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Yankee Thunder 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Human nature is strange, whether it be spite or jealousy, very strong emotions are in involved and only you can conclude what is really over, then the gossip won't matter.
2007-12-09 17:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a relationship is over, it's over. ex's should not butt into your own buisness. Koreans have a saying, "ex's are ex's b/c you X them out". the end. tell them to butt out and get over it
2007-12-09 17:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one word ...JEALOUSY...wen a relationship is over u can choose to just be friends or in ur situation to "get outta my life"......or they just want to compare themselves with your date etc...eg. "what do they have that i don't have etc...
2007-12-09 17:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_Psycho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a little girl and move on.
2007-12-09 17:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋