I've been single for the past year and i met this girl who is absolutely beautiful, she's everything i'm looking for when it comes to girls, of course i'd have sex with her but it's not something i strive for, i just want her love and be able to express mine without scaring her off, she has lots of guy friends but i want to know how to make myself stand out above these other guys so i'm the one she ends up with, but she says she doesn't want a bf, i want to wait for her but how do i make sure i'm the one she will want when she does want a bf? Any advice is appreciated, thanks
2007-12-09 17:09:50 · 8 answers · asked by Jeremy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did forget to mention we have been out on a few dates and she tells me how much she enjoyed them, on an average day she'll be the first to make contact with me and she'll tease me quite often, she says she only teases people she likes and is bitchy to people she doesn't like
2007-12-09 17:27:33 · update #1
When she says "I don't want a BF" what she is really saying is "I don't want you as a BF" If you really want to give it a shot then try taking her out on a date or two but if she doesn't want to then she's just trying to tell you that she doesn't like you without the confrontation
2007-12-09 17:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by C Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be certain that you will be the one she wants when or if she decides she wants a relationship. You have no idea what her type of guy is, and anyway if you had to make yourself over into someone she could fall in love with, what kind of life would that be. If you want to be noticed, be thoughtful, but not pushy or needy. Be casually friendly, funny and up-beat. Most women like guys who have cocky self-confidence with some sensitivity thrown in.
I would definitely set a limit on the amount of time to play the waiting game, you may miss out on other opportunities while you live a fantasy that may never become reality.
2007-12-10 01:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt want a boyfriend.... you should wait but dont give up. Dont wait on only her either try to find somone else too.
Why would you have sex with her?
2007-12-10 01:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't want to be her boyfriend, but you prefer to be her leading man. Then take her out as her leading man.
2007-12-10 01:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever wait for a female.
If they don't want to be with you, that means THEY WANT SOMEONE ELSE.
Girls/women NEVER want to be alone. They will always want someone, it's just not you.
Get on with your life.
2007-12-10 01:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on buddy. try other girls in the mean time. if she likes u, she'l make her move. dont wait man, or you maybe waiting forever
2007-12-10 01:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by vanilla_thrilla01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading the feelings you have for her, if she doesn't want you as her boyfriend...then she doesn't deserve you as her boyfriend.
2007-12-10 01:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by gem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw her.
2007-12-10 01:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋