help!!I need advice about my ex.....?

Question

I know my questions long but please read I need your help........My ex and I went out when we were 16 years old. We had to break up because my parents didn't like him. Plus on top of that neither did my sis, she told me one day that he was cheating on me with another girl from my neigborhood. He claimed to never have known the girl.
Anyway later his mother died an he had to move away to pennislyvaina, I went away to school. When I came back home I found out from my best friend that he was now living in new jersey a little while away from the city. Thanks to her he got my number and called me. We were reminising over our old relationship then started hanging out again.
He told me that he had just gotten out of a relationship with his ex 2 days ago. And he had been talking to this girl for a year and going out with her for 2 months. I really used to love this boy(I still do alittle) he loved me to. I really want to try at having another relationship with him now that were both 18 we don't have to worry about any family problems. I always said if it was ment to be god would let us meet again, now here we are. What do I do can we go at another chance or and I just his rebound girl. I really want this to work he's always been the one I ever envisioned ending up with......thanks

Answer 1

give him some time, you don't want a rebound man. After a couple of months give it a try if you still feel this way. And if he does get with someone else you know that you would be a rebound chick. but we all know you are going to do what ever you want.

Answer 2

If he did lie to you, and cheat on you then, what makes you think that he won't do it again? Relationships break up for good reasons. They are not good ones usually. I would move on to someone that you can trust, rather than put yourself right back into a failed relationship. Going backwards is rarely a good idea.