I believed that when my husband first met me he truly loved me. He seemed as if he was the perfect man. Yesterday, he told me that he met this homless lady on the bus(he may have known her before me), and he was going to move her into his house without the permission of the landlord. There is only one bed in his house, with no furniture, so obviously she would be sleeping with him. He told me whether I liked it or not she was going to be moving in with us. He even wanted me to meet her. I never knew such a thing was going to happen until that day. He totally surprised me. I feel crushed, betrayed, and confused. It feels like it was just a dream. I broke out into tears. It seems as if substance abuse may have something to do with it. He told me that his nose was bleeding. A few days before this occurred, I felt as if I didn't want him to touch me...it just didn't feel right. How do I get over this?
2007-12-09 23:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just pick up your things and move on! :--#)
2007-12-09 23:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm homeless too. Maybe I could move in with you too and we can all share the bed together. The only problem I have is these fleas that keep hopping around, and oh yeah the stench. The last bath I took was in May.
I hope that's OK with you.
That other woman is a druggie just like your husband. This is another reason why we need a border fence.
2007-12-10 07:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello from England. I am sorry to say that all the warning signs are there, and I suspect you perhaps already know what you have to do. This is most distressing for you, and I feel you deserve better, frankly. This "gentleman" has betrayed your trust and has abused you mentally: he deserves absolutely no place in your life whatsoever.
How do you get over this? Well, this will of course take time - lots of time - in fact, Firstly, might I respectfully suggest you concentrate on your lovely qualities and your charisma: remember, God made you, and if you are good enough for Him you are more than good enough for anyone else. As time goes by, you will begin to feel better, and your confidence will grow, if you allow it to.
Don't look for love: let it find you. If you allow your charisma to work for you, it really will. Promise!
Good luck. I wish you well. You deserve happiness, and I just know you will find it.
2007-12-10 08:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by colonelben2222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, don't walk to the nearest exit!! He no longer respects or loves you. Get out while you can. Drugs are so strong now that it takes an act of God to recover from addiction, many never do. Hope you have no kids with this man.
2007-12-10 07:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and get a real life
2007-12-10 07:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him GOODBYE!...no one has the right to tell you that someone is moving in with you without discussion. He is throwing it in your face and wants to see what you will do, so show him that you will not tolerate it and walk out. It will be his LOSE, not yours.
2007-12-10 07:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by ♥STREAKER♥©℗† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to church and pray to god. he is just doing the wrong move and will realize it when he turns 60. too late.
2007-12-10 07:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Vanka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move- bye bye bye bye
2007-12-10 07:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by sylvester c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, contact a lawyer..........!!!
2007-12-10 07:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by remoserjr107 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋