hmm..what should i do???he said he loves me but i dont have the same feelings for him,..so what i did is i said no..now,,he's totally ignoring me,but i want us to be friends...
is there any solution for that??T_T
2007-12-09 23:58:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont question yourself. the way you feel is THE WAY YOU FEEL.
by being honest with yourself and him too, you have just made things easier.
if he is going to be immature about this...its a clear way to see that when he said he loves you... he LIED. if he loved you, surely he would understand?
but dont ever question your instinctiveness.
xxx
2007-12-10 00:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by adialidal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont be so big headed just because someone says they love you dont mean hes in love with you i love all my friends that are girls but im not in love with them so there you go
2007-12-10 00:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong.. you cant force feelings.
no real solution, but he needs some conformation from you that he is worth something to you in return. telling him that you like him, that you enjoy your time with him, going threw a list of his traits that you like about him, will help resolve this.
2007-12-10 00:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a dude already has feelings for you, it's going to be hard for him to be friends wih you. do him a favor and stop talking to him. thats what i would want a girl to do
2007-12-10 00:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Don't Call Me Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him why you only want to be friends
2007-12-10 00:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot be friends with someone who loves you
if you don't feel the same way.
maybe you should stop talking to him.
2007-12-10 00:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Enrique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you want just friendship and no sex....shut stuff that...but he will not take interst in yo u now
2007-12-10 00:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick em to the curb soon..
2007-12-10 01:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋