what do i do? i don't want to date a boy i m 23 yrs old and single. but he is so excited to date me and has asked me in so many sweet different ways. how can i say him that i do not want to date him. he lives 3 blocks away from my house.
2007-12-11 23:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boys usually do this at this age, i did it too. u seem to be an attractive person. so talk to him openly and say that u can be friends and u feel awkward to date younger man. u can do this in a way of being his Friend. just try not to b too emotional or arrogant.
2007-12-11 23:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just say that you dont feel comfortable with the age difference. Right now it doesnt seem too much,but later on you will be retiring while he is still working.
Dating is very different than marriage. You enjoy dating him, but when you thought of marriage you always saw yourself with someone closer to your age.
Good luck, he sounds like a nice guy and I am sure you will do this in a nice way for him..
2007-12-12 07:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by sammy3256 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say:
"I sorry sweety, But I'm getting married to Seraphiel next frieday!"
lol no thats too mean, hmmm just tell the truth is much more simple than lying. Tell him you dont want a relationship, or to be tied down to anyone just yet. If he dosnt get it then be a little bit more harsh.
2007-12-12 07:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just say what teh older girls used to tell me...you seem like a nice kid but I date older guys...
2007-12-12 07:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him it would be difficult for you to date due to your life right now and tell him that you think the age difference is too great
2007-12-12 07:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If that is not illegal where you live then you may just date him few times.
2007-12-12 07:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the boy that he's too young for you. Be honest.
2007-12-12 08:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit him down and explain to him that he is too young to date you.
2007-12-12 07:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest....As soon as possible!
You have to tell him very soon! If you don't, It may be very bad for you! Sooner you say, better!
Tell him that you are bigger than him and may nit understand him...tell that girls who are 17 are better for him...
But whatever you wanna say, Very soon! Very soon!
2007-12-12 07:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to avoid him by rejecting him POLITELY when he ask you for dates or other things. Slowly , he will get it . Good Luck ! :)
2007-12-12 07:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋