Singles & Dating - 11 December 2007

I went to see this guy (we like eachother) the other day and he gave me a hug when I was about to leave and he well..moaned (not like a sexual one but like a relaxed moan) or something..I rubbed his back while we hugged and then we talked for about a minute, then I gave him another little hug and our head backed up and we were litterally like 4 inches away from eachothers face and we kinda stared for a few seconds and I don't know why the hell I did not kiss him!..I just said 'I will see you later' or something. Of course he works there and there were cameras on him I am sure and co-workers were around but...ugh..thats not why I didn't do it, maybe cause I wasn't sure that is what he was thinking too. I hope it was tho. How do I attempt the 1st kiss without it being a quick 'im shy' smooch cause I have a fear that is what I will do..

2007-12-11 16:04:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 16:02:29 · 34 answers · asked by a_man_with_no_woman 1

where were they, are you two together,how was it?

2007-12-11 16:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Leslie 1

there is this guy i like and my friend thought it would be funny to go and tell him i like him..but it isnt! anyway i want him to no i like him but on the other hand i dont cuz im scared to have a broken heart. what should i do?
listen to my mind which is telling me to forget him or listen to my heart which is telling me to tell him i like him....HELP PLEASE! im stuck!

2007-12-11 16:00:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've told him i don't really have feelings for him and it's not serious. he loves me so much he doesnt want to leave though. he wants to be with me at every opportunity. it feels a bit like he's desperate. does he have no self-respect?

2007-12-11 15:56:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex broke up valentine's day 2007. i tried to move on. i even had crushes on other guys. but none of my other crushes came close to the one i have for my ex. i've told him numberous times that i still like him, but he says he doesn't feel the same way. it's been 3 months since the last time i've told him. should i tell him how i feel or would i just be rejected. he's a really nice guy, and he would never harm anyone. please help!!

2007-12-11 15:44:47 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney C 1

I tend to put my cell on silent because I'm either in class/studying/work. My boyfriend gets angry because I don't pick up and this happens often. Today, we had a major argument because of this phone issue. He always accuses me of being 'bad' and that he does everything 'good' for me (i.e.quiet smoking, went back to school, etc.) He emphasizes a lot on his feelings and how he is the one feeling sad-I make him sad. But the fact that he always blames it on me, that I'm a 'bad girl', makes me cry. I told him this but he denies ever making me sad. I know I'm not perfect and I know I'm impatient and inconsiderate sometimes but I always apologize and want the best for him.
What is a good way to deal with this?
When we have an argument, I tend to cry because I'm tired of being called the 'bad' person in the relationship or the 'bad girl'.
What should I do?

2007-12-11 15:40:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this just a myth. In the book "HE'S JUST NOT THAT IN TO YOU ". The author says that IT IS A MYTH. He says if a man is in to you, he WILL CONTACT YOU, IF HE IS SHY OR NOT/

WHAT DO YOU THINK??

2007-12-11 15:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

telll a girl they like them! it makes me sooo frustrated bc they nvr think that the grl will like them back which is soo not true.they need to just step up to the plate and ask the grl out. why the heck do they just hide in the shadows most of the time?

2007-12-11 15:39:35 · 9 answers · asked by singarr03 1

I'm not frustraded or anything, but just curious. Like im on match.com and I sent out e-mails to those who match me the best. Some have viewed my page and has not replied yet. What's the deal.

2007-12-11 15:36:58 · 4 answers · asked by ........Frank 2

What would you do if someone (30yrs old) moved all the way across the world to be with you and then treated you rudely and borderline abusively. (Think unbelievably abusive name calling, etc.) Would you ignore them until they acted like an adult? This is what I've been doing but he just insists everything is only my fault. Anything else I should try? Is this a lost cause? He just keeps writing online (especially yahoo answers) that he came here but *I* turned out to be a loser/liar/fake when it's really HIM that has been acting like a 2yr old?!

Anyone want to talk some sense into me? :(

2007-12-11 15:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by sublime 5

My boyfriend of 3 months keeps telling me that i am his bi***tch, his cu***nt, his who***re, his sl***ut, etc........ out of the blue, for no reason, when we are watching television. As our relationship is progressing, he calls me more and more often degrading names like this, even though he is not even angry.

He also told me that his mother is a f**** bi*****tch, what is going on with this man ?

i have not answered his calls today, and he has called me 30 times just today.......

please help me, i need answers from both men and women.

2007-12-11 15:33:00 · 1 answers · asked by vanessa 1

Should I tell him so he will know why I dont know what I am doing or not? How should I go about telling him?

2007-12-11 15:29:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my best friends wedding when I hooked up with his bestman. The entire thing came completely out of left field, i didnt think that he noticed me in that way. He's in the air force and few back to FL a few weeks ago. We have continued to talk and there are plans for me to go and see him during spring break. We talk roughly twice a week for at least an hour either on the computer or phone, but I feel that I am always the one who has to establish contact first. At first when i would text him he would write right back and now sometimes he will never answer. I'm afraid that he only wants me to visit him so that he can get a piece. I told him earlier that I didn't want to be just another booty call and his reply was that he doesn't have any at all (i was told otherwise). I want to like him and would like a relationship out of him but only if he wants one as well. Otherwise I want to just take what little feelings i have for him and pull out now before I get even more attached. HELP

2007-12-11 15:28:58 · 12 answers · asked by Kenya 2

About 3mnths ago, I was gang raped by 4 people... I knew one of them.

I told nobody and know I found out that I am pregnant. I don't believe in abortions and I am one to plan things out and have already figured my life out till about now. I know now that I can't do what I planned to do with my life and may have to drop out of school. My rep. as the strait A dork kid, is now trashed. I have no Idea what to do...

If you could give me some advise or just support me with encouraging words, that would be great.

Thank you and God bless

2007-12-11 15:23:52 · 13 answers · asked by Carol A 2

im skinny as in fit but its not to skinny.

2007-12-11 15:21:16 · 9 answers · asked by dimond32 3

The way you imagined it to be or the real thing?

Was your first kiss a dissapointment and the rest were great?

Rate each kiss on a scale from 1-100.

2007-12-11 15:19:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok... i met this guy about a week ago... i kind of knew him before that through another friend, but we never talked until last monday or tuesday. we have hung out a couple times since then... nothing exciting. he kept telling me tonight that he wanted me to cook him dinner. i told him i was too tired tonight... we had been up since 8 this morning when we went to speak with a state senator about the negative action that people are trying to take against pit bulls then i had to work this evening... so i told him i would cook for him tomorrow night. we are just friends as of now... but i have no clue what to cook. he said he doesnt care and will eat anything... so i was thinking spaghetti or bbq chicken... what do you think?

2007-12-11 15:01:39 · 2 answers · asked by **ChArOlEnO** 2

When my bf and I are alone away from the stresses of the real world everything is perfect. But dealing with college applications, parents, unsupportive friends, silly exes, etc etc causes us to fight. I can't imagine a better person for me in the future... but right now its difficult. Should we break up and hope that someday we'll each find another right person at the right time? Or should we stick it out through the hard stuff (probably for several more years) until the timing is better?

2007-12-11 15:00:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up over 2 months ago. I ended it due to lack of time. It was a bad break up. I kinda told her I didnt know if I ever loved her and then 2 weeks later hooked up with some new girl. I wanted to remain friends, she said no because if I lied about ever loving her she doesnt want a liar in her life and although I can do what I want the new girl and how fast I moved on was a slap in the face. I did say I love you to her first and she said next girl I say it to mean it because to find out I didnt was worse than being cheated on by someone you love. She said a lot of nasty things. Its been 2 months and I just received an email from her apologizing about the things she said. She said despite how much I hurt her what she said wasnt okay. What do I do, Should I respond to her?

2007-12-11 14:57:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it ok for a girl to be taller than her crush....ok i don't know if he has a crush on me b/c he liked me like 2 or 3 years ago and he still says i am pretty we knoe each other since 10 years ago........but he does say he is too short for me what do you think?

2007-12-11 14:49:39 · 21 answers · asked by JOVIS 1

ok i broke up wtih my ex like 2 months ago, and i like seriously dont want anything to do with him. but he still wants to be friends and stuff. well, he's causing all this drama and i just really want him out of my life because all he does is create drama and he makes me in a worse mood whenever i talk to him. i wanna yell DONT YOU GET WHY I BROKE UP WITH YOU? I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! haha but ugh i dont wanna be mean cuz then i will feel bad. what do i do?

2007-12-11 14:47:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before I got breast implants I had Size A breasts.

Which is better?

2007-12-11 14:47:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Look at my pic, am I attractive? I've never had a bf, but all of my friends have, and I know that I am too sarcastic and need to exercise more. But really, am I as ugly as the guys at school say? You can be harsh, I'm used to it.

also (sorry it's a lot, but)...

Ok so, I'm the only person out of all of my friends that has never had a boyfriend. Or anything close, for that matter. I know I'm not the prettiest girl in school, but I do have some traits that some girls say are nice. I have nice eyes and pretty hair. But I am not skinny, and I am really cautious (I have had 3 knee surgeries). Also, I am very sarcastic, and sensitive. What do you think could get guys to notice me, for reasons other than that I can help with homework? And really, if looks don't matter, why have guys said they don't like me because I am ugly? I'd absolutly love some advice! Or just your own thoughts on this.

2007-12-11 14:43:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

woould you ever turn down a girl because of her height?

2007-12-11 14:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by don't gεt mad, gεt glad™ 3

2007-12-11 14:41:13 · 18 answers · asked by Not my name 2

He like ALWAYS says hey and has a conversation with me but today all he said was "sup" to me. I heard him talking to one of his friends about how tired he was n stuff.. I really thought he liked me.. Do you think he will go back to himself soon?

2007-12-11 14:40:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was @ my best friends today (he knows feel 4him) when I got there he &his roommie played video games for about 45 min. He would talk 2 me on & off but mostly played games . He knew I had to pick my brother up from school, &when he asked me how much time I had left I told him 5min. 3 min later he ended the game ( he was losing anyway but still cut game short). &set next 2me on the couch & turned on sports ( dont remember if he ask me if I was OK watching it ). We talked 4 a little &I told him I would stay a little longer instead of leaving early to get a bite to eat. After he said in a not so welcoming way that it didnt matter I could go eat if I wanted. I told him I was alright and I would stay a lil longer. one min later his cell rings . He got up , ans it, &went to his room. I could c that It would b better 2 go so I told him bye and left. he stop me @ door and asked y I was leaving. I told him 2 eat and pick up bro. he says he cares about me but I feel taken 4 granted at times

2007-12-11 14:36:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 14:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by lady a 1

Is this normal? I feel really sick & jealous and that I am not good enough for him! Do all men watch porn while in a relationship??

2007-12-11 14:29:40 · 19 answers · asked by *dream weaver* 3