Look at my pic, am I attractive? I've never had a bf, but all of my friends have, and I know that I am too sarcastic and need to exercise more. But really, am I as ugly as the guys at school say? You can be harsh, I'm used to it.
also (sorry it's a lot, but)...
Ok so, I'm the only person out of all of my friends that has never had a boyfriend. Or anything close, for that matter. I know I'm not the prettiest girl in school, but I do have some traits that some girls say are nice. I have nice eyes and pretty hair. But I am not skinny, and I am really cautious (I have had 3 knee surgeries). Also, I am very sarcastic, and sensitive. What do you think could get guys to notice me, for reasons other than that I can help with homework? And really, if looks don't matter, why have guys said they don't like me because I am ugly? I'd absolutly love some advice! Or just your own thoughts on this.
2007-12-11 14:43:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you have a beautiful face -- so you're not 'ugly' at all! But if you think you could stand to lose some weight, then you should -- for your own sake =) Don't worry about being too sarcastic, though. I've always had a razor sharp tongue and it hasn't kept me from meeting some great guys =)
2007-12-11 15:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ugly at all - some guys have probably called you ugly because of your sarcasm, and they are trying to hurt you. You are young - some day some man will see your beauty and be attracted to you. Your job is to make yourself as attractive as you can and be nice to guys so that they will realize that you might be a person they would want to date (or even more).
2007-12-11 14:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by The Oracle of Omigod 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I am not a guy, but I say ur attractive. However you might be shy with the guys you like. Try to be friends with them, because that will let you know if they are intrested or not. Guys are shy, and girls are becoming more aggressive now a day.
2007-12-11 14:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyeslady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl its time for you to stand up for yourself.. dont let ANYBODYY put you down, call you ugly (which your not) and use u for hw help. The people in your school dont know you but they start judging cuz it makes THEM feel better about themselves.. heck ive never had a boyfriend either but who cares? when the time is right, you will find the right person.. dont hang out with people who dont appreciate you, it will just bring your mood down. Ignore all their stupid comments and be strong .. if you realy have to confront them or say something back.. its all about self-confidence and its time for youto get yours back :) NOBODY can ever bring you down unless you let them.. and take the "You can be harsh, I'm used to it." off .. its just not right :) have fun and be yourself.. good luck!
2007-12-11 14:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Parii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly for one, identity say youve have been given the greater valuable end of the deal being a girl and all, by using fact the guy is incredibly lots the only that has to truly difficulty approximately impressing the female with how he talks and acts. the females for my section could desire to do much less, by using fact there no longer anticipated to be the innitiators of something envolving assembly and chatting with the alternative intercourse. so which you may desire to be a sprint greater rigidity loose understanding that its greater on him to try this stuff. nevertheless, you could and could in case you prefer to start a convo, why no longer, there particularly are a ton of shy adult males accessible that are no longer innitially keen to circulate out of there thank you to speak to a girl that they like, so with that for the duration of concepts choose for it. the question of telling a guy (or hinting) that your attracted to him won't be my awareness. by using fact I even have the same situation of exhibiting a girl i like them, so. the fewer you think of roughly it, and the greater you basically enable it ensue the greater issues are going to artwork. circulate with your instincts on what you may desire to do!
2016-11-25 23:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by silender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your ugly, but it does seem that you have a low self esteem and that may cause other people to see you ugly because you are Portraying that.
2007-12-11 14:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by totygoliguez1989 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because there immiture at this age, wait a couple of years, and then looks wont matter. 'sides, take more pride in your grades right now, care abbout boys in a few years.
2007-12-11 14:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know tons of married really ugly girls, you are not even ugly, it certainly looks like you have a problem, but being ugly is not your problem.
2007-12-11 14:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by paulma7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all in being urself, it wont matter how u look when ur in love with someone
u could wear a box on ur head and they would still love u.... so dont worry about it and keep being urself
2007-12-11 14:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋