I'm pregnant... and 15......?

Question

About 3mnths ago, I was gang raped by 4 people... I knew one of them.

I told nobody and know I found out that I am pregnant. I don't believe in abortions and I am one to plan things out and have already figured my life out till about now. I know now that I can't do what I planned to do with my life and may have to drop out of school. My rep. as the strait A dork kid, is now trashed. I have no Idea what to do...

If you could give me some advise or just support me with encouraging words, that would be great.

Thank you and God bless

Answer 1

Firstly, tell your parents. Next, call the police and bring those pricks to justice! You have proof that they 'gang raped' you (the baby). You can definitely get compensated to cover all the hospital bills, but that should probably be the least of your problems right now, I mean, you're having a child for heavens sake! I've never had a child, but I imagine it's A LOT of work.

Good Luck. Also, if it's a boy, why not name him after me?

- Matt

Answer 2

Don't worry, everything is going to be all right. All i can say is your really brave. I am 15 and I can't imagine that at all, I don't think i'd know what to do. Life doesn't always go as planned, but trust me, as long as you keep going, it'll turn out all right.
I suggest you going to the police first. Talking to your parents may be a bit hard, isn't it?
If you knew one of them, tell the police. Don't let those jerk get away with it. I'm sure its hard doing that but make sure they pay for what they did, keeping it to yourself won't help. Think about it, if no one steps up to tell on them, they might continue what they were doing and others will get hurt too. You're definately doing the right thing going to the police because you'd no only help yourself but help others too.
You don't have to drop out, im sure you can take 1 year off and do home schooling or something right? It'll work out somehow, im sure. Does your bf know about this? Sorry, kind of checked out your myspace and stuff. You know there are some people that fake stuff up to get attention. But don't worry, I turst you, because no one would bother to answers lots of questions then play pranks.
I hope everything will end up the way you want. Take a deep breath and gather up your courage. Remember, you are not alone, everyone here that answered your question, that read your question, are all here behind you supporting you. Good Luck!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Tell your parents. You cant do anything without them, they need to know that u are pregnant, you cant keep it a secret from them. they will eventually find out and will pissed off that u kept it from them. how far along are you? u should give the child away for adoption cuz if u were truly raped then why would u wanna keep the rapist´s child? keep the baby of a man who u dont know who is the father?..but i guess that what you´ll do is up for ur parents to decide since u are a minor.

Edit-In another question u asked it says u have a 19 yr old boyfriend?...so ur dating a 19 yr old that is your baby´s daddy? so that means u werent ganged raped but instead had sex with ur 19yr old bf and now arecovering it up by saying u were gang raped?...

Answer 4

I know you dont believe in abortions, but that would really help you put your life back on track. I was adopted and now live with a great family and could not be happier. If you really feel like you have to have the baby, there is no problem with adopting the child away. He or she will live a great life because people who adopt do so because they clearly are ready to love and care for a child. Im terribly sorry for what happened to you and if you do decide to adopt the child away, you could move on with your life, not entirely, but you can do it. I know it's gonna be hard, but if you really dedicate yourself to this, you can make it. Good luck!!!!

Answer 5

I hope you have taken into consideration the fact that the child will have the genes of the father and may grow up just like him, through no fault of his/her own.. Also, imagine one day being told that you're father is a rapist and that's how you came about. Seriously put yourself in the shoes of that child. I'm not condoning abortion but, there are exceptions to every rule.

Imagine, every time people talk about their fathers you can't talk about yours.. I'm sorry if I am sounding harsh, but I'd be ashamed of him and myself for sharing his genes. That's me though. Everyone is different. Hopefully your child will see things differently.

I sincerely wish for you and your child the best. Oh, and by the way call the cops and put those criminals where they belong before they get someone else.

Answer 6

Rape isn't something to keep to yourself, I know it's hard to tell somone when something like that happens, but you'll only end up hurting yourself by keeping it inside. Especially if your pregnant. You can start by letting somone you know really close first. Having a baby can make your life so much different, but it's worth it. A girl in my class back in the day was in the same situation, and she went through and had the kid and it was definitely the right decision. And she is now getting her life back to where she imagined it before she had her baby. It's going to work out! Goodluck.

Answer 7

Have you told anyone yet?? I'm sure your family will understand.

Talk to your doctor about your best options.

Don't drop out of school. I'm sure your family will help out and your friends will be supportive. Stay at school so you can get some money to look after a child.

Good Luck you are really strong. I'm sure no matter what you choose it will all work out.

Answer 8

You need support from your friends and family to help you and keep you strong. Even seeing a therapist for extra support is not a bad idea. I hope everything works out for you. Keep your head up. I think that you will be able to work through everything. If people from your school say things to you just feel bad for them because of how immature they act.

Also I hope you contacted the police about what happened to you!

Answer 9

you need to go to the police right away! you also need to tell your parents or another trusted adult. what they did to you was horrible and they need to be brought to task. you still have many options left, so do not think you need to drop out of school. it is great that you dont believe in abortion. but you really need to tell someone who can help you as well as bring those people to justice. they did that to you and they would do it to another person again, they are sick and for the protection of other girls out there they need to go to jail. good luck, God will help you though this.

Answer 10

My consolation to you.

You need to tell someone about it RIGHT NOW and dont wait too long. You need to report to the authorities about what hapenned.

THe best thing right now you need your family and friends' support during this time of crisis.

ANd also seek professional help for this tramautic experience its not easy to deal with this.

Best of luck to you.