Singles & Dating - 11 December 2007

this boy fancys me and has asked me out tones of times ... i turned him down
and one day i flirted ( just for fun ) and he was sooo sweet like did all my work , helped me and cuddled me and everything ..... but then i stopped flirting and went back to normal ..... and the next day he slapped my face !!!! ... hard , just because i didnt hug him !!!
what was the point of this ? why did he do this ?
so now i have to flirt with him and hugg him and othere things ... and i f he dosnt he hits me
also .... everytime i see him he touches me .... in places i dont want him too .
what can i do ?

2007-12-11 03:36:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says he does not want to hurt me plz help mwhat should i do???

2007-12-11 03:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by candy raver ^_^ 1

2007-12-11 03:35:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 03:34:58 · 4 answers · asked by Jamar B 1

what are some qualities a girl needs to have for you to take her seriously and not just want her for sex?

2007-12-11 03:32:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told the guy im into that I really like him. I also admitted how shy I am...he had a serious face and said "Yeah I understand...we should probably hang out sometime."

So my quesiton is, is that overall a good thing, and if it is, what's the next steps I should take into getting him to like me the way I like him?

2007-12-11 03:30:38 · 10 answers · asked by Tay 3

2007-12-11 03:30:12 · 12 answers · asked by Patricia V 1

My fiance broke up with me in June after dating for 4 years. She told me that she was depressed and needed to find herself. I was beyond Devastated from this. She told me that she wanted to stay friends. I miss her more than anything, but if anything, I am the one trying to hold the friendship, I have not heard from her in 3 months. In your experiences, did it ever work out or is it usually dead in the water???

2007-12-11 03:28:49 · 34 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1

ok....my friend met this cop who was really nice. They started talking and made out at her house. It didnt go any further. Anyways...he has started to do some creepy things and I need to give her some good advice.....
this is what he is doing...

1. he got a myspace/facebook just to talk to us
2. after 3 dates he told her he wanted her to meet his mother.
3. Sent her a top 10 list of what he likes best about her on myspace
4. Invited her to his family christmas
5.Sat up after hanging out and asked "what are we getting ourselves into?...it doesnt matter...it just feels so right"
6. told her he was going to spoil her rotten
7. calling her is girlfriend
8. the whole squad and his mother know EVERYTHING about her and can't wait to meet her.
9. telling her how she used to wait on him at her job over a year ago

and a bunch of other creepy stuff. keep in mind he is a cop, so how does she nicely get rid of him without being on his bad side??????????? this is after only 3 dates

2007-12-11 03:24:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

help me

2007-12-11 03:24:49 · 21 answers · asked by krish 1

i was talking to him in the phone and one thing i don't like is talking to him over the phone since he acts like a real di*k on the phone. he was a little mean and at times he doesn't even realizes it well he stayed quite for a while and tells me babe i don't appreciate you. he is not always like this he has his moments just like we all do but what does this mean??

2007-12-11 03:23:56 · 20 answers · asked by Binky :-) 2

I see it so much now. Do you feel ignored?

2007-12-11 03:23:53 · 28 answers · asked by juju 3

The first one I have been dating now for almost two years. We have been off and on. I could not put my finger on it but something was not right about this guy. I started searching and I found out that he was married! He told me that he wasn't. I stop seeing him and met another guy...my current lover. This guy is everthing I could have asked for and more. He cooks for me, takes care of my kids, pays my bills, and gives me ANYTHING that I want. What's wrong? I still love my old lover. Know matter what he gives me I still think about and want to be with my old lover. And I do still see him(old lover) and now he is telling me that he loves me. I dont want to hurt my current lover...he is in deep. What do I do?

2007-12-11 03:23:53 · 8 answers · asked by NikeDiva 2

He is good looking, funny, caring, cooks for me, cleans up if I ask him to. He works hard. My parents love him like a son. His family loves me like a daughter. We are seemingly perfect for each other. Next to my immediate family members, I love him more than anything. He is my best friend. Why can't I be happy in a relationship with him? Why doesn't he turn me on sexually?

2007-12-11 03:23:09 · 3 answers · asked by Dasher 2

ok girls b honest thats what u all want is a guy that u can pretty much i would like to say controll but when u do dont u start loosing attrcation for him b/c he's no longer being his own man? or is this theory of mine wrong? thanks and i dont mean to insult anyone...thanks

2007-12-11 03:22:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i broke up with him cuz i wanted to be just friendsand my friends said he was committed? but he doesnt want wut i want and he asked me back out and i said yes but
im not sure what i want anymore i don't want too loose him.and i dont want too hurt him. we have been toghter for almost a year..

2007-12-11 03:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dating this girl for about 5 months and we decided to stop dating about 2 months ago cuz i felt like the relationship wasnt progressing, she said she wasnt ready for anything serious so she suggested for us to be friends. in the past two months she has been contacting me on friendly chat but until last week we bump into each other at a function where there we connected again, we hung out for 5 days st8 she invited me to her which she never did before. we didnt discuss anything about us, i guess we are enjoying each other company
should i get her something for x mas? if yes, what should i get her ( i dont want to get her something that shows love or commitment).

if no, please tell me why?

we are both 25 years old
P.S. i like her and i will love to be with her but i dont know if this is possible due to her past theres a 50/50 chance but she needs to get over this emotional roller coaster that keeps hunting her

2007-12-11 03:19:29 · 3 answers · asked by simple J 4

I've known this girl for 3+ yrs. Always been very thoughtful/ emotionally supportive of each other. Were "good" - even "best"- friends. I had GF, she was single/lonely. She knew I had GF. We'd meet for coffee, meals when we could (once/month when we lived in same country, which was only for about a year of that time)...e-mailed and talked on phone regularly in between...sent pics to each other, took pics together, gave each other cards/gifts on special occasions, including "couple's holidays"...signed e-mails with "love" sometimes...went to a "date" movie, and for a few walks...always platonic, never flirtatious...GF/others still said this was "cheating"...Girl asked me to go to amusement parks with her, to visit her in other country where she lived...I couldn't, b/c of GF...I had potential feelings for her, told her, said we'd see about the future...GF/I broke up...approached girl, she said she had BF now she never told me about...said she *never* thought of me as possible BF? Odds?

2007-12-11 03:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by dude in the bend 1

My cousin will only date blonds, my uncle's into red heads and I'm a brunette. I tend to see so many blond girls giggling with their boyfriends, so I have to ask - Do you care about hair color?!

2007-12-11 03:15:44 · 11 answers · asked by Rainbows Light Up My Clody Sky 2

what would you do if you heard a rumor about your bf but were afraid to talk to him about it, how would you bring it up? what if you find out it's true? help please, i need ideas how to bring up the subject

2007-12-11 03:15:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

GUYS ONLY!! haha....which do u prefer?? blondes?? or brunettes?? and why??!

2007-12-11 03:08:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is it just an infatuation??? I knw this guy since many years and he isnt my friend or anything...but i admire him all the time and i feel that i love him... But im not too sure if its love or just an infatuation...What say y'all???

2007-12-11 03:05:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is it just an infatuation??? I knw this guy since many years and he isnt my friend or anything...but i admire him all the time and i feel that i love him... But im not too sure if its love or just an infatuation...What say y'all???

2007-12-11 03:05:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are 3 guys in my life right now who I could sleep with whenever. They are good looking, funny, caring men. I love hanging out with them and even staying the night in their beds. However, they don't turn me on like that and I don't know why. Then there is this one guy who is 10 years older than me. I know there is no chance of a relationship and that's perfect for me right now. He isn't as attractive as the others, but he is very aggressive and energetic and I want him badly. I only want him for sex. We've slept together a couple of times and it was amazing. The only problem is that our schedules are so different we're lucky if we see each other once a week. I am so sexually frustrated and the one guy I want sex for isn't around much. What is wrong with me? Why can't I sleep with any of the others? How do I find another guy like the one I've been sleeping with, someone who is available more? Help!

2007-12-11 03:04:55 · 12 answers · asked by Dasher 2

ok..i met this guy on hi5 ...he contacted me to say he likes me...so we met up on sunday and watched a movie. he's very nice guy very polite, ifelt quite comfortable around him... he will always make nice comments about me,that im beautiful and such. it felt so right because a 2 weeks ago i was rejected by my best friend because i said i had feelings for him.
......Anyways, now i feel like i don't wanna be with this guy, i've been ignoring his phone calls and i don't know if im just being weird or .....?

please tell me

2007-12-11 03:04:24 · 16 answers · asked by linetta 2

another. Problem is i'm afraid to tell my parents about him, and I've been keeping "us" a secret this whole time.And I stay the night at his house atleast 2 nights a week. I'm afraid they wouldnt approve of the age difference. HELP.It's hard to just let go and not worry about what others think.

2007-12-11 03:03:16 · 19 answers · asked by MissTL 1

I know blondes catch a guys eye faster but is it true that guys just tend to have more respect for brunettes?? what do you think about a Brunette girl with blonde highlights?? lol cus that's what I have...

2007-12-11 02:58:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes i ask myself over and over again why it happened to me.This really sucks because i am desparate to feel normal again.Sometimes my sister says that she is happy that she doen't have a broken heart because she knows that its not fun.

2007-12-11 02:57:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 02:36:17 · 11 answers · asked by Cupcake.....:) 4

Some men seem to fall at these\womens feet (the whole Chantelle from BIG BROTHER act). One of my friends does it on purpose around men.

I'm not slagging anyone off, just like to hear your views on this subject.

2007-12-11 02:26:07 · 22 answers · asked by Rylie's Mammy ♥ 4