this boy fancys me and has asked me out tones of times ... i turned him down
and one day i flirted ( just for fun ) and he was sooo sweet like did all my work , helped me and cuddled me and everything ..... but then i stopped flirting and went back to normal ..... and the next day he slapped my face !!!! ... hard , just because i didnt hug him !!!
what was the point of this ? why did he do this ?
so now i have to flirt with him and hugg him and othere things ... and i f he dosnt he hits me
also .... everytime i see him he touches me .... in places i dont want him too .
what can i do ?
2007-12-11 03:36:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its in school .
2007-12-11 03:41:09 · update #1
A guy hit you? No Way! If you continue to flirt with him because otherwise he will hit you, the situation is going to get worse. There is something wrong with him, and I would guess that he is also a control freak.
You can't put up with that. Don't hug him anymore and don't let him touch you where you don't want him to touch you.
You have to put a stop to this now. Just be friendly to him.
Hugging is no bid deal, but when he touches you in the wrong places, you're going to have to say something.
There are many ways to approach the situation. You could say something like "that really disrespects me when you do that". Or just tell him that you don't want him touching you in that way anymore because it makes you feel uncomfortable. Or Stop touching me there dammit".
If he hits you again, I would definitely make it clear to him that he is not going to treat you that way ever again. I would also talk with someone. Your parents? A counselor at school? Other friends? This behavior can't go on.
These seem like drastic steps, but you have to put an end to this now. If someone slapped me like that, their balls would be in their throat.
Good Luck
2007-12-11 03:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be in a fair bit of pain you poor thing. Go to the hospital and be checked over thouroghly, the longer you leave it the more difficult some things are to fix. Infection may set in to your deep wounds, and remember you are only describing the things you can see .... what about the inside damage that you can't see? If you don't get help, and are lucky enough to survive any potential complications, then your bones will eventually heal, but you could end up with a nasty deformity. GO, GO, GO!!!
2016-04-08 08:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from this guy!!! Report him to the police or school authorities, and get a restraining order if necessary. This is just really crazy and abusive behavior. This guy could be dangerous.
No man should ever hit you for any reason. You DON'T have to flirt with him or tolerate his abuse.
Get help and get away from him NOW! Stay safe!
2007-12-11 03:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what! r u serious! thats not a good situation to be in tell ur parents and get away from him right away. he really doesnt care about u or he wouldnt mistreat u and u could get into some real trouble the longer u hang around. get out now! and call the cops for good measure ur being assulted and thats a crime! that guy deserves to go to jail!
2007-12-11 03:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you kind of messed him up. Thats still no excuse for him to do those things to you though. Definately stay away frm him and if he comes looking for you then call the police on him, and don't flirt with weird guys just for fun. Or flirt with loads of them and get them to beat him up for you.
2007-12-11 03:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by scyther_maverick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a pathetic loser. Dump him immediately, and file a police report against him for sexual assault. This guy is a heartless emotional parasite that will try anything to manipulate you into doing what he wants. The only thing that stops people like that is jail time.
2007-12-11 03:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope this isn't in workplace environment because clearly that behavior is Harassment. Men like this are sick because they prey on women who have confidence issue and use that for their perverted power trips.
NO MEANS NO! If he can't get that then dial 9-1-1 and see if that helps. You can't not let him think he has any effect on you good or bad. You're done with this... move on.
2007-12-11 03:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by tempowht 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him. Tell your parents what has occured and make it clear to him if he lays a hand on you again (anywhere) he's going to need a lawyer.
Do not tolerate ANYONE striking you like that...ever. This boy doesn't fancy you, he fancies someone to control.
2007-12-11 03:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should not have slapped you, but you should not play games with his heart either. One day you flirt with him and "cuddle".. the next day you decide to go back to the way it was before. What are you?... a love thermometer? Quit playing the dang games and you'll not be slapped (even though slapping you is wrong). Sorry to say, but you provoked it... but he should have showed restraint.
2007-12-11 03:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, don't walk away.... RUN. He sounds like a real psycho. Always helps to make a report to the police about these incidents. He assaulted you and should be reprimanded.
2007-12-11 03:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by fireangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋