i don't think me and him want the same thing and i don't know what to do?

Question

i broke up with him cuz i wanted to be just friendsand my friends said he was committed? but he doesnt want wut i want and he asked me back out and i said yes but
im not sure what i want anymore i don't want too loose him.and i dont want too hurt him. we have been toghter for almost a year..

Answer 1

First, you have to decide what is this that YOU want - to break up with him, or to stay with him, because you said you don't want to lose him. And it's fine to be friends with guys.

Answer 2

You can't change how you feel. If you want to be just friends with him, end the dating relationship and be just friends. It may hurt him, but you've done it before. Don't worry about how he feels; it's not easy, but you have to do what's best for you, not everyone else.

Answer 3

you're only hurting yourself by putting yourself in a position to be with someone just for the sake of having someone. it's obvious that a relationship is not in the works, so, why ruin a friendship while trying to find out. think.

Answer 4

Stay with him you love him and I can even see that, what most couples do is they talk about the future togehter and come to an agreement on waht they want and where they want to go in life and as y'all get older those goals get accomplshed together.

Answer 5

You have to discuss this with him. Talk about the differences in the things you both want and see if there is some way to close the gap.

Answer 6

for any relationship to last, you both have to want the same things in life. Sadly, it sounds like you need to look for someone else.

Answer 7

in life people grow and when they do things change it OK to feel the way you do but why drag it on just sit him down and tell him how you feel

Answer 8

you need to to tell him to him how you feel and he will understand. its just the way it is