The first one I have been dating now for almost two years. We have been off and on. I could not put my finger on it but something was not right about this guy. I started searching and I found out that he was married! He told me that he wasn't. I stop seeing him and met another guy...my current lover. This guy is everthing I could have asked for and more. He cooks for me, takes care of my kids, pays my bills, and gives me ANYTHING that I want. What's wrong? I still love my old lover. Know matter what he gives me I still think about and want to be with my old lover. And I do still see him(old lover) and now he is telling me that he loves me. I dont want to hurt my current lover...he is in deep. What do I do?
2007-12-11 03:23:53 · 8 answers · asked by NikeDiva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want what you know you can't have.
Appreciate the man who treats you well, and forget the one who doesn't. You'll lose them both if you don't.
2007-12-11 03:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop the old lover. You knew something was wrong with him. Now you have the best kind of man to have. Cooks and takes care of your kids!! Geez. Time will let you forget about the other one.
2007-12-11 11:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by stormracer101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women always want to be with the one that's wrong for them? Think about your future. Who possesses the qualities that you are looking for in having in a partner. The other guy is married. He is cheating on his wife. That is a huge red flag. Search within your soul to see who you truly want to be with but always take into consideration that love is not enough sometimes to compensate for a man's shortcomings.
2007-12-11 11:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by luxemomny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put youre old lover aside for a while.
You dont need to be whith someone who hurt you and lied to.
And plus, if hes MARRIED, you def. dont need to get yourself mixed up in that.
Take time to get to know youre new lover and see what happens.
Just choose who you think is best for you and the kids.
Take things slow.
2007-12-11 11:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by lynnn. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision is yours and only yours who truly cares about you and which one is going to be there for you. If the first one lied and kept his marriage from you he's really not the one he lied to you once and got away with it he'll do it again. He doesn't love you for you he loves you for what your tolerating from him. You deserve more and you deserve better!
Love yourself first and everything else will follow.
2007-12-11 11:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by mudda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break and try to not sleep around for 5 minutes.
2007-12-11 11:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Each person is different. Pick the best one.One must better than the other,right?.Think about it.
2007-12-11 11:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the hotter one
2007-12-11 11:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bumble Bee 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋