Singles & Dating - 11 December 2007

Ok I need your help. I have this guy friend who's been acting really weird lately. He's been asking where I am all the time, calling me tons of times, asking if I can spend the night at his place. He says that he just wants to be in my arms.

I made it very clear a while back that I'm not ready for a relationship, because i'm very focused on school and work.

Well the other day we were watching a movie and I just wanted to cuddle and he kissed my forehead then told me "you know I'm your man right?? And you're my girl..." What's that about?? Does he want a relationship??

2007-12-11 18:21:50 · 22 answers · asked by *Heart~broken* 4

My bf and i have been together for 3 months and yesterday he told me that we should start having sex but i told him that i'm not ready yet. Can you tell me how long it took for you to star having sex with your bf or gf??...How many months?...I just wanna know your experience...and also tell me how much time you spent with your partner before starting to have sex..thanx

2007-12-11 18:15:09 · 16 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1

i want to be true for her ,,,i have no gf but i think i dont need now ,,

2007-12-11 18:12:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, theres this guy that I've been txting for about 7 months
now. I've never talked to him on the phone, or met him.
Last month he sent me a nude picture of himself. He's also sent me one before this, about 6 months ago.
And my mom found the second pic 2 weeks ago in my phone.

Now...I'm 16, and He just turned 18 2 weeks before he sent
the second pic. My mom ended up calling my dad over to talk
to me about it. And then my dad called the police when he
found out that the guy was 18. The cops showed up at my house , AND a detective. They opened an investigacion cass. The police took my cell phone for evidence. And they said something about him being put on the sexual predators list.

My parents are now checking my history on my laptop.
I can't have a cell phone anymore.
And I'm not aloud to stay home alone anymore.

But...The problem I have is them doing this to him.
It's not like he's an actual sex preditor. He's only 2 years
older than me.

But...Am I wrong here?

2007-12-11 17:59:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's really begining to get to me. I ask a question, and instead of answering it, people try to read alternative motives, assume I'm single or attached etc, then give advice based on something completely unrelated. Just now, for example, I'm surprised at the number of people who answered my question "Would you rate this question as interesting" as "yes" but didn't rate the question. It mean it goes on and on and on...

2007-12-11 17:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

be dating someone who a lot of people think is really cute, or be dating someone who only you think is really cute?

2007-12-11 17:52:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A good friend of mine is a junior and she has a big crush on a freshman. Do you think it is a good idea for her to act on this feeling and ask him out? Do you think she would be "taking away" from his high school experience? I'm debating whether or not to tell her if acting on this feeling is a good or bad decision.

I would appreciate some pros and cons. Thanks!

2007-12-11 17:35:59 · 4 answers · asked by Lovelylady 3 1

So I walk into this room and there is this guy sitting with his legs completely apart. Sort of a 180 degree thing. Then, we talk briefly, and during this conversation, he lifts himself up a bit and repositions (perhaps his undergarment??) and his legs which are still 180 degree apart. What is he upto?

2007-12-11 17:35:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so, this guy and I have been hanging out lately. I've known him for over a year and a half, but most of that time he was dating someone else. So even though he's been my good friend, I never thought of him that way. We "hooked up" about a week ago, and he's been really sincere about wanting to make it something more. We hung out about everyday since then, and texted a lot. He initiates most of it. Well tonight he started texting me and I said I was busy w/homework but then a couple hours later asked what he was up to. Said he was staying home that night, and I asked if I should come over. Said he wanted to be solo that night but we'll hang out tomorrow. I was cool w/it, and he texted to make sure I was. But now I feel like I made myself look too available and needy. How do I turn this around, and keep his interest?

2007-12-11 17:30:39 · 3 answers · asked by micha 3

I think she likes some one else and i just want to die im in love and in pain help

2007-12-11 17:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by darkhell1990 2

I am an attractive female, not to sound conceited. I have my sights set on this one particular guy, but he is playing hard-to-get. He asks my friends about me, but when I try to converse with him, he acts like he could care less whether I talk to him or not. I don't like to be "the hunter" per say... I wonder if I'm wasting my time trying to get him to notice I'm alive...

2007-12-11 16:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by Poptart 1

A brief example of a situation for those who need one lets say the woman fell for the wrong guy. He ended up leaving her while she was still pregnant, and hasn’t seen, or spoke to the mom, or child once so he is completely out of the picture. She doesn’t expect anyone to become involved in her child’s life at all unless the potential relationship becomes spending their lives together kind of serious so there isn’t any pressure to step in as a father figure. The only thing she expects is that if, and when the relationship becomes that serious the guy understands the child is a part of it at that point, and if nothing else he has to at least be willing to accept that, and be a decent friend for that child.

2007-12-11 16:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4

so were 14 im not a virgin and she said she was now she has had a hard past and im kinda her way to being happy and safe but when we first started going out she told me she was and i was honest and we were talking about it about a week ago and she said she still was but her friend told me that she isnt and i am 100% sure she is telling the truth so should i tell her i no or just let it go

2007-12-11 16:48:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

we cant b together,we were together on and off since we were 14,now we're 21.I know we'd make great friends,but@this point, we need to be apart,completely, for at LEAST several months...even the smallest attempt at conversation leads to either jelousy, or rekindling feelings, which lead to drama...(trust me, it has been a cycle of break up and make up for the last 3 years)...those options=INEVITABLE. we NEED time apart....its just that, he is ALL i have kown in so many ways for the last4of the7yrs. I mean,I have my friends,family,college, but...since we were 14 we've been each others ALL...I just dont know how to move on, so that I can get to a healthy point within my self&mayb even with him or both so that we can either be friends, associates, or nothing. I mean, Ill always love and miss him but that can be healthy..i just feel so sad&lonely, i dont kno how2deal...what do i do in this healing period? talkin2him is NOT an option, even if I wanted to because it was his decision also

2007-12-11 16:47:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because I am posting in this section, I do not want any immature people and/or responses.

People first date and ask others out because they like them. Eventually, that develops to a sense of caring. The guy cares a lot about the girl and vice versa. They both will be there for each other. Eventually, this turns into the commitment of marriage.

Now my real question is: in the early and middle stages of a relationship, most people only have a young sense of caring. They can't always be with their partner, but they will try to be there if they can. How is this any different from a close/best friend?

The reason, that I have always held, for desiring a relationship (if I ever get close to getting one) is so that I can hold the girl and let her know that I will always be there for her. Even if her family has forsaken her, she will always have me.

Now that I think about it more, how is this different from a best friend? Yes, I do not treat my good/best friends this way, but is the line really that close?

2007-12-11 16:41:56 · 6 answers · asked by niiro13 7

What do you look for in men physically not personality wise.

2007-12-11 16:36:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 16:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Boys have some ways to get over their ex like: playing game all day long, getting a new gf, hanging out with friends.....
I cant do those thing... lol ... i dunno how to get over this boy .... we have been together for 3 yrs... and just broke up for 2 weeks
... he told me he wont come back, and he finds his own way to keep his mind busy... so ya... its just me who has problem now ....PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

2007-12-11 16:35:29 · 4 answers · asked by tinkerbell 2

i went 2 a movie with this girl on our first date and it went really well i think but when it was over and we talked on msn she said that it would be best to stay friends because her other 2 exs arent friends with her and she doesnt want that happening and i assured her that it wouldnt and it sounded like she beleived me but its only been 3 or 4 days since she broke up with her ex and i thought she was over him but shes not and now she said she'll see when i asked her if maybe some other time but is that good or bad i really need to know cuz its driving me crazy and i feel really bad and depressed

2007-12-11 16:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by Tony F 1

Over the past two months I became friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me and be nice, and even made me a cd for me a while back after she asked me if I liked a band. She also copied notes for me and asked me my number recently, so we could study together. When we got done studying and I was walking to my car she stopped and picked me up and we talked in her car. We went and got coffee at school the next day after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam. She also dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in hers. She asked me to goto church with her recently, and we've studied together outside of school and I've hung out at her house a few more times. In passing the other day she said didn't want a relationship when talking about this guy from church that called her...we hang out at her house at least once a week and she invited me to study with her today...I just can't tell if she's being nice or what.

2007-12-11 16:34:32 · 4 answers · asked by cracky 2

I'm having a party and i invited a guy i have a crush on.
Help me with some simple flirting tips?
I always come on a little too strong, and scare guys away some times.
i'm not going to hang all over him but i am going to give him a hug!
kthnx

2007-12-11 16:32:52 · 6 answers · asked by lorelei 1

im in love with this guy but were just friends were not dating but he said when i get unpunished and we hangout more he would probably see me as more than a friend. and hes always asking me if i wanna have sex with him and i always tell him no im not ready for that im still a virgin! and he respects me for that and he would do anything for me were really close friends he said im not just another peice of ***! but i love him so much and i really do think im ready to have sex with him. should i?
i would not just have sex with anybody i wanna do it with him cuz i love him and i think im ready to. but do yall think i should?

2007-12-11 16:31:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Basically to give some background. I worked with this girl. She was five years younger than me. I'm turning 23, shes turning 18 this month. I liked her, she never knew. She always hit on me, every summer we worked together. I was her boss my family owns the retail stores. I always rejected her, due to principal. I would have been all over her if it wasn't for the age difference, fact she was a minor, etc etc. My family always wanted me to date her because they would always mention how we worked good together, had same interests etc. I don't think I realized how much I liked her till I left to go back to college. I realized what a mistake I had made. I then tried to get back into contact with her over Christmas last year. I misinterpreted some stuff cause I am a moron, and ended up writing a letter to her apologizing to her thinking that I broke her heart. In reality she was breaking up with a guy and in a bad mood, her IM profile stuff and facebook stuff wasnt for me.

2007-12-11 16:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by DMan 2

do u think you should live with your girlfriend before marriage to get to know her more internally and make compatibility or after marriage since we both know we going to get marry soon.

2007-12-11 16:24:53 · 21 answers · asked by pro 1

Recently I met this really nice guy that I just attracted to straight away.
He calls/sms’s/emails me all day why im at work coz he works 3 blocks up from me… and he drives me home on a Friday when its like an hour out of his way…
We started having sex but he told me his not sure if he wants a girlfriend or just casual sex.. but then he said that he loves spending time with me and he doesn’t just want to have casual sex… im sooo confused!! What does this guy want??????

2007-12-11 16:11:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really love my boyfriend. Things are just a little comfusing. He cried when we had sex because it hurt me. He tends to cry in public at theaters in sappy movies. He cleans and cooks. I love his personality but I do not want to be the man in the relationship. I don't want to break up with him but I think that it might have to come to that. Help me.

2007-12-11 16:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by Ditzy 1

have never experienced their first girlfriend, first kiss, first real date ( I went on 2 "sort of" dates 5 years ago) and still live at home? This all applies to me. On the other hand, I am working on my masters degree, have a full time job and am very involved with my community. I just haven't been able to meet any girls anywhere. I am involved with so many things but it still doesn't help. I am also a very nice person and am decent looking. I believe I am a total package. Anyone else my age going through this. It's getting a little weird (as in I feel left out) because all my friends are getting married etc.

2007-12-11 16:08:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i meet a my a match ... and i think we are destined for love

2007-12-11 16:07:31 · 17 answers · asked by Jam-Up 2

2007-12-11 16:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by tweetybird 1

How do you mellow out just before talking with the good looking guy you like? I tend to think too much, which creates some type of stutter.. although it only occurs on the first word. By the middle of the conversation, I'm flat out comfortable.

It's obviously something everyone gets when talking with their crush. But have any tips!? Thanks :)

2007-12-11 16:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous