I miss him so much, how do I move on?

Question

we cant b together,we were together on and off since we were 14,now we're 21.I know we'd make great friends,but@this point, we need to be apart,completely, for at LEAST several months...even the smallest attempt at conversation leads to either jelousy, or rekindling feelings, which lead to drama...(trust me, it has been a cycle of break up and make up for the last 3 years)...those options=INEVITABLE. we NEED time apart....its just that, he is ALL i have kown in so many ways for the last4of the7yrs. I mean,I have my friends,family,college, but...since we were 14 we've been each others ALL...I just dont know how to move on, so that I can get to a healthy point within my self&mayb even with him or both so that we can either be friends, associates, or nothing. I mean, Ill always love and miss him but that can be healthy..i just feel so sad&lonely, i dont kno how2deal...what do i do in this healing period? talkin2him is NOT an option, even if I wanted to because it was his decision also

Answer 1

Have patience. Time is the best healer of all wounds and scars. Time also reveals every ones worth and make people realize the realities,devoid of emotions. So, have patience and keep yourself fully occupied.

Answer 2

Well,, reall love will never think if being apart from, but even after death, the sould is together,,, Just substain and be patient..

Good luck.